So, what is so dirty about the dirty deed anyways? Something that is supposed to be a part of nature has been reduced to a mere phrase in a sense of a shocking response. I love doing "the dirty deed" and if it is so dirty, why does everyone do it? This "dirty deed" as we call it is a way of life for some and a way of bringing life for all. Some may use this phrase for fun but sometimes I hear someone say it in disgust or use the phrase in excess. Phrases are phrases, but when it comes to peoples' lives it can be a bit rude. I know people say it a lot when they have masturbated, and “damn that is fun” or “don't knock it until you try it” or be so quick to judge. Don't call it the dirty deed because if what’s dirty is wrong and doing that is wrong I don't want to be right.

Also, when describing the act after a man has sex with a supposed whore or whatever the case may be, it is said in a sense of shame. People shouldn't try to downplay a beautiful act of sensuality with a dull phrasing. There are men and women who pay for school and look toward supporting an entire family on that alone, and to put someone down for that is just wrong and unjustifiable to me. I stick by my opinions and seeing as I'm in the adult industry myself, I deal with people saying degrading things every day and I've learned to respect others in the same profession and jobs just like it. Saying "doing the dirty deed" not only puts a sense of shame on the woman but also on the man. Let's be honest: just about 80 percent of the time it's the guy saying it while women will be a bit more mature about sex calling it what it is... sex. Using phrases like that only proves even more the level of immaturity of the person saying it.

English is a language I am proud to be able to speak and write, so why not use it correctly and also be able to use it better in my everyday life? We all have the opportunity to expand our thoughts and the ways we describe things by using other phrases and create different feelings entirely off of the sentences we put together. To bring it home I just hope to impart my opinions and sense of functionality to my own little world and those around me.

Here are a few phrases I thought I'd throw in to make things a little lighter: makin bacon, getting down/ and dirty, making the beast with two backs, the hanky panky, intercourse, getting frisky/ freaky, knocking boots, sexy time, doing it, the bump and grind. I'm sure there are others. Go ahead and feel free to leave a few of yours in the comments because I'd love to hear what you guys have to say.