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Setting the Mood for Your Kinky GrooveFew of us are able to live an openly kinky lifestyle around the clock and under all circumstances. The pressures of what many call “vanilla” life, but what I prefer to refer to as the “Default World”, are overwhelming at times.
May. 25, 2012
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Six Steps to Freedom
Getting over a master is never easy. One must first decide they’re ready to move on, and then set their mind and mood for catharsis and deprogramming. Yes, we said deprogramming. Read on to understand why.
May. 22, 2012
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This Week In Sex: Should we sue HIV+ patients for not taking their meds?
Two bits of news hit the headlines this week, and together, they raise alarming questions about how best to tackle the HIV/AIDS crisis.
May. 17, 2012
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Planning is a Form of Foreplay
My wife is a tremendous person. She works very hard in her career, and takes her roles as wife, mother and friend just as seriously. I try to make sure she knows how much I appreciate her during all months, but especially in May, and on Mother’s Day, I take time to make sure she truly feels appreciated.
May. 16, 2012
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Sex Positive Stalemate: Is our activism setting the mood for failure?
When it comes to introducing sex positive ideas and concepts to mainstream America, are we “setting the mood” for a failure of communication?
May. 14, 2012
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The Safer Sex Project
What is safer sex? We bring together clinical and practical data on STDs and their prevention, including information on identification and treatment, as well as social/cultural significance and stigmas.
Stirring Things Up: Safer Sex for Women Who Love WomenThe Man ProjectFamed humorist Will Rogers once noted: "There are three kinds of men: The one that learns by reading. The few who learn by observation. The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence for themselves." But, just what the hell does it mean to be a man, anyway? In this series, SexIs…
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The BDSM Project
BDSM—kink—fetish: what are they? How does one do it? And, most importantly, who’s doing it? The answer might just be staring back at you in the mirror.
Truth Is Better Than FictionThe World AIDS ProjectMarking World AIDS Day, Sexis presents a series of essays that speak to the innate mistakes and inherent kindnesses of the human animal, our spirit of community, the necessity of anger—and the absolute power of hope.
The End of an Era: Saying Goodbye to a Safe Haven of the AIDS Crisis Era, The Starlite
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Six Steps to Freedom
Getting over a master is never easy. One must first decide they’re ready to move on, and then set their mind and mood for catharsis and deprogramming. Yes, we said deprogramming. Read on to understand why.
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Calling All Drag Kings!
With all of this drag queen love emanating from gay and straight circles, you have to wonder: Why aren’t drag kings being embraced with equal excitement?
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Planning is a Form of Foreplay
My wife is a tremendous person. She works very hard in her career, and takes her roles as wife, mother and friend just as seriously. I try to make sure she knows how much I appreciate her during all months, but especially in May, and on Mother’s Day, I take time to make sure she truly feels appreciated.
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Society and Female Sexual Pain
When a female has penetrative sex for the first time, it hurts a lot. Right?
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A dominant serves? Isn’t that ... counter-intuitive?
Among the more persistent illusions non-kink identified people have about the pervert milieu is that we kinksters live in some sort of rarified place where protocols reign supreme, and those who would call themselves masters lounge about being waited on by doting droves of swooning slaves.
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Age Ain’t Nothin’ but a Number – Or is it a state of mind?
Age play is a sexual or non-sexual role-play activity in which those role-playing get into the mindset of a younger or older person. Role-playing as a younger person seems more common, however.
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Toothsome Sex and Biting Satire
I’ve never really been all that keen on telling people in anger or irritation to bite me. Not sure why. Maybe it’s because I’ve always known deep down it didn’t make much sense. After all, the implication tends to be that the offender should bite the offended person’s naughty bits.
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My Favorite Mood for Love? Selfishness
If you can’t remember the last time you made out on a hard surface because you were too aroused to wait, then it’s time you reacquaint with your sexual selfish side.
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#SetTheMood - A Night in the Park
How do you set the mood for a night in the park? Lady Dream Kitten’s way might surprise you!
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#ExpressLove - The Littlest Expressions Make the Biggest Impression
Being the wife of a truck driver is a extremely challenging task. It takes a lot of patience because you are usually the only person that they have to vent to when they have a bad day or there is a troubling situation.
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