Squirt or Pee?

Magician Magician
This one bothers me, mainly because I actually did the research and still cant come up with a conclusive answer.

My fiancee first "squirted" once while we were fooling around. She swore to god it was piss. I, having read up on it before hand (What can I say, there isn't much to do in Tennessee), said "no, no, it's female ejaculation." She didn't believe me.

Problems between our experiences and written references:

Written - Urination is impossible during an orgasm, since the PC muscle is supposed to hold it back. The consistency of the ejaculant should be clear or only slightly yellow.

Experiences - Her consistency is much more yellow, but she swears that one time she squirted in the shower and it was clear. Therefore, according to her logic, it's pee 99% of the time.

I am personally fine with pee, I really dont mind getting some on the face if I'm going down on her and she comes. This is mainly to ask if infact I should trust that the written material is right and it isnt urine, or if I should just say "Yes, darlin, you were right" and accept that we're an odd couple. I dont know if I can do anything else short of having her pee in a cup and squirt in a cup and have a taste test. . . I dont think I'm up for that.
04/10/2009
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Quote:
Originally posted by Magician
This one bothers me, mainly because I actually did the research and still cant come up with a conclusive answer.

My fiancee first "squirted" once while we were fooling around. She swore to god it was piss. I, having read up on it ... More
If it was a clear non-lubricating liquid that expelled from her vagina then yes it was female ejaculation. Plus if you notice it smells nothing like urine.
04/10/2009
Magician Magician
I suppose its about time I went about this scientifically. I'll have a side by side trial on visual and smell cues and inform about the results at a later time.
04/10/2009
Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I've been wondering the same thing actually, but was too embarrassed to post...

This makes me sad.
04/10/2009
Red Red
Taste it and see - female ejaculate is kind of sweet, a little like diluted salad dressing....or something. Urine is pungent. Female ejaculate is also slipperier than pee.

Easiest way to put this to bed? Pee before attempting to squirt.

Also, B vitamins make female ejaculate extra yellow.
04/10/2009
DreamyLove DreamyLove
Make sure you're hydrated and also make sure your bladder is completely empty before squirting because then you won't have to worry about there being any pee.
04/10/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Magician
I suppose its about time I went about this scientifically. I'll have a side by side trial on visual and smell cues and inform about the results at a later time.
This topic is of intense interest to me. I just started squirting a few months ago. Here's what I've observed.

-My ejaculate is always close to or the same color as a pee sample taken right afterward.
-Squirt samples usually smell sweet or have no scent. Occasionally they smell like pee.
-Squirt samples are sometimes cloudy. I'm not sure if this isn't due to vaginal juices mixing into it.
-Pee samples almost always taste saltier. (Sorry for putting an unpleasant image in your mind.)
-The ejaculation is always accompanied by an orgasm.

According to "Female Ejaculation and the G-spot," the only women who pee during ejaculation are those who are "trying too hard." I'm bothered by this statement. I don't think I'm trying too hard. I've just come to accept that there's pee in my ejaculate.

I found a female ejaculation study on the Internet which I've been unable to find a second time that said there's a chemical that is released from the female prostate during ejaculation that decolorizes urine. I'm wondering if that process just doesn't work in me. Or maybe my substantial episiotomy severed something necessary to that process.

As for starting with an empty bladder, I can't squirt or have a g-spot orgasm if I start with an empty bladder. Have others here done that?
04/10/2009
Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
This topic is of intense interest to me. I just started squirting a few months ago. Here's what I've observed.

-My ejaculate is always close to or the same color as a pee sample taken right afterward.
-Squirt samples usually ... More
[quote]According to "Female Ejaculation and the G-spot," the only women who pee during ejaculation are those who are "trying too hard."[/quote]

Actually, this makes me feel relieved. I can definitely believe I'm trying too hard - I can wait for it and not "pressure" myself to have that experience. Even if I have to wait until I'm thirty to achieve squirting/g-spot orgasms.

Thanks for that quote. I'll be getting the Ella soon, so I still have hope.

[quote]As for starting with an empty bladder, I can't squirt or have a g-spot orgasm if I start with an empty bladder. Have others here done that?[/quote]

Waiting for a response on this too! I don't know if it's possible for me to even get that feeling with an empty bladder.
04/10/2009
Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
[quote]According to "Female Ejaculation and the G-spot," the only women who pee during ejaculation are those who are "trying too hard."[/quote]

Actually, this makes me feel relieved. I can definitely believe I'm trying ... More
Sorry. I'm still learning how to use these forums.
04/10/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
[quote]According to "Female Ejaculation and the G-spot," the only women who pee during ejaculation are those who are "trying too hard."[/quote]

Actually, this makes me feel relieved. I can definitely believe I'm trying ... More
I'm glad you'll have Ella soon. You'll find that she's perfectly designed to reach your g-spot. You might have to experiment with her a few times first. And it helps to have plenty of folded towels under you or to use her in the bathroom so you don't have to worry if you do pee. If you worry, it won't happen.
04/10/2009
DreamyLove DreamyLove
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
This topic is of intense interest to me. I just started squirting a few months ago. Here's what I've observed.

