Sex Ends With Orgasm/Ejaculation
Some people focus on sex as purely a way to have an orgasm, but it is far from this. Sex is about an emotional connection and means many different things to different people. Some people who are into BDSM or have fetishes are completely focused on something other than an orgasm. Realistically, sex is about creating an emotional experience that leaves both partners satisfied. Certain people get headaches or painful orgasms and prefer to never have one. Others are only satisfied after multiple orgasms. So sex isn’t just about an orgasm; it is about a pleasurable experience.
Secondly, sex does not end when a male ejaculates. For some men, they can continue having sex and never lose their erection even after they have ejaculated. If a man is unable to continue having penetrative sex though, that doesn’t mean sex ends. Toys can be used, oral sex can take place, manual stimulation can take place, you can cuddle, make out, or wait until he is able to get an erection again. Again this is similar to the first part, sex does not need to focus around an orgasm; it can focus around whatever both of you want.
Her Period Means No Sex
Her period is when she sheds part of her uterine lining. The uterus builds up tissue in case of a pregnancy, because that tissue provides the baby with nutrients it requires. Each month it sheds it and grows a new one. So there is nothing dangerous or actually preventing you from having sex. There is nothing dangerous about having period sex. It’s just a bit of tissue that is leaving the body.
The second part of this myth is that no woman wants to have sex during her period, but actually many women are at their horniest at this time of the month. From personal experience, my girlfriend definitely is. You will meet some women who are uncomfortable with it, but lots of woman absolutely love it.
The vagina gets a bit swollen during a woman’s period and this can actually create a more pleasurable sensation. Because the tissue swells, you can get a tighter and more intense sensation for both partners. You can also get some additional fluid making it wetter, also adding to the experience. Woman can experience cramps during their period, but sex can actually cause the muscles to relax and can alleviate some of those cramps. So there is another additional benefit.
Finally, to deal with the mess issue. During her period, typically only 2 tablespoons of blood are lost over the course of 4 to 7 days. So really there is not that much blood. So there is not that much mess. You might find some blood on your sheets and genitals, but there really is not that much blood. It is quite easy to throw down a towel and really have no mess. I have personally given my girlfriend oral sex when she is on her period and didn’t notice anything different. There was a slight change in taste, but that was it.
Size = Pleasure
This myth just is not true. If a man has a penis over 4 inches, he can have sex with a woman. And he can provide her with pleasure. Men who are very large can be uncomfortable and painful for some women and they actually do not prefer it. Some women also do not find penetrative sex to be as enjoyable as other forms of sex. Regardless of your penis size, you have a tongue and fingers and those can bring a woman to orgasm easier than a penis in certain cases. Overall there are just loads of people who will agree that penis size is not the deciding factor if sex is pleasurable or not.
You Can’t Get Pregnant On Your Period
Sperm can have a lifespan of up to one week. Because of this, it is possible for you to ejaculate in a woman, have the sperm live around until ovulation occurs and still get pregnant. So it is very possible for you to get pregnant during your period and you should still use protection. It is less likely than at other times, but it is still very possible.
Men Who Like Anal Are Secretly Gay
There are many men who enjoy anal stimulation. There are lots of nerves surrounding the anus, so it can be pleasurable to stimulate it. On top of that, many men find it enjoyable to stimulate their prostate. This is completely independent of their sexuality. I personally enjoy anal and prostate stimulation, but am attracted to my girlfriend. So if your boyfriend ever shares that he wants to try some anal stimulation and tells you he is heterosexual, then he is heterosexual. If a woman can enjoy anal stimulation without being gay, there is no reason a male cannot enjoy anal stimulation without being gay.