If you’ve read my previous article concerning age, you will know it was based on my experiences with people older than me.
For some of you whom are more prone to assuming things without a lot of details, this one is not about my experiences with younger people, as I am 19, and anything naughty to do with significantly younger people than I would be a bit more illegal than I am comfortable with.
So without much more ado: This article, which has been painstakingly crafted by the army of loves slaves in the dungeon that is in my mind, is an informative piece about age play.
Age play is a rather general a term, actually, for such an oddly shaped and taboo-ish subject. So, I will separate it into a few sub-subjects. Namely: Diapers, Infantilism, and age based sexual and non-sexual role-play, with flecks and specks of psychology in between.
But let’s start with a definition shall we?
Age play is a sexual or non-sexual role-play activity in which those role-playing get into the mindset of a younger or older person. Role-playing as a younger person seems more common, however. This can be anything from having your woman wear pigtails and call you “Daddy” all the way to throwing on a diaper, getting an oversized binky and bonnet, then sitting in an adult-sized high chair and being fed jarred baby food. If you want to think of it in a less carnal or couple-based manner, however, you can even consider small children playing “House” as age-play.
So, diapers. (Since I’m terrible with segues.) Well, not diapers really. Diapers is just a hook word. Babies is what I’m really getting at. Play babies. Babies who are adults. Diapers and infantilism is what I’m trying to say, really.
Adult infants are adults who enjoy acting like babies. There are many ways in which this can be achieved.
Some people just like to be fed, burped, cooed at. Others enjoy the diapers, the changing, the pampering. Still others even go so far as to breastfeed with, for, or from an ABF.
ABF stands for “adult breast feeder.” We’ll add it to the rather monumental list of other articles I’ve said I will make at some point.
But the main theme of this activity is regressing to a younger state. In which I can certainly see the appeal.
I, myself, have engaged in ageplay. I’ve always liked my female companions to call me things like “Daddy” or “Mister.” Little girl voice turns me on, and I just think footy pajamas are cute all over. I haven’t gone so far as to have a girl pee in a diaper so I could change her, or found pleasure in feeding a girlfriend mushy peas yet, but I definitely haven’t ruled it out.
I’m not entirely sure what it is about it, but I most enjoy getting to take care of someone. Treat them tenderly and get to pretend for awhile that they’re innocent. It’s a warm feeling when a short pigtailed girl in footy pajamas lays on my chest. It’s a way I can bond with my spouse on a very intimate and personal level, without having to resort to sexuality. Though yeah, sexual things do happen when the footy pajamas and pigtails are still on.
Do you remember a simpler time? When your primary concern was making sure you were totally satisfied, and everyone agreed? For the sake of all things reasonable, I’m going to assume you aren’t still like that, and when you were, you were still somewhere between infant and toddler.
Think of how it might be to leave your stressful adult life behind, and be little self-centered brat again, without having everyone think you’re being a jerk for it. Even in a non-sexual context, the feeling of wanting to be younger is always around.
“I wish I didn’t have to do taxes.”
“I wish I didn’t have to take care of all the housework.”
Or simply, “I wish I could just sit down for a second.”
The stress and anxiety of everyday life can be shed when one dons their diaper, or perhaps puts their hair in pigtails, then curls up in the arms of their lover and snuggles in.
You see... This whole thing isn’t about getting off. It’s about psychology. It’s about Freud. It’s about your mom, and dad, and daughter, and son.
It’s the love that shouldn't be creepy. It’s the lust that isn’t yet old enough to speak it’s own name, or at least likes to pretend it can’t. It’s about letting all the pressure out, or taking on the weight of another’s shoulders and knowing they love you for it.
Age play is about being how old you want to be, because the age you are either doesn’t fit you, or doesn’t suit your wants and needs. Like every other role-play.
Now, (kisses your forehead) go brush your teeth, and I’ll be in to tuck you in in a bit.
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