I didn't see the votes for who washes the toys. I am always awake after sex, so more often I do it. But, often enough, it's whoever goes into the bathroom first after sex. We both have to pee right away, so who ever gets up first washes the toys.
Once in a great while it gets put off until morning, but that is usually if we "lose" one, like the lost butt plug last week.
I couldn't find it when I washed the rest of the toys, mentioned it to him, after we made love again the next morning, and he found it on the floor. He washed it WELL after that.
I was thinking about the sheets while doing laundry today. I'd have to 1)get up after evening sex, 2)strip bed with LARGE sleeping man in it, 3)put clean sheets on bed, with LARGE sleeping man in it 4)go into basement and start laundry late at night 5)and THEN do the whole thing again in the morning, when we have sex again. I don't have that much time, energy or money for detergent or fabric softener, and think of the WATER we'd waste. Once a week is great.