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Sat, 17 Dec 2011 23:03:57 GMT
Five Techy Toys That Can Change Your Sex Life by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/techy-toys-change-sex-life-1216111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/techy-toys-change-sex-life-1216111/#ArticleID-2637 Five Techy Toys That Can Change Your Sex Life Phone sex, raunchy emails, and sexting are classics now. What can you do that hot-and-heavy partners couldn’t do ten years ago? Plenty, as it turns out. Have a quick peek at five stars of the new generation of sex tech ... read article

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Sun, 11 Dec 2011 23:51:22 GMT
Chronic Pain: Stop it from Sucking the Fun Out of Your Sex Life by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/chronic-pain-and-sex-1201111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/chronic-pain-and-sex-1201111/#ArticleID-2581 Chronic Pain: Stop it from Sucking the Fun Out of Your Sex Life Though chronic pain has become a more medically-recognized condition, whether as a complication of another diagnosis or an unexplained phenomenon existing by itself, one frontier remains: How do people with chronic pain ... read article

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Thu, 01 Dec 2011 11:56:07 GMT
Denial of Sterilization as a Form of Birth Control: Discrimination or Due Diligence? by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/denial-of-sterilization-as-birth-control-1007111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/denial-of-sterilization-as-birth-control-1007111/#ArticleID-2360 Denial of Sterilization as a Form of Birth Control: Discrimination or Due Diligence? Nothing polarizes debate like birth control. Though many high-profile arguments rage on about abortion, the “morning-after” pill, and insurance payments for birth control pills, sterilization is an often overlooked but ... read article

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Thu, 06 Oct 2011 22:53:14 GMT
Sex Hacker: Six Tricks to Tweak Your Sex Life by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/cobalt-sex-hacker-six-tricks-0914111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/cobalt-sex-hacker-six-tricks-0914111/#ArticleID-2269 Sex Hacker: Six Tricks to Tweak Your Sex Life If you’ve ever had one of those “I never knew my smartphone could do that!” moments, you know how much fun it is to discover those little tricks that can change an activity forever. Even when your between-the-sheets life ... read article

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Wed, 14 Sep 2011 11:52:51 GMT
Real Person Slash — Does It Cross The Line? by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/cobalt-real-person-slash-cross-line-0830111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/cobalt-real-person-slash-cross-line-0830111/#ArticleID-2205 Real Person Slash — Does It Cross The Line? By now, slash is practically a household word in fandom, and a “slasher” isn’t just a gory movie anymore. But the kind of slash that’s about Frodo and Sam or Kirk and Spock has a redheaded stepchild: real person slash ... read article

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Tue, 30 Aug 2011 12:28:56 GMT
The Sensual Seduction of Summer Fruit by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/appetites-project-summer-fruit-0811115/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/appetites-project-summer-fruit-0811115/#ArticleID-2132 The Sensual Seduction of Summer Fruit Too warm to indulge in steak and chocolate lava brownies on your date? Not to worry — this time of year, fresh, ripe, succulent fruit abounds, and it can be every bit as sensuous. read article

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Fri, 29 Jul 2011 20:49:31 GMT
Google Plus Might Be a Minus for Sexuality Communities by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/google-plus-transgender-queer-anonymity-0729111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/google-plus-transgender-queer-anonymity-0729111/#ArticleID-2081 Google Plus Might Be a Minus for Sexuality Communities It's what every geek wants this summer: an invite to the beta of Google Plus, the social network du jour. As with any beta, problems abound — but one in particular is causing quite a fuss. Why is Google Plus the latest ... read article

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Fri, 29 Jul 2011 10:29:26 GMT
The Secret Life of the Polyamorous by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/the-secret-life-of-polyamorous-0720111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/the-secret-life-of-polyamorous-0720111/#ArticleID-2044 The Secret Life of the Polyamorous What they don't tell you when you sign up to join a poly household... read article

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Sun, 03 Jul 2011 01:30:48 GMT
How To Survive Your First Kink Party by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/surviving-your-first-kink-party-0620111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/surviving-your-first-kink-party-0620111/#ArticleID-1902 How To Survive Your First Kink Party You've made the decision to take the plunge: you're going to your first kinky party. Half of what you hear is talk about how important etiquette is, and the other half is about how you should just relax and be yourself. ... read article

