"She represents a powerful male fantasy of a highly sexual, supremely confident, alluring female offering endless pleasure and a bit of danger."
You may ask, why take sexual advice from a stripper? Strippers are pros at the art of seduction. Every dollar they make each night is based on how well they have mastered this art. During my years in the business, I learned a few tricks that are helping to revive my sex life today.
Men love to be seduced. For them, the thrill is normally in the chase and not the conquest. Seduction is an art form. Yes, most of us know how to flirt and tease a little. However to be a seductress, you must learn to carry yourself with confidence and poise. Let your man know that you are confident with your sexuality. Let him know that you know what you want. But most of all, make him long for you. When he wants you, play hard to get. Then with a smile, flirt back a little. Let him chase you, giving him just enough to keep him nibbling.
Don’t throw yourself at him half naked when he walks through the door. Rather, slowly seduce him by wearing something skimpy but covering. By wearing an outfit that leaves something to the imagination, his interest will be perked. When he comes home from a long day at work, bend over and let him sneak a peek as you prepare to serve dinner. Lift up your skirt and tap your bottom as you round the corner. Try brushing against him, from time to time, with a big smile.
Let him know what you want later. Try whispering in his ear while you run your knee up his inner thigh. Then, walk away. Make him want to chase you. With a light tap on the bottom, ask him if he’s been a bad boy. Then, tell him what you have planned later if he is good. Or even try sitting on his lap and taking the remote while you allude to how wet you are for him. Then get up to finish the evening chores. This is sure to get his attention.
Take control of the sexual tone. If you are in a sexy mood and want a soft and sensual night, set the atmosphere. Have the bedroom filled with candles and draw a bath for your partner. Play soft music for him as you use your womanly ways to ignite his passion. Maybe you are in the mood to take control. Dress the part and think the part. From the moment your partner walks in the door, take control. Let him know that he is yours to do with as you want. Break out of the mold, and let your partner know what you are in the mood for and facilitate it.
Bring some variety to your playtime. No matter what your mood or what you want that night, be sure to mix it up. Men love to show off their abilities in all sorts of sexual situations. Let him thrive by encouraging new and exciting ways to play. Allow him to act out his hidden fantasies. If you don’t have a few ideas of your own, try finding ideas from porn clips. Add some different types of sexual aids, toys, or roleplaying. Be imaginative, step out of your comfort zone, and let your inner sexual creature come to life. It is sure to drive him crazy.
Being sexually confident enough to seduce your partner may not be where you are at this moment. However, don’t let this hinder you. I promise the more you fib your way through it the more confidence you gain. The number one thing is, let what is normal and routine fall to the wayside and find the type of variety that you both will enjoy. Remember the thrill is not in arriving, it is in the journey.