When I first discovered EdenFantasys, I was trying to re-kindle my interest in sex. I had lost all interest in sexual intercourse when it became extremely painful due to a large cyst that had grown inside my abdomen and was pressing against the wall of my vagina. Anytime anything else pressed against the wall of my vagina – like my husband's penis – it caused severe pain.
After seeing several OB/GYNs, I finally found one who took my problem seriously, discovered the cyst and surgically removed it. However, even though the cyst was gone, it had been a problem for so many years that I had lost all desire to have sex. In fact, I became extremely stressed at even the thought of having sex. Since my husband was and always has been very interested in having sex, and I love and want to please my husband, I started looking for ways to overcome my discomfort with the idea of sex so that my husband and I could enjoy normal sexual relations again. Thankfully, while exploring the topic of sex online, I came across the EdenFantasys website.
At first, I thought that EdenFantasys was just another sex toy store. However, when trying to decide what toys to get, I noticed that the reviews for the toys on EdenFantasys were much more detailed and informative than the reviews on other sites. Then I discovered the points program which let me earn points towards buying new toys simply by exploring the website. I created an account with EdenFantasys and started earning points. I started writing reviews and earned more points. I became active in several of the social clubs that were a part of the EdenFantasys community and won gift cards. I wrote articles that EdenFantasys published and paid for with gift cards. I kept discovering more and more ways to earn more and more sex toys.
I also discovered the EdenFantasys Forum, a place where I could ask questions and find answers about anything at all. There was no topic that was taboo. No one criticized me for my lack of knowledge or made fun of me because I was having trouble enjoying sex. Instead, I received a world of support from other members of EdenFantasys, who seemed to sincerely want to help me. It was incredible! I had never found such a supportive community online before.
So... how did all of this affect my sex life? Was I miraculously cured overnight, becoming a sexual savage who continuously ravaged her husband in search of multiple orgasms?
However, by using the toys that I received from EdenFantasys to teach myself that sex was no longer painful and that it could actually be quite pleasant, I gradually became more interested in the idea of having intercourse with my husband. Fortunately, my wonderful husband was completely supportive of my involvement with EdenFantasys – probably because he enjoyed reaping the benefits – and encouraged me to become even more active in the online community.
By writing reviews of the toys I experimented with, by talking with others online, and by writing about and sharing my issues, I gradually became more relaxed with the concept of sex in general. I started my own sex blog and joined the EdenFantasys affiliate program. I actually began to earn a small amount of money based on the toys that sold through my blog. All of this helped to make me feel more and more positive about sex. Not overnight, but over time.
Nowadays, even though I still may not want to have sex as frequently as my husband would like, I do enjoy sex, and will even sometimes initiate it. I don't know if I will ever be the sex-crazed girl that I was in college, but I am becoming a more sexually active and adventurous woman. And my husband is becoming more and more satisfied with our sex life.
Could I have made these kinds of changes in my sex life without EdenFantasys? I don't know. Probably not, or at least not as easily. I am extremely grateful that EdenFantasys exists, and I am very fortunate that I stumbled across it.
Thank you EdenFantasys!!!
P.S. My husband thanks you too. ;-)