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Wed, 08 Jun 2011 15:09:27 GMT
Bromance: Our favorite on-screen male/male couples. by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/bromance-0603111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/bromance-0603111/#ArticleID-1834 Bromance: Our favorite on-screen male/male couples. The Bromance: the most versatile relationship two (or more) characters can enjoy. It's uniquely suited to the varying desires of a full-spectrum public: to some, it's a depiction of buddies. To others, it's an ... read article

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Tue, 31 May 2011 17:35:23 GMT
Does Carpal Tunnel Syndrome Complicate Your Sex Life? by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/carpel-tunnel-interfers-with-sexlife-0519111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/carpel-tunnel-interfers-with-sexlife-0519111/#ArticleID-1765 Does Carpal Tunnel Syndrome Complicate Your Sex Life? It’s more and more common these days. If you don’t suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome or its familiars, one of your partners probably does. And CTS is a bitch to deal with in the sack. But never fear: as with all other ... read article

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Thu, 19 May 2011 10:31:56 GMT
Polyamory for Monogamists by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/polyamory-for-monogamists-0502115/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/polyamory-for-monogamists-0502115/#ArticleID-1679 Polyamory for Monogamists Whether you're the one excited about trying poly or the partner who's been approached to open up the relationship, you don't have to just guess and hope about the outcome of this venture. There are things to think about, ... read article

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Mon, 02 May 2011 12:39:00 GMT
Vaginal Fisting Is Good For You. by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/vaginal-fisting-debates-0418115/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/vaginal-fisting-debates-0418115/#ArticleID-1617 Vaginal Fisting Is Good For You. Plenty of folks are eager to warn you of the dangers of vaginal fisting: you'll either tear something, be loose forever, or end up desperate to find bigger and stranger insertables until the point of absurdity, right? ... read article

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Mon, 18 Apr 2011 12:49:25 GMT
Advanced Roleplay: A Manual for Making the Fantasy Happen by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/advanced-roleplay-0404115/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/advanced-roleplay-0404115/#ArticleID-1554 Advanced Roleplay: A Manual for Making the Fantasy Happen You've heard the roles before: naughty nurse, horny pizza guy, frisky babysitter, suave pool boy...but what if the roleplay you're into doesn't fit into porn's top ten? Whatever your ideal fantasy scenario is, you can ... read article

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Mon, 04 Apr 2011 13:01:56 GMT
The Appetites Project: Planning A Diabetic Menu For Romance by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/the-appetites-project-diabetics-0321115/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/the-appetites-project-diabetics-0321115/#ArticleID-1487 The Appetites Project: Planning A Diabetic Menu For Romance When our society thinks of sexy treats, we usually think of truffles, whipped cream, chocolate fondue, dessert wines...all things that can be extremely unfriendly to diabetic partners. As with any other dietary ... read article

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Mon, 21 Mar 2011 13:25:25 GMT
Combating Cat Interference In Your Sex Life by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/combatting-cat-interference-0304111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/combatting-cat-interference-0304111/#ArticleID-1415 Combating Cat Interference In Your Sex Life You have a cat, you know the deal: ownership goes both ways. Your furry companion has some ideas about when and how you should offer up affection, entertainment, and snacks. Often, those of us with cats fancy ourselves ... read article

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Fri, 04 Mar 2011 10:04:28 GMT
The Appetites Project: Tea by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/the-appetites-project-tea-0224115/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/the-appetites-project-tea-0224115/#ArticleID-1383 The Appetites Project: Tea It might not seem obvious, but tea can be intensely sexy. If you're looking for a warm, sumptuous drink to share with your partner(s), there are teas that will knock your socks off. Some teas are great options for ... read article

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Thu, 24 Feb 2011 12:35:12 GMT
Forget the Hearts & Flowers: A Kinkier Guide to Valentine's Day by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/anti-valentine-guide-to-valentines-day-0207111/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/anti-valentine-guide-to-valentines-day-0207111/#ArticleID-1295 Forget the Hearts & Flowers: A Kinkier Guide to Valentine's Day Not everyone is a “roses-n-chocolates” kind of lover. Some of us are even irked by the idea of a greeting-card-industry “holiday.” But that doesn't have to stop them from making the most of the sexy mood permeating ... read article