-My ejaculate is always close to or the same color as a pee sample taken right afterward.
-Squirt samples usually ... More
Every time I've squirted thus far has been with an empty bladder. When Deb Sundahl (the writer of Female Ejaculation and the G-spot) has had lectures near me she's always said that having an empty bladder is preferable so that way you KNOW there's no pee, but it's not a requirement, so to speak. I read Female Ejaculation and the G-spot after I started squirting though.
04/10/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
[quote]According to "Female Ejaculation and the G-spot," the only women who pee during ejaculation are those who are "trying too hard."[/quote]

Actually, this makes me feel relieved. I can definitely believe I'm trying ... More
I always like to pee before a lengthy masturbation session, since I often prefer to masturbate for an hour or so and I don't want to have to interrupt myself to pee. And I'm still able to female ejaculate with an empty bladder.
04/11/2009
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I think this is another example of how female bodies are all different. My ejaculate is clear, odorless, and sometimes tastes sweet. My partner's is slightly tinted yellow, and has small traces of urine smell - although it doesn't taste like urine. We both ejaculate without a full bladder.
04/11/2009
Liz2 Liz2
With an empty bladder (makes me more comfortable) I do ejaculate (not every time) mine is clear, no odor that I can detect and feels something like a light lube. The amount varies.
The right toy, practice and mood are also important. Enjoy!!!
04/11/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
So I'm in the minority in needing something in my bladder. (It doesn't have to be full.)

But I'm wondering, even for those who can squirt with an empty bladder, is it easier for you if your bladder isn't empty or does that not make a difference?

Backseat, How long into your sessions is it before you squirt? 5 or 10 minutes is plenty of time for some liquid to enter your bladder.
04/11/2009
Liz2 Liz2
Issue for me on ejaculation is hydration (most important) rather then bladder. I prefer an empty bladder cuz of my apprehension about pee. I don't squirt every time but I love the suprise when I do.
04/11/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
So I'm in the minority in needing something in my bladder. (It doesn't have to be full.)

But I'm wondering, even for those who can squirt with an empty bladder, is it easier for you if your bladder isn't empty or does that ... More
I actually start to female ejaculate as soon as my G-spot is stimulated; that is, it dribbles out almost constantly as soon as my G-spot is touched. (Made my transvaginal ultrasound really interesting, I'll tell ya that!) Actual squirting...well, I couldn't tell you how quickly I could do it, since I generally draw it out. I know that I can have a clitoral orgasm in less than 30 seconds. I'll have to get back to you on that one.
04/11/2009
Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
Thank you so much for the replies. I was definitely going about this all wrong, so I will be trying again with more patience, hydration, a mostly empty bladder, and a proper toy! (I just ordered the Ella tonight!)

Hopefully later this summer or for my birthday I can get "Female Ejactulation and the G-Spot" to further educate myself.
04/11/2009
Polyserena Polyserena
Quote:
Originally posted by Magician
This one bothers me, mainly because I actually did the research and still cant come up with a conclusive answer.

