How often do you turn down sex?

vegan.guy vegan.guy
When your partner wants to have sex, how often do you say no?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm a guy and I never turn down sex
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17  (18%)
I'm a guy and I occasionally turn down sex
Keegski , married with children , JE011 , Tidwtrguy
4  (4%)
I'm a guy and I turn down sex about half the time
1  (1%)
I'm a guy and I usually turn down sex
I'm a woman and I never turn down sex
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30  (32%)
I'm a woman and I occasionally turn down sex
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36  (38%)
I'm a woman and I turn down sex about half the time
Ajax , Naughty Student
2  (2%)
I'm a woman and I usually turn down sex
Eden C. , PassionQT , Gatita , Dusk
4  (4%)
Total votes: 94
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I have never turned down sex. But the wife has.
bluepiratechick bluepiratechick
Originally posted by vegan.guy
When your partner wants to have sex, how often do you say no?
I turn it down but it doesn't get me out of it.
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I have turned it down a few times, when I am really tired or achy.
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I haven't been offered it enough to ever want to turn it down. I have YEARS built up to be spent on the right guy who'll actually stick around.
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't turn down sex often. There has to be something going on or I'm sick for me to say no.
married with children married with children
I must have turned down sex a few times, not that i can remember at the moment.
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife turns down sex on a fairly regular basis - so adding to that problem isn't smart - she does it enough for both of us!
sbon sbon
I'm a woman and I have yet to turn down sex. That's not to say it'll never happen, but I'm pretty sure it would have to be a rather extraordinary circumstance to get me to say no.
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am a woman and in the past 6 months I have not turned sex down once. This is mostly because I am the one doing the asking and attacking the husband.

Now, he has turned me down a few times, like Sunday when I would have rather had sex than do taxes...again. He told me, "No sex until the taxes are done, Woman!" The taxes got done that day! He is beginning to withhold sex from me in order to get things that he wants done, done. Bad thing is, it works.
Jobthingy Jobthingy
It doesnt happen often but it has
Kaltir Kaltir
It happens VERY rarely, but it does happen. But only if I'm very sick or something.
leatherlover leatherlover
I have only turned it down once I think. Even if I am really tired, I will usually find the strength to do it. The wife on the other hand, it is sometimes hard to get her into the mood. And lately, it seems like I have been turned down a lot. So I have been letting her decide when she is ready. I am just glad I have my fleshlight
Eden C. Eden C.
Originally posted by vegan.guy
When your partner wants to have sex, how often do you say no?
I'm often just not in the mood...and I turn down sexual offers from people I'm not attracted to. I cannot enjoy sex with someone I'm not attracted to.
PassionQT PassionQT
I had surgery this last summer that left me with very little libido/desire. I partially regret having it done, but it's been a blessing in other that's the price I had to pay. Luckily, I have a very understanding husband. We try to make sure there is intimacy in other ways. And he is bi, so if he needs "something something" I'm good on having him play with a friend, so long as I'm informed and he practice safe sex.
Illusional Illusional
We've mutually turned each other down. We've had a long work week, we get a hotel room and we talk for a little and before I know it, we're both passed out. Under normal circumstances, I never ever turn him down and he hasn't turned me down.
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I've only ever turned town the man I used to be married to because I couldn't stand him touching me at a certain point. But I've been with my current boyfriend for nearly 2 years and haven't said no yet!
Coralbell Coralbell
I don't get the oppurtunity as often as I would like, so I never turn it down.
El-Jaro El-Jaro
You can turn down sex? I didn't know that!
Ajax Ajax
Since he asks/offers everyday I bet I do turn it down at least half the time. I just don't find myself often aroused. Even on the days we do have sex I usually have a hard time getting into it at first. I probably would say no more often, but then I'd start feeling like a jerk. Can't be saying no EVERY day :/ I have such a patient boy Don't know why he puts up with my craziness somedays. :p

I'm okay with him sexing other people if he wants, though he's yet to do so. Seems like a fair trade
honeybee7484 honeybee7484
I didn't even turn down sex when I had the flu. Anytime I'm not in the mood a little foreplay gets me going and then afterwards whatever was stopping me before (illness, bad mood, ect) is gone!
Mlee Mlee
I never turn down sex. i am always wanting more. i am a sex addict
Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
It would have been "never" but my boyfriend has occasionally tried to initiate sex at some pretty bad times. Like at 1am when I have to get up at 7 with my toddler. Not gonna happen. Or, when I'm having monster cramps and have had a horrible day. Again, not gonna happen. But if it's not 1am and I'm not in the midst of Satan's menstruation, I'm up for it!
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I never do. If I do, there's a damn good reason. Even when we're arguing if he comes and plops it in my face saying "Suck my d*$#", I put down whatever I'm doing and do what he says, lol.
JE011 JE011
Sometimes my day is way to stressful to even think about doing it, so yea sometimes I turn it down.
null null
I have a really tough time saying no, even when I really don't want to have sex :/
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Only when I'm stressed and wouldn't be able to focus on sex. Or when I'm sick.
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Its like, if he wants it, he gets it. Not that he feels that way but I want to keep him happy. Although, if im not quite in the mood and he is distracted by the computer i'll fall alseep without reminding him.
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm trying to be better about this
zeebot zeebot
Sometimes I'm just too grumpy for sex.
Total posts: 61
Unique posters: 60