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Mon, 07 Feb 2011 09:27:08 GMT
The Appetites Project: Bananas by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/appetites-project-bananas-0127114/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/appetites-project-bananas-0127114/#ArticleID-1247 The Appetites Project: Bananas The humble banana has been the butt of many sexual jokes, but who says sex—or the meal in advance of it—has to be serious? Or that bananas can’t be classy? Bananas really can shine in the starring role of your date-night ... read article

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Thu, 27 Jan 2011 12:26:43 GMT
Transgender Travelers vs. the TSA by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/trangender-vs-the-tsa-0111113/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/trangender-vs-the-tsa-0111113/#ArticleID-1166 Transgender Travelers vs. the TSA There’s a lot of outrage about the TSA’s “enhanced patdowns” (their term) and “pornoscanners” (the media’s) going around. Despite all the coverage, one important problem has been overlooked— but then, it always has: How ... read article

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Tue, 11 Jan 2011 12:32:25 GMT
Sex and Pomegranates 101 by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/sex-and-pomegranates-101-appetites-1230103/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/sex-and-pomegranates-101-appetites-1230103/#ArticleID-1112 Sex and Pomegranates 101 Pomegranates: They’re sexy, they’re mysterious, and they’re completely impenetrable to pomegranate virgins. How the hell do you eat them, and are they worth the work? If you’re a sensual foodie, absolutely! read article

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Thu, 30 Dec 2010 11:37:36 GMT
Chocolate, Chocolate Everywhere by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/appetites-chocolate-1209104/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/appetites-chocolate-1209104/#ArticleID-1007 Chocolate, Chocolate Everywhere  read article

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Thu, 09 Dec 2010 12:31:45 GMT
Steak: A Guide for the Carnal Carnivore by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/appetites-steak-1028103/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/appetites-steak-1028103/#ArticleID-902 Steak: A Guide for the Carnal Carnivore Steak is a no-brainer. We all know of it as a decadent food, but how do you make a truly sexy steak? And if your honey is vegetarian, what then? Let’s talk about meat, baby. What’s on your plate (veggie or otherwise) can ... read article

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Thu, 28 Oct 2010 12:34:17 GMT
Is the iPod Touch One “Bad” Apple? by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/ipod-touch-makes-sexual-connection-1007103/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/ipod-touch-makes-sexual-connection-1007103/#ArticleID-854 Is the iPod Touch One “Bad” Apple? For the past three years, Apple’s iPod Touch has been the company’s biggest success with consumers under 18. Now that the device’s newest upgrades include the same video chat feature in the iPhone that was immediately ... read article

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Thu, 07 Oct 2010 12:30:35 GMT
The Appetites Project: What to Serve For Dinner When Sex is on the Menu by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/kal-cobalt-pre-sex-meal-0923103/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/kal-cobalt-pre-sex-meal-0923103/#ArticleID-825 The Appetites Project: What to Serve For Dinner When Sex is on the Menu What’s fueling your next naughty romp? If you’ve ever tried to get down with an empty stomach or felt frisky after a heavy meal, you know that the state of your stomach has a lot to do with the success of your sex. How ... read article

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Thu, 23 Sep 2010 12:32:44 GMT
Plugged In: Dildo Tech by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-shopping/plugged-in-dildo-tech-0909103/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-shopping/plugged-in-dildo-tech-0909103/#ArticleID-788 Plugged In: Dildo Tech It’s easy to make healthy choices about dildos today. Whether you’re concerned about the phthalates in rubber, have a latex allergy, or want a toy you can throw in the dishwasher between partners, there’s something on ... read article

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Thu, 09 Sep 2010 12:37:23 GMT
Plugged In: Push-Button Orgasms by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-instant-orgasms-0826103/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-instant-orgasms-0826103/#ArticleID-758 Plugged In: Push-Button Orgasms If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Then again, innovation is always propelling us forward into realities we couldn’t possibly have imagined. The concept of orgasm on demand has been around for a long time, ... read article

