How often do you turn down sex?

vegan.guy vegan.guy
When your partner wants to have sex, how often do you say no?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm a guy and I never turn down sex
Vaccinium , ToyTimeTim , Kindred , Gunsmoke , Hallmar82 , leatherlover , Moein , RonLee , jakjak , Lummox , Checkmate , vegan.guy , Yoda , Adam02viper , lolsos , newfoundlust , The Curious Couple
17  (18%)
I'm a guy and I occasionally turn down sex
Keegski , married with children , JE011 , Tidwtrguy
4  (4%)
I'm a guy and I turn down sex about half the time
Xavier7
1  (1%)
I'm a guy and I usually turn down sex
I'm a woman and I never turn down sex
Waterfall , Chilipepper , sbon , Miss T , Redboxbaby , Tori Rebel , Coralbell , ValuptuousVirgo , honeybee7484 , Mlee , Brandi Rouxxx , OhMy! , Cream in the Cupcake , Liz2 , BadassFatass , Lady Venus , Illusional , Pixel , PussyGalore , lesbianlesbian , MaryExy , meganthomas , ZenaidaMacroura , Lucidity , barrettbn2 , Persephone Nightmare , Darling Jen , jzzrzz , Shellz31 , KateG
30  (32%)
I'm a woman and I occasionally turn down sex
bluepiratechick , darthkitt3n , SexyTabby , StephieBoo02 , Jobthingy , Kaltir , *HisMrs* , Persephone's Addiction , null , PiratePrincess , SexyStuff , zeebot , potstickers , crazybat , Sohotdinosaur , rdytogo , Armsjlove , Jul!a , NaturalWoman , sexyintexas , BBW Talks Toys , Haiku , Rossie , toxie m , Victoria , cujo467 , ~Brittany~ , link82 , REDRUM , nicole07 , sexyk515 , Miss Voluptuous , bunny love , froggiemoma , tickle me pink , chidoll
36  (38%)
I'm a woman and I turn down sex about half the time
Alyjazz , Naughty Student
2  (2%)
I'm a woman and I usually turn down sex
Eden C. , PassionQT , Gatita , Dusk
4  (4%)
Total votes: 94
Poll is closed
02/22/2011
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I have never turned down sex. But the wife has.
02/22/2011
bluepiratechick bluepiratechick
Quote:
Originally posted by vegan.guy
When your partner wants to have sex, how often do you say no?
I turn it down but it doesn't get me out of it.
02/22/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I have turned it down a few times, when I am really tired or achy.
02/22/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I haven't been offered it enough to ever want to turn it down. I have YEARS built up to be spent on the right guy who'll actually stick around.
02/22/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't turn down sex often. There has to be something going on or I'm sick for me to say no.
02/22/2011
married with children married with children
I must have turned down sex a few times, not that i can remember at the moment.
02/22/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife turns down sex on a fairly regular basis - so adding to that problem isn't smart - she does it enough for both of us!
02/23/2011
sbon sbon
I'm a woman and I have yet to turn down sex. That's not to say it'll never happen, but I'm pretty sure it would have to be a rather extraordinary circumstance to get me to say no.
02/23/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am a woman and in the past 6 months I have not turned sex down once. This is mostly because I am the one doing the asking and attacking the husband.

Now, he has turned me down a few times, like Sunday when I would have rather had sex than do taxes...again. He told me, "No sex until the taxes are done, Woman!" The taxes got done that day! He is beginning to withhold sex from me in order to get things that he wants done, done. Bad thing is, it works.
02/23/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
It doesnt happen often but it has
02/23/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
It happens VERY rarely, but it does happen. But only if I'm very sick or something.
02/23/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
I have only turned it down once I think. Even if I am really tired, I will usually find the strength to do it. The wife on the other hand, it is sometimes hard to get her into the mood. And lately, it seems like I have been turned down a lot. So I have been letting her decide when she is ready. I am just glad I have my fleshlight
02/23/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
Quote:
Originally posted by vegan.guy
When your partner wants to have sex, how often do you say no?
I'm often just not in the mood...and I turn down sexual offers from people I'm not attracted to. I cannot enjoy sex with someone I'm not attracted to.
02/23/2011
PassionQT PassionQT
I had surgery this last summer that left me with very little libido/desire. I partially regret having it done, but it's been a blessing in other ways...so that's the price I had to pay. Luckily, I have a very understanding husband. We try to make sure there is intimacy in other ways. And he is bi, so if he needs "something something" I'm good on having him play with a friend, so long as I'm informed and he practice safe sex.
02/23/2011
Illusional Illusional
We've mutually turned each other down. We've had a long work week, we get a hotel room and we talk for a little and before I know it, we're both passed out. Under normal circumstances, I never ever turn him down and he hasn't turned me down.
02/23/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I've only ever turned town the man I used to be married to because I couldn't stand him touching me at a certain point. But I've been with my current boyfriend for nearly 2 years and haven't said no yet!
02/23/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I don't get the oppurtunity as often as I would like, so I never turn it down.
02/23/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
You can turn down sex? I didn't know that!
02/23/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
Since he asks/offers everyday I bet I do turn it down at least half the time. I just don't find myself often aroused. Even on the days we do have sex I usually have a hard time getting into it at first. I probably would say no more often, but then I'd start feeling like a jerk. Can't be saying no EVERY day :/ I have such a patient boy Don't know why he puts up with my craziness somedays. :p

I'm okay with him sexing other people if he wants, though he's yet to do so. Seems like a fair trade
02/23/2011
honeybee7484 honeybee7484
I didn't even turn down sex when I had the flu. Anytime I'm not in the mood a little foreplay gets me going and then afterwards whatever was stopping me before (illness, bad mood, ect) is gone!
02/23/2011
Mlee Mlee
I never turn down sex. i am always wanting more. i am a sex addict
02/23/2011
Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
It would have been "never" but my boyfriend has occasionally tried to initiate sex at some pretty bad times. Like at 1am when I have to get up at 7 with my toddler. Not gonna happen. Or, when I'm having monster cramps and have had a horrible day. Again, not gonna happen. But if it's not 1am and I'm not in the midst of Satan's menstruation, I'm up for it!
02/23/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I never do. If I do, there's a damn good reason. Even when we're arguing if he comes and plops it in my face saying "Suck my d*$#", I put down whatever I'm doing and do what he says, lol.
02/23/2011
JE011 JE011
Sometimes my day is way to stressful to even think about doing it, so yea sometimes I turn it down.
02/23/2011
null null
I have a really tough time saying no, even when I really don't want to have sex :/
02/23/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Only when I'm stressed and wouldn't be able to focus on sex. Or when I'm sick.
02/23/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Its like, if he wants it, he gets it. Not that he feels that way but I want to keep him happy. Although, if im not quite in the mood and he is distracted by the computer i'll fall alseep without reminding him.
02/24/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm trying to be better about this
02/24/2011
zeebot zeebot
Sometimes I'm just too grumpy for sex.
02/24/2011
Total posts: 61
Unique posters: 60