Everybody loves sex. But is it bad to experiment with sex? What defines what’s acceptable and what’s forbidden in sex? Is anal sex a “bad” thing? Such questions came to my mind when my boyfriend suggested we try anal sex. I know many of you will say: “Oh, damn, why think so deep and so philosophical of such a simple matter?” and believe me I do agree with you. You see, one will never truly understand his/her sexuality or what he/she likes in sex if there is no experimentation. All I can say is that until I actually said yes and tried it did I realize what I was missing.
The feeling you get from anal sex is entirely different than vaginal sex. I won’t lie, it was completely weird at first. My first anal experience was with the Doc Johnson Butt Plug. When my boyfriend inserted it inside my butt I felt like I needed to use the restroom the entire time. Yeah, I know it sounds gross and many of you are probably wondering what is so pleasurable about that feeling. Well, this is not what I am talking about.
You see, you need to try it more than a couple of times to actually start liking it. It is the same for vaginal sex, you don't just cum from the first time you try it, and in fact many girls have had sex for a long time and have never experienced orgasm from sex alone. This is due to the lack of experimentation which leads to the ignorance of one's body. The same applies for anal sex. You need to experiment with it, and I am not talking about sex only but anal play. In fact, it is almost impossible to actually enjoy anal sex without some kind of anal play at first to prepare and relax your muscles.
Anal play is not only great for anal stimulation, but for vaginal stimulation as well. To elaborate more, let me tell you a story. I was once reading this article on techniques to help women cum stronger during sex. Surprisingly enough one of them was to have a butt plug inside your butt during sex. I didn’t believe it at first. When I tried it with my boyfriend, I came in less than 7 minutes. I don’t guarantee that it will happen with everyone but I do recommend you try it. Even my boyfriend came like crazy and filled like 1/6 of the condom. The reason behind it is that it adds a more "filling" feeling. This is because the vagina becomes tighter making the penis stimulate the clit and g-spot even stronger which gets the woman off. The tightness also stimulates your partner’s penis.
Also, the fact that it’s not common to have anal sex or that its taboo makes it hot. I am not saying that nasty and forbidden things are a turn on, but the fact that it is uncommon makes us curious to try it. I honestly prefer vaginal sex to anal, but there is no other to anal play. One advice to you ladies out there who are not sure if you want to try this with your boyfriends: Press your anus with your thumb firmly without going inside while you are masturbating (I usually do that in the shower) and you will see what a great feeling it is. Again don’t go inside (if you want you can it won’t change a thing, but just if you want to have a teasing feeling without going inside it’s still possible).
In the end I just want to say that there is nothing wrong with experiencing with one's sexuality and that I do recommend every girl to give anal play or sex a try in her life. I know it’s not for everyone and that’s okay, everyone has a different taste and different things that turn them on or arouse them. Why not try and experiment?