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Thu, 26 Aug 2010 12:36:58 GMT
Plugged In: The Instant Gratification Anomaly by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-too-much-satisfaction-0812102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-too-much-satisfaction-0812102/#ArticleID-729 Plugged In: The Instant Gratification Anomaly  read article

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Thu, 12 Aug 2010 12:27:32 GMT
Plugged In: Sex Scandals Made Easy by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-sex-scandals-made-simple-0729102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-sex-scandals-made-simple-0729102/#ArticleID-698 Plugged In: Sex Scandals Made Easy Oh, technology. You bring us fabulous new discoveries, connect us with humans across the globe, and make sex scandals much, much juicier. What once were salacious accusations without evidence are now proven indiscretions ... read article

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Thu, 29 Jul 2010 12:28:24 GMT
Winged Victory: Opening Minds and Hearts with the Power of Art by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/aids-arts-angels-in-america-0721102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/aids-arts-angels-in-america-0721102/#ArticleID-683 Winged Victory: Opening Minds and Hearts with the Power of Art  read article

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Wed, 21 Jul 2010 12:28:03 GMT
Plugged In: Internet Censorship by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-internet-censorship-0714102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-internet-censorship-0714102/#ArticleID-669 Plugged In: Internet Censorship Technology is widely touted as the anti-censor, opening up realms of knowledge from the mundane to the sublime to all people with unlimited access. But all Internet connections are not created equal, and the controversy ... read article

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Thu, 15 Jul 2010 12:26:43 GMT
Plugged In: Checking Out Checking In by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-check-in-websites-0701102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-check-in-websites-0701102/#ArticleID-638 Plugged In: Checking Out Checking In Most people enjoy a little discretion when it comes to nookie. At the very least, they'd rather not broadcast their boffing to friends, family, and co-workers—especially when there's some kink involved. However, the ... read article

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Thu, 01 Jul 2010 12:47:01 GMT
Plugged In: Teledildonics by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-bluetooth-sex-0617102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-bluetooth-sex-0617102/#ArticleID-609 Plugged In: Teledildonics  read article

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Thu, 17 Jun 2010 12:29:32 GMT
Plugged In: Project Natal by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-project-natal-0603102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-project-natal-0603102/#ArticleID-578 Plugged In: Project Natal The Next Big Thing in gaming: Project Natal, Microsoft's revolutionary platform that uses the player's entire body as the controller. No more “gamer's thumb,” no more Wiimotes flying through TV screens–just your body and ... read article

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Thu, 03 Jun 2010 12:36:12 GMT
Plugged In: Future Sex by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-future-sex-0520102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/plugged-in-future-sex-0520102/#ArticleID-548 Plugged In: Future Sex  read article

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Thu, 20 May 2010 12:43:19 GMT
Plugged In: iPorn—Is the Sin in the App or the Apple? by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-no-porn-apps-for-iphone-0506102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-no-porn-apps-for-iphone-0506102/#ArticleID-518 Plugged In: iPorn—Is the Sin in the App or the Apple? Technology and porn have always been butt buddies, but the most prudish mobile device out there is the one in everyone’s pocket. The iPhone acts like your paranoid Aunt Marge when it comes to sexy apps, even though its ... read article

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Thu, 06 May 2010 12:37:29 GMT
Plugged In: Chatroulette by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kal-colbalt-plugged-in-chatroulette-0422102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kal-colbalt-plugged-in-chatroulette-0422102/#ArticleID-498 Plugged In: Chatroulette With all the mainstream exposure, has Chatroulette remained the edgy, dangerous place we first heard about? read article

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Thu, 22 Apr 2010 12:31:53 GMT
Genderqueer Etiquette by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/navigating-genderqueer-etiquette-0330102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/navigating-genderqueer-etiquette-0330102/#ArticleID-467 Genderqueer Etiquette “Genderqueer” is often the equivalent of the “Potpourri” category on Jeopardy! It’s where things that don’t fit in any other category hang out. read article

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Tue, 30 Mar 2010 12:52:54 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Suspension Bondage by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-suspension-bondage-0217102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-suspension-bondage-0217102/#ArticleID-422 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Suspension Bondage  read article

