Hand jobs can be one of the simplest forms of foreplay, besides kissing and general touching. Some people consider them boring, but there are ways to jazz the average hand job up to rock your partners world. All a great hand job really takes is a little bit of lube, a partner, and some imagination!
First, you are going to need to get your partner hard. There are so many ways to do this! You could start out with a sexy strip tease, some making out and heavy petting, or my personal favorite, kisses and nibbles from head to toe. Once you've accomplished the first step, go ahead and add a small amount of lube to your hands, and rub it around. I stress using a small amount of lube. If you don't get enough, you can always add more. Getting too much lube can cause an unwanted mess, and things being too slippery. You can always get more, you can't really put extra back!
Starting at the head of your partner's penis, using one hand, you can start moving your hand in a basic up and down motion. I usually like to start off simple and then add fun extra moves! Next, add your other hand into the mix. Using both hands while giving a hand job provides constant attention to the penis head and shaft. Once you are ready to move on from there, you can just add a little twisting motions with your wrists. The movement should look like you are using a pepper grinder. Your hands can be stationary on the head and shaft of the penis, or stroking up and down while doing this. Be aware of your partner's reactions, they will lead you in their preferences by the way their body moves, and noises they make. Another action to use while giving a hand job is what I like to call hand stacking. Start with one hand wrapped around the head of your partners penis, and slide your hand down. Take your other hand and stack in on the other, sliding down the head then the shaft of the penis in the same way. Do this continuously, removing the bottom hand and replacing it again at the head of the penis. The constant downward motion, and contact on all parts of the penis, can be an exciting change for your partner!
Hand jobs aren't limited to just the penis either. While using one hand to stroke the head and shaft of the penis, you can take your other hand and massage the testicles, also. Testicle play has just as wide of a variety of options as penis play. You can gently pull on the scrotum, use your fingers to lightly tickle, or even use your mouth. Start out fairly gentle if you have not used this sort of play with your partner before; you don't want to hurt them and everyone's preferences are different. If your partner enjoys anal play, this can also be incorporated into a great hand job. It's as simple as having them lay back and relax, so their anal area is easier to get to, and using a finger to rub or penetrate the anus.
There are many different options for making a hand job exciting and mind blowing, just use some of these tips mixed with some of your imagination. Most of all, have fun watching your partner's reactions!
First, you are going to need to get your partner hard. There are so many ways to do this! You could start out with a sexy strip tease, some making out and heavy petting, or my personal favorite, kisses and nibbles from head to toe. Once you've accomplished the first step, go ahead and add a small amount of lube to your hands, and rub it around. I stress using a small amount of lube. If you don't get enough, you can always add more. Getting too much lube can cause an unwanted mess, and things being too slippery. You can always get more, you can't really put extra back!
Starting at the head of your partner's penis, using one hand, you can start moving your hand in a basic up and down motion. I usually like to start off simple and then add fun extra moves! Next, add your other hand into the mix. Using both hands while giving a hand job provides constant attention to the penis head and shaft. Once you are ready to move on from there, you can just add a little twisting motions with your wrists. The movement should look like you are using a pepper grinder. Your hands can be stationary on the head and shaft of the penis, or stroking up and down while doing this. Be aware of your partner's reactions, they will lead you in their preferences by the way their body moves, and noises they make. Another action to use while giving a hand job is what I like to call hand stacking. Start with one hand wrapped around the head of your partners penis, and slide your hand down. Take your other hand and stack in on the other, sliding down the head then the shaft of the penis in the same way. Do this continuously, removing the bottom hand and replacing it again at the head of the penis. The constant downward motion, and contact on all parts of the penis, can be an exciting change for your partner!
Hand jobs aren't limited to just the penis either. While using one hand to stroke the head and shaft of the penis, you can take your other hand and massage the testicles, also. Testicle play has just as wide of a variety of options as penis play. You can gently pull on the scrotum, use your fingers to lightly tickle, or even use your mouth. Start out fairly gentle if you have not used this sort of play with your partner before; you don't want to hurt them and everyone's preferences are different. If your partner enjoys anal play, this can also be incorporated into a great hand job. It's as simple as having them lay back and relax, so their anal area is easier to get to, and using a finger to rub or penetrate the anus.
There are many different options for making a hand job exciting and mind blowing, just use some of these tips mixed with some of your imagination. Most of all, have fun watching your partner's reactions!
great article, thank you!
Thanks!
Great article. Good advice! Definitely gonna give some of this a shot. Thanks!
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