My fiancee first "squirted" once while we were fooling around. She swore to god it was piss. I, having read up on it ... More
I'm thinking if you want to be more certain about it you could do a test on both with urinalysis dipsticks and then compare. These are used by nurses to determine what kinds of substances are in the urine and approximately what quantity. Not exactly sure how accurate they would be as the substances are reputed to be of similar composition. There may even be contamination because both come out of the uretha. I am actually planning to buy some dipsticks to test the composition myself, but they do not stock them at my local chemist, so I'm looking further afield. Can buy them on amazon, but postage is too expensive to australia. Dipsticks test for things like pH, specific gravity, glucose, protein, blood, ketones, nitrites, leukocytes, urobilinogen. When I think about it the big problem with my idea is that most of the stuff they test for isn't supposed to be in the urine anyway and probably not the ejaculate either, lol. And pH, and specific gravity mightn't be much different. Anyhow, maybe I'll get back to this post once I've tried it myself so you won't have to waste your money. ;-) Can anyone else come up with a better DIY test? Heard somewhere about methelyne blue but that doesn't sound legit to me.
11/14/2009
jimmyboy23 jimmyboy23
My wife recently started squirting during her orgasms. She usually pees before we get started, and in a short time she is squirting. It is never yellow, and is usually quite a large volume. I have read around a little on some medical websites, and one of the theories is that the small size of the gland that produces means it has to store the liquid outside of itself, and it does this by draining into the bladder, which then releases the ejaculate through the urethra during an orgasm. This may be why some ejaculate has some percentage of urine mixed into it.
11/28/2009
Di's Guy Di's Guy
Well I don't know if this will help but, 34 years ago I preformed oral sex on my wife Di for the first time and she had such a hard orgasm that she lost control and drenched me. While she was apoligizing for peeing and getting me all wet I was licking my lips and enjoying how sweet it tasted. I knew one thing for sure, this was not urine, it was too sweet and smelled too good. I tried to tell Di that and continued to tell her for the next 28 years but, she kept believeing she was peeing on me no matter how much I tried to convince her it wasn't pee and she should just enjoy her orgasms she still kept trying to suppress her orgasms so she wouldn't pee on me..
Well six years ago Di read a couple of articles in different magazines about female ejaculation. These articles explained it exactly as it had been happening to her and she finally admitted she was cumming, not peeing. All I can say is our sex life was great before but now with her excepting the fact that she was cumming and not peeing she is getting more enjoyment out of her orgasms than ever before. When she feels her orgasms building she doen't try and stop them so she won't pee. In stead she lets go and enjoys as her body trembles with pleasure and screams for me to eat her more and she explodes over and over again.
These articles told her to consider the fact that if she urinates before sex and has a huge squirting orgasm 15 minutes later there is no way her body could make that much urine in 15 minutes. I can tell you when she cumms we're talking anywhere from 1/2 to 2 cups of hot sweet cum squirting out all over the place.
Now that we both are enjoying her ejaculating we've had to get a couple of Liberator's water proof throws that we put on the bed everytime we have sex. That way the only thing Di has to concern herself with is enjoying the pleasures of her orgasms. I just wish people would have started discussing female ejaculation 34 years ago. I can only imagine how many thousands of orgasms Di had suppressed over all those years because she thought she was peeing all over me. She said she wanted to believe me that she wasn't peeing but, even I didn't really know what it was, I just knew it wasn't urine, but couldn't tell her what it was. I did know one thing though. It tasted alot like the precum that oozed out of my cock when Di would get me all excited. She would stroke my cock while I sucked on her nipples and she started rubbing my gooeys on her nipples and it tasted so good I'd suck and nibble harder. Thats when I realized it tasted the same as her ejaculate. Now after reading articles about female ejaculation we've found out that male prostedic fluid and female ejaculation have the same chemical make up with only a trace of urine in it. So shes cumming not peeing.
I can only imagine how many women out shut down their orgasms when it feels like they're going to pee, when in fact if they would just let go they would feel the incredible feelings that Di is now having.
01/05/2010
Silversexstar Silversexstar
I too ejaculate. For sure it is not pee. It never stains the way pee would. There is really almost no "yellow" tinge to it. It doesn't smell the same and I'm told it doesn't taste like urine either.

There are certain circumstances that have to happen before I really ejaculate and like the poster above, touching my g-spot it critical. The first major drenching versus a little lubricant was when my gf and I had sex for the first time. Her hands are magical! There was just enough pressure at the right spots to make it major. She loves loves loves it when I ejaculate.
01/11/2010
KinkyShay KinkyShay
It's very sad that we as women feel embarrassed about this. Myself included, though past tense. I had a partner tell me that I was "pissing" (such a colorful word) when I knew myself to be ejaculating. There's a gland calle the Skeene's Gland that produces the fluid that a woman expels during ejaculation. They drain into the urethra which is why women have the sensation of peeing.
02/03/2010
xchairitycasex xchairitycasex
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
[quote]According to "Female Ejaculation and the G-spot," the only women who pee during ejaculation are those who are "trying too hard."[/quote]

Actually, this makes me feel relieved. I can definitely believe I'm trying ... More
I worry that i am peeing simply becuase i can only doit when im on top and i "squirt" more if i have to urinate beforehand otherwise it isnt more then a half to a full cup of fluid if i cum with an empty bladder. although either way i always have to pee when i am done. my boyfriend says he would care if i was "peeing" on him but i would ratherr not...
02/23/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
With an empty bladder (makes me more comfortable) I do ejaculate (not every time) mine is clear, no odor that I can detect and feels something like a light lube. The amount varies.
The right toy, practice and mood are also important. Enjoy!!!
I actually asked this question to the Nurse Practitioner that performed my annual exam just last week. She said "it is mucous" and that was the end of the conversation. Being that it expels from the urethra, yes, there is bound to be some urine in the mix, but I wouldn't call it 100% mucous either. And it may vary by woman too.

And if you just pee yourself, don't worry about it. I've done both from being so excited. Most men could care less what comes out, unless you ate a large plate of asparagus for dinner or doubled up on your vitamins. Relieving yourself before sex is very helpful advice.
05/24/2010
MasterBlaster MasterBlaster
Squirt...
11/22/2010
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
It can and will feel like she is peeing because it comes from the same place but im sure the texture of it would be thicker then urine but im not sure i've never ''squirt'' b4
12/20/2010
Chevylady37 Chevylady37
it could have been both. but more in likely it was squirt unless she meant to pee on u
01/12/2011
PassionQT PassionQT
Pee vs. squirt..I really don't care anymore. I say just have fun, and if you pee or squirt, who cares? Your partner will be turned on if he is in to it. I've done both and my partners never said a word, but their arousal sure said everything!
01/12/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Magician
This one bothers me, mainly because I actually did the research and still cant come up with a conclusive answer.

My fiancee first "squirted" once while we were fooling around. She swore to god it was piss. I, having read up on it ... More
does it matter?
01/16/2011
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