A few years ago, The Journal of Sexual Medicine published an interesting statistic.
Out of a survey of sexually active women, 94% who’d had anal sex the last time they’d had sex had climaxed. Of the women who stuck with oral and/or vaginal sex, only 54% of them had an orgasm.
For the longest time, this statistic confused people. Did it mean that women who had anal sex were more likely to orgasm? Scientists eventually concluded the opposite – that women who’d had an orgasm were more likely to subsequently engage in anal sex.
It’s a theory that seems to have been proven last week, in a paper published by PlosOne.org.
Feelings of Disgust and Disgust-Induced Avoidance Weaken following Induced Sexual Arousal in Women, written by Charmaine Borg and Peter J. de Jong of the Department of Clinical Psychology and Experimental Psychopathology at the University of Groningen, outlined how the more sexually aroused a woman was, the more open-minded she was to things that might normally be considered “disgusting.”
Perhaps including, in the case of many women who don’t read SexIs, anal sex.
“In general the stimuli involved in sexual encounters are strongly perceived to hold high disgust qualities. Saliva, sweat, semen and body odours are among the strongest disgust elicitors,” the paper explains. “Sexual arousal temporarily reduces the disgust eliciting properties of particular stimuli.”
The theory states that the more sexually aroused a woman is, the more open-minded she is about doing things she might, in the cold light of day, think are “disgusting.” In short: The hornier she gets, the hotter the sex gets.
It’s a very important lesson for men to take into consideration. If your wife or girlfriend seems reticent about doing something kinky, perhaps the best way to warm her up to the sex act is to warm her up sexually first. Of course, that’s something you should be doing anyway – but now there’s scientific proof that the more sexual effort you put in, the more you get out.
A horny woman is the gift that just keeps giving.