Most of us, at least once, have heard stories about frigid women, who have never experienced and orgasm in their entire lives used vibrators and discovered, for the first time in their lives, what sexual pleasure really is. Well, these are not fairy tales at all, with one single exception - it happens indeed but not just like that, at once. You have to know more to be able to enjoy the pleasure of sex.
Adult toys are not quite exactly the solution.
Believe it or not, but not everybody can enjoy the pleasing moments with an adult toy, no matter how hard the manufacturers and frigid women try to convince you. Jocelyn Saurini, a sex expert, tells that not everyone finds the idea of using sex toys comfortable and agreeable. Someone doesn't like the vibrations, the noise, the texture, the forms, the smell or how the feel, while others accept sex only with a partner. Even the idea of using one together with the partner turns them off. Also, parental authority could be an impediment for people to use adult toys, as during their youth they were always being told that adult toys are "bad" and it is indisputable. Others just don't like them. Nevertheless, on the other hand, millions of people do find adult toys, especially vibrators, an innovative and rather delightful way of keeping their sexuality in blossom. This fact should be at least tempting for those who had never tried one but are still looking forward to.
Experiment with different toys
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If you start looking via internet for adult toys that you're interested to try, then you most probably will come to a huge sparkling advertising wall, with all the possible and impossible offers from the sex toys retailers but you still have to make your choice. If you despise one TV channel it doesn't mean you don't like television at all, same rule can be applied to adult toys - if one of them had disappointed you it doesn't mean all of them are going to be the same, just find your "channel". Everbody needs an individaul approach, as, in a way, everyone of us is unique, with her/his own ways of getting excited and desires of being stimulated. For example, lots of women say there is nothing better than the Rabbit Pearl vibrator, while others keep claiming that Hitachi Magic Wand is the real miracle of the industry. Who should you trust? You can find an answer only by trying more than one toy, the toy that will shake your world.
What you should keep in mind, is that sex toys, whether it's a Rabbit Pearl or some other sex toy, are just one ingredient in the list of the "Good Sex" mixture. There are many others that have also to be adjusted to set your mind and body on a "good vibe", such as your emotions, desires, fantasies, physical state, intimacy etc. Keep you chin up if the first tried toy didn't work miracles, there are plenty of other toys waiting for you to try them. Surf through the sex toy "channels" until you spot your favorite one. |
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