The wing is a fun looking shape that promises the user hands free stimulation, which is easier said than done. Toys, even those that have drag and should stay in the hole, don't stay in the hole. The pillow is quite thick, so the elevation might be too high for some, creating uncomfortable penetration. It might work better for those who have harness based or suction cup toys. So far, the best use it has got was from being laid down on for massages.