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  • Sex Cult: Singing the Praises of Chemistry

    So, just what is it that causes that excited, gnawing, obsessive feeling we get when we’re “hopelessly in love,” huh? And why does it feel so bad when we fall out of it?

  • She Plays, He Plays: Rose Petals, Massage Oils, Naughty People … Oh My!

    With their 15th anniversary so close to Valentine’s Day, Rydell and Susan took the opportunity to get away. With them, they took a few sensual selections and some lingerie. A whole week of exploring Kama Sutra, Shunga and each other ... and then they wrote about it for our readers!

  • Red Alert! Valentine’s Day is tomorrow!

    Did this come as a surprise to you? Don’t worry! Midori’s got you covered.

  • How To Turn Me On

    The best way to turn me on is to be yourself, whoever that is. Way too many people posture and try to seem like someone they’re not, and I find that confusing.

  • My Not-So-Funny Valentine

    Dateless? Don’t sulk. Buy yourself an Oreo cheesecake, a pair of shoes or a night at the girly bar and count yourself lucky this stuff isn’t happening to you.

  • The Secret War Against Gay Marriage

    Opponents of gay marriage might be forgiven for thinking that their's is a lost cause – but little do they know that forces are still at work ensuring same-sex marriage will never come to pass (or, at least, nobody will want one if it does).

  • Thoughts During Terrible Sex

    Once again, twitter has gone crazy with the bad sex trends and has basically written my column for me. This time there were a few gems worthy of sharing and a whole lot of shit that makes me glad I’m not single.

  • The Suspension Accident: It Finally Happened...

    Kinksters talk quite a bit about the inherent risk of bondage and other kinky play. They learn the proper procedure, to mitigate that risk — but rarely do you hear about the stark reality that no matter what precautions you take or how safe you play, people can still get hurt.

  • Valentine's Day Gift Guide: Simple, Sexy, Fun Edition

    Valentine’s Day is one of the most complex, pressure-laced holidays, gift-giving wise. You’re set up to believe you can’t just pop off to the market and grab any old thing to take back to your romantic interest.

  • The Real Original Sin is Sexless Spirituality

    Any experience of submission or domination – if I were to play that way – are for pleasure’s sake, not to get the Church off, writes the author in an essay that challenges the power structure of sin, sex and spirituality.

  • Sex Educator and Author, Ducky Doolittle

    More than two decades ago Ducky started her career working at a sex shop in New York City’s rough Times Square district. An organic path that started as a temporary job to make ends meet developed into a career she loves. <br> <br>Like Ducky says, “The experience of answering people’s…

    Interview with Sex Educator and Author, Ducky Doolittle
  • Editor and Author, Delilah Devlin

    Delilah started writing eleven years ago. She and her sister were at the office late at night (as those who had volunteered to stay late that night for their IT company for Y2K) when the two of them discussed where they wanted to be in ten years. Both of them agreed it wasn't in that…

    Interview with Editor and Author, Delilah Devlin
  • Sex Educator and Author, Tristan Taormino

    Tristan Taormino initially didn't know she was going to become a pornographer and sex educator. After her plans for law school fell through, an adviser suggested going into sex education because Tristan's senior thesis was on lesbian sexual identity. That was in 1993, and you can see how…

    Interview with Sex Educator and Author, Tristan Taormino

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