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  • Top Ten Strangest Things for January

    Every month, tons of strangers send me links to things that cannot be unseen. Then I carefully curate a list of the most WTF links that you probably need to know just to be able to keep up with popular culture references. Think of it as educational.

  • Tenugui of Love

    Let’s start the New Year, the year of the Water Dragon, with an erotic Japanese cultural lesson! Tenugui is a beloved traditional item in Japan with a thousand practical uses. Sex uses abound for these and inventive lovers in Japan use them well. But most Westerners, unless they’re hooked up with Tenugui-savvy Japanese sweethearts, are likely to never appreciate its pleasures.

  • Nikol Hasler: Bros Before Hos

    Tim is my best friend, and I love him enough that I would marry him as long as one of us were dying within a year, because I'd probably stop being able to handle being married to him after that.

  • Perpetual Erection: The Hard Truth About Priapism

    An erection that lasts for hours might sound like a dream come true, but in reality priapism — a condition where your erection lasts for more than 4 hours — can be a nightmare.

  • I Can't Predict My 2012 Sex Life — and I Don't Want To (Most of the Time)

    The biggest thing I learned about sex in 2011 is that, like life, it's unpredictable. Every time I thought I had a handle on my desire(s), on what I'm looking for, and not looking for, the universe threw me a curve, a challenge, a dare. I was engaged in a power play scene with the universe and it was my master, big time.

  • SexCult: The Political Kama Sutra

    What if you merged politics and the Kama Sutra?

  • Why Being Thin is not a Privilege

    Certainly being overweight can make life more difficult for some individuals, but declaring the state of being thin as a privilege is inappropriate and dismisses the efforts of many people who work to achieve a healthy weight.

  • See Mom, It's Like This...

    Mollena shares a deeply personal conversation with her mother about just exactly why she lets people hurt her.

  • Coming Out with Preston Charles

    Rachel recently sat down with Preston Charles (you know, the black gay guy from The Real World, New Orleans) to talk about his recent MTV special, Coming Out, his own coming out and well, then things get a little out of hand...

  • Mr. Sexsmith Says: Bring Your Average-Size Cock, Just In Case

    When you use a strap-on, do you bring it with you when you go out? If you use several sizes, how do you know what size to bring? Mr. Sexsmith offers some practical advice for how, when and what size strap-on should tag along when you go out for a good time.

  • Sex Educator and Author, Ducky Doolittle

    More than two decades ago Ducky started her career working at a sex shop in New York City’s rough Times Square district. An organic path that started as a temporary job to make ends meet developed into a career she loves. <br> <br>Like Ducky says, “The experience of answering people’s…

    Interview with Sex Educator and Author, Ducky Doolittle
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  • Editor and Author, Delilah Devlin

    Delilah started writing eleven years ago. She and her sister were at the office late at night (as those who had volunteered to stay late that night for their IT company for Y2K) when the two of them discussed where they wanted to be in ten years. Both of them agreed it wasn't in that…

    Interview with Editor and Author, Delilah Devlin
  • Sex Educator and Author, Tristan Taormino

    Tristan Taormino initially didn't know she was going to become a pornographer and sex educator. After her plans for law school fell through, an adviser suggested going into sex education because Tristan's senior thesis was on lesbian sexual identity. That was in 1993, and you can see how…

    Interview with Sex Educator and Author, Tristan Taormino

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