Overall, I felt that this was maybe not the toy for me. I need a vibe that has more intense vibrations than those that I got with this toy. Its girth is not something for a beginner to use as it will be uncomfortable. I enjoyed the length immensely and was able to work up to the thickness of the vibe. More intense vibrations would have made me so much happier with this toy. I am an intense vibration girl and this just didn't cut it with me.