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Wed, 17 Feb 2010 12:28:53 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: CBT by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/kink-cbt-0210102/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/kink-cbt-0210102/#ArticleID-412 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: CBT CBT: It all makes sense until that last letter. Cock and ball...torture? Really? If you were raised on “guy gets smacked in the junk” clips on America's Funniest Home Videos, or if you possess junk that prefers a little ... read article

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Wed, 10 Feb 2010 12:34:25 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Objectification by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-objectification-0120101/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-objectification-0120101/#ArticleID-380 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Objectification If you've ever filled out a BDSM checklist, chances are you've seen a question about whether you enjoy “serving as furniture.” Or you might have run across someone who gets hot when referred to as “it.” What's the allure ... read article

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Wed, 20 Jan 2010 09:32:04 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Consensual Slavery by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-slavery-0106101/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-slavery-0106101/#ArticleID-361 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Consensual Slavery Is there happiness in slavery? When a collar isn't just jewelry but means something, what does it mean? Let's talk fact and fiction when it comes to living under contract. read article

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Wed, 06 Jan 2010 09:31:09 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Medical Play by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-corner-medical-122391/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-corner-medical-122391/#ArticleID-340 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Medical Play White coats, stethoscopes, and nurses standing by? Ooh la la! A surprising number of folks get faint at the thought of a little medical porn, or medical equipment—and those are two very different kinks. The doctor will ... read article

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Wed, 23 Dec 2009 09:32:04 GMT
Your Kiss, Your Fist by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/fisting-121692/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/fisting-121692/#ArticleID-331 Your Kiss, Your Fist Of all the things crammed into pussies and asses through the ages, the fist maintains an underground popularity that's baffling from the outside. What is it about fisting that captures the minds (and hands) of its ... read article

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Wed, 16 Dec 2009 12:27:48 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Knife Play by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-knife-play-120991/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-knife-play-120991/#ArticleID-320 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Knife Play Knives and sex with no felonies involved? It's possible. It can even be part of a fun Friday night. How do you mix sharp blades with tender bits? Here are five points (I'm sorry) for living on the edge (I'm so, so sorry) ... read article

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Wed, 09 Dec 2009 09:29:52 GMT
The World AIDS Day Project: No Dominion by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/hiv-aids-lgbt-reflections-120491/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/hiv-aids-lgbt-reflections-120491/#ArticleID-311 The World AIDS Day Project: No Dominion When a novice swimmer dives head-first into the deep end of gay culture and emerges illuminated, her path to sexual emancipation via safer means becomes stunningly clear. read article

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Fri, 04 Dec 2009 09:29:04 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Predicament Bondage by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-predicament-bondage-111891/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-predicament-bondage-111891/#ArticleID-292 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Predicament Bondage Bondage is often devious, but no bondage is quite as sly as predicament bondage. Every minute is a mind game and every movement an act of will. Here are five whys and hows of this nasty little game. read article

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Wed, 18 Nov 2009 09:53:24 GMT
The 7 Year Itch: A Look Back at Secretary by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/bdsm-secretary-111191/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/bdsm-secretary-111191/#ArticleID-283 The 7 Year Itch: A Look Back at Secretary “The sweetest romantic comedy about S&M since, well...ever,” says Blackbook of the then-quirky, now-seminal film Secretary. Was it a massive step toward the mainstreaming of kinky culture or a lopsided portrayal that did ... read article

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Wed, 11 Nov 2009 09:33:32 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Corsets by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-corsets-102892/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-corsets-102892/#ArticleID-262 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Corsets Corsetry isn't just for Victoriana enthusiasts. The dramatic lines of a corseted figure is custom-made for the high-fashion fetishwear subset of BDSM culture, and the restrictive nature of the garment allows for all ... read article

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Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:35:16 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Latex by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-latex-102191/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-latex-102191/#ArticleID-248 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Latex Have you ever found yourself confronted with a piece of latex fetishwear and wondered what that familiar tingle was all about? Chances are, your brain recognized the basic scent of condoms—ooh la la! So what is it that ... read article

