For us, this toy was worth the money. It works with our anatomies. It fits the type of sex we have. It took some getting used to, but the outcome was great. As an FTM, I can say that it's great to be able to please my girl as a cisgendered man would, but also be getting off to it. It feels natural, like an extension of myself. My pleasure isn't an afterthought. We both enjoy and cum over and over from this. The Share XL was perfect for us.