Imagine being invited by your parents or even your in laws for the holidays or weekend, and you and your partner start passionately kissing. Slowly the touching starts and then when both of you are in the mood, you have to decide whether or not you will pursue your sexcapade.

I know, you must be thinking "why don't you just rent a room?" But why pay $100 just to have sex? Why should two grown adults hide that they are sexually active? I personally believe that when the moment is good, you should not stop yourself within reason.

There are many things you have to consider before you and your partner go to orgasm heaven. Remember you aren't at home and you should always assume that the walls are paper thin. I should know this considering I live in a condo and my neighbors can hear me have sex, so now imagine being in the same house. If you are a quiet person, you should be fine, but if you love vocalizing you can always whisper and if you are a screamer, hold your tongue or at least stuff your mouth with a pillow. I'm a huge fan of sex with my Fairy Wand but I'm sure everyone would hear it so this is something that will probably not work very well.

Things can get scary when you aren't familiar with the lifestyle or manners of your hosts, but if you already know them then you should have this down to a T. Lock your doors. The last thing you want is your in law walking in on you while you are naked and possibly ruin your orgasm. I know I love the fact that I can get caught and that is dangerously sexy and would make things much better for us, but for someone to actually walk in would make me freak out and never see them again. Many families I have encountered walk in without a moments notice. So always lock, especially if there are kids in the house. Kids do not ever knock.

Now this is the one thing that scares me most, especially when it's not my home. Squeaky beds!! They scare me because then they will definitely hear you getting down and dirty and it's almost as bad as being walked in on. I am very open but somehow the fact that they could hear hours of bed squeaking would make me red to the face every time I see them.
If the bed is squeaky you can always try the floor or a midnight shower fun. Either sex or sleep, squeaky beds can be an annoyance especially when sleeping with someone who moves a lot.

Now while things won't be like they would be at home especially if you're into sex swings, vocalizing, loud Fairy Wands or anything in general that requires a big set up, you should never deny yourself a piece of orgasm heaven. It will make you and partner have a more pleasant time especially when in such small quarters with family.