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Wed, 21 Oct 2009 09:58:02 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: OTK Spanking by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-spanking-100791/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-spanking-100791/#ArticleID-234 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: OTK Spanking If you're looking for a way to try out kink that's free, easy, and likely to have good results, this one’s for you. Spanking as sexual titillation goes a lot further than the trope of the 1950s secretary getting a slap ... read article

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Wed, 07 Oct 2009 09:59:44 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Bastinado by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-bastinado-93091/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-bastinado-93091/#ArticleID-226 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Bastinado It sounds pretty, but it feels mean. Bastinado is the practice of beating the soles of the feet. Why do it? You know the drill by now: if this is your sole exposure (sorry!) to bastinado, read on for five little piggies' ... read article

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Wed, 30 Sep 2009 10:16:05 GMT
AbahJake's comment https://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/kalcobalt/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/kalcobalt/#PostId-116740 Your article on animal roleplaying was rad, and I am really enjoying the whole series. It's near impossible to stuff such big subjects into 500 words or less, and you somehow manage it elegantly. Looking forward to ... read more

Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:12:47 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Animal Roleplaying by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-animal-roleplay-92391/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-animal-roleplay-92391/#ArticleID-219 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Animal Roleplaying Why is that cutie on the bus wearing a dog collar? Why is that yuppie breathing heavy in the bridle aisle? Animal roleplay is a surprisingly popular form of kink, with puppies, kitties, and ponies the apparent favorites. ... read article

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Wed, 23 Sep 2009 09:59:09 GMT
dirtypiggy's comment https://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/kalcobalt/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/kalcobalt/#PostId-113832 I'm thrilled over the latest Kink Corner on Masochism! I'm especially impressed over the distinction you made between masochism and submission. It is so often thought of as the same thing. Even though AM that commonly ... read more

Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:40:01 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Masochism by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-masochism-90992/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-masochism-90992/#ArticleID-205 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Masochism Masochism is just about liking pain, right? Wrong. There’s a lot more to it. Here are five things your momma never told you about pain sluts. read article

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Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:06:11 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Sadism by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-sadism-90292/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-sadism-90292/#ArticleID-196 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Sadism Is making someone hurt an act of cruelty or an act of love? If you said “either one, and sometimes both,” you get a gold star (and I’ll see you at the dungeon). If you didn’t, read on: Here come five points that might ... read article

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Wed, 02 Sep 2009 13:03:05 GMT
dirtypiggy's comment https://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/kalcobalt/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/kalcobalt/#PostId-111164 I love your writing style and range of your subject matter. It is wonderful to see well-informed writing on kink and BDSM. These subjects are often ignored by mainstream, sex-positive sources. Considering how many people ... read more

Wed, 26 Aug 2009 14:08:28 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Needleplay by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/the-kink-corner-with-kal/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/the-kink-corner-with-kal/#ArticleID-178 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Needleplay Most people don't think of needles as sexual or erotic, but even the shallowest consideration yields some obvious reasons for that association: needles penetrate the body and afford access to bodily fluids in a way few ... read article

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Wed, 19 Aug 2009 12:59:29 GMT
The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Tickling by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-tickling-81292/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/kink-tickling-81292/#ArticleID-172 The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: Tickling For some of us, tickling is an activity we remember from summer camps and evenings with the family, either fondly or agonizingly (or both). For others, the enforced abandonment of control and reflexive, hysterical ... read article

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Wed, 12 Aug 2009 13:05:14 GMT
Robot Sex by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/robot-sex/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/robot-sex/#ArticleID-134 Robot Sex For as long as robots have been a concept in the human imagination, we have been plagued by questions: Is advanced artificial intelligence possible? Can machines devoid of emotion truly understand the human condition? ... read article

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Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:46:27 GMT
Exes & Sexes: The Twits of Splitsville by Kal Cobalt https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/love-web20-social-60492/ https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/love-web20-social-60492/#ArticleID-98 Exes & Sexes: The Twits of Splitsville From Facebook to Twitter to Myspace to AIM, YIM, and Skype, our love lives have transitioned seamlessly into the constantly evolving fabric of Web 2.0. But what do you, a savvy social networker, do when your love live ... read article

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Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:21:11 GMT