Do you think anything is wrong with being lesbian, gay, bisexual or whatever you want to call it? Do you think it is ok for females and wrong for males? Or Both?

Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
She's not arguing your "right" to make it public she is suggesting that if you want more participation and honest answers then making it annonymous allows those who have a more unpopular opinion to remain anonymous. This is a VERY ... more
Seconded.

EDIT: I really need to read through the whole threads before posting lol.

Anyways, the only reason I don't care for male on male porn, is because it doesn't turn me on. I like to watch lesbian porn, hell that is pretty much the only way I can have a clitoral orgasm.

However, when it comes to people doing their thing, I have no biases or judgements on ANYONE, EVER, for their choice in sexuality or anything relating to the sort. Hell, I try not to judge anybody for anything, but that is something we as humans cannot escape.

On a side note- I cannot ever see myself having a relationship with a woman, because we are so much drama (no offense to anyone it's just my personal opinion), and I can't live without my big fat cock!

Anyways, I am curious as to why the OP wanted this to be public in the first place? I honestly don't see a reason why, unless there is a reason for wanting to know who said what type of thing.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Lynk Lynk
This question is the same thing as asking if it's "ok" to be white or black or have green eyes. People have no control over their race, gender, sexual orientation, etc....

Anyone who thinks it isn't "ok" is just operating on prejudices. Not to mention it's really none of their business who other people fall in love with.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
Whatever floats your boat!...
11/01/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
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Originally posted by Sir
I'm wondering the same thing.


To answer the poll:

Honestly, it's not "okay" to be homosexual or bisexual. It's a choice. It's not "NOT okay" either, if you understand what I mean. It simply is. Do ... more
If people can be ignorant to someone who truly knows what they want and what makes them happy its only because they are jealous and can not understand why you will go outside the social norms to do so.
11/02/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I think it's ok for anyone to be anything that they are or want to be or want to try - whether it be gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, pansexual, or asexual. As long as they're happy and safe.
I didn't want to be gay, nor did I try to be gay, I just am. I was born this way and if I wanted any of that other stuff I would be lying to myself. Maybe some people need to try it... to clarify their confusion, but want to try it?
11/02/2010
Contributor: kermi91 kermi91
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Originally posted by Trashley
Thank you! My thoughts get so scattered when I think about someone telling me being gay is "not okay." I just get all white-light rage up in this bitch and can't form a single cohesive sentence. Not very effective for convincing anyone ... more
my feelings and thoughts exactly! I get beyond agitated hearing something is wrong with me because of who I love. At least I know how to love...
11/16/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
I don't believe that gender, race or age should be a factor when finding someone who makes you feel whole.
12/07/2010
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I say do what, and who, you want! I consider myself a lesbian... who just happens to be in love with the sweetest guy in the world. A guy who likes me to strap it on once in a while. Gay and lesbian and all those other things, they're just labels. As long as LOVE is what you do, you can't go wrong ^_~
12/07/2010
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
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Originally posted by SEXY N DELICIOUS
I used to think woman liking other women was nasty. Now I have an attraction to females and I'm bisexual. Some people think that it is OK for women to like other woman and have sexual relations, but when it come to men i found out that some ... more
It is any persons right to be whatever or with whomever they choose as long as the partner(s) are of legal age and are willing!
12/20/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
People should be able to be with whomever they want to be with. In this day and age this should even be an issue.
12/28/2010
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Speaking as a lesbian here... It's not wrong at all; it's just normal for some people. Whatever makes you happy is good, and it's not hurting anyone.
01/18/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
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Originally posted by SEXY N DELICIOUS
I used to think woman liking other women was nasty. Now I have an attraction to females and I'm bisexual. Some people think that it is OK for women to like other woman and have sexual relations, but when it come to men i found out that some ... more
You can be whatever you want to be!
01/25/2011
Contributor: TumorCrunch TumorCrunch
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Originally posted by SEXY N DELICIOUS
I used to think woman liking other women was nasty. Now I have an attraction to females and I'm bisexual. Some people think that it is OK for women to like other woman and have sexual relations, but when it come to men i found out that some ... more
it's silly for anyone to hide who they are! if you're gay, be gay! man or women! we're all beautiful the way are!
03/13/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by SEXY N DELICIOUS
I used to think woman liking other women was nasty. Now I have an attraction to females and I'm bisexual. Some people think that it is OK for women to like other woman and have sexual relations, but when it come to men i found out that some ... more
its free love really you should love andbe with who ever you feel you should like to be with
03/14/2011
Contributor: C-Rae C-Rae
I hate double standards.. Let ppl feel how ever they feel. Point blank period.
06/10/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
I don't see anything wrong with it. Love is blind.
06/10/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
There is absolutely nothing wrong with any gender and any sexuality in my book. Be yourself and embrace it!
06/10/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
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Originally posted by SEXY N DELICIOUS
I used to think woman liking other women was nasty. Now I have an attraction to females and I'm bisexual. Some people think that it is OK for women to like other woman and have sexual relations, but when it come to men i found out that some ... more
If people "think it's nasty" there is a difference between whether they consider it wrong or simply find it a turn-off.

