I find this toy to be super exciting. If you like the game Truth or Dare, it's really worth it. It is so much fun, and it eliminates the problem of struggling to come up with a dare for your partner because you are so turned on that you can't focus. Instead, you just pick up a card and there are great questions there for the asking. I think you could have more fun with this deck of cards than with most intricate, more expensive, board-style sex games.