Get (or give) a great massage with natural soy wax, a small list of ingredients that are all pronounceable, and smell like a delicious drink while you're doing it!
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Tantric Flame Extinguisher
All in all if you are looking for a candle to use in an intimate way I would tell you to stay away from this one. It's a wonderful thing that it is all natural and has never been tested on animals but the overall quality is not there for the price.