Considering it to be wrong is a form of hate speech and contributes to a violent atmosphere.

Finding it a personal turn-off, not in a judgmental way against other people but just a "let other people do their own thing" way, is nothing different than, for example, thinking that fisting is a turn off. Being turned off by something is a personal preference and probably not a choice and has no effect on others.
06/10/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Really wish the poll wasn't public. It's a very useless poll because it's not anonymous and I really, really doubt the statistics truly reflect views accurately.

It just kind of screams of 'bait' to me. Someone makes a vote that isn't the majority and they clearly, openly are risking getting flamed/hated/attacked.

Obviously as a bisexual man I don't find homosexuality wrong, but if I did, I wouldn't feel comfortable voting, and I can about guarantee pretty much everyone who isn't okay with homosexuality of whatever kind isn't going to vote.

Just not worth it. It's sad because I'd like to see a more honest poll statistic.

I don't know. I guess I relate to those people. I don't like it when I am forcibly outed against my will, and I don't think other people should be, either. The option of "if you don't want to be outed, keep your mouth shut" is kind of brutal and reminiscent of olden days when clubs and bars used to beat the shit out of gays and/or ban them if their sexuality was discovered. It's just the pot calling the kettle black, though to a lesser degree.

This thread leaves such a high chance for flaming, argument, and group bashing, that it's like stepping on glass. For example. I don't believe people are born gay. I believe genetics are only a part of it. Now, multiple people in this thread have already pretty much declared me a piece of shit for my opinion.
Yes, that really makes me feel comfortable and want to vote. Sure.

I'll end my rant with this; if you want respect, you've got to be willing to give it, too.
06/10/2011
Contributor: Spoken Pandora Spoken Pandora
Regardless of gender, people should be who they feel they are. It is confining feeling trapped within your own skin. It is a sadness that consumes your life and all you do. Who am I to tell anyone who they need to be.
06/21/2011
Contributor: hyperfemmepony hyperfemmepony
Why would it be okay for one and not the other? That makes no sense to me.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
There are few things that infuriate me more than ignorant people who say it's okay for women but not okay for men. I think it actually bothers me more than people who are completely homophobic. I mean what kind of twisted sense do they think they make?!?!?!
08/05/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
any kind of love is all right with me
08/08/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by SEXY N DELICIOUS
I used to think woman liking other women was nasty. Now I have an attraction to females and I'm bisexual. Some people think that it is OK for women to like other woman and have sexual relations, but when it come to men i found out that some ... more
I think people are born hardwired one way or another. Brain scans have even shown this now, so it does not matter what their attraction is...it is who THEY are, and they are still people!
08/15/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by SEXY N DELICIOUS
I used to think woman liking other women was nasty. Now I have an attraction to females and I'm bisexual. Some people think that it is OK for women to like other woman and have sexual relations, but when it come to men i found out that some ... more
It's ok for anyone to be whatever they want. Just because someone might think it's wrong it doesn't give them the right to preach to others. You might like peanut butter but that doesn't give me the right to tell you that you CAN'T like it just because I don't.
09/05/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
As long as it's two consenting adults then they can do whatever they want as long as they let me do what I want.
09/19/2011
Contributor: socalsusieq socalsusieq
I am personally bi-curious. I believe it's a persons personal decision and choice to make. I don't get why it is acceptable for a woman to be bi-sexual but its not acceptable for a man to be bisexual. That is just total ignorance to accept one and not the other. I also don't think there is anything wrong if you are gay or a lesbian.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
This is a weird question. Is it "ok"? That's really up to the individual. It won't kill you, so in that sense it is "ok" to practice.

But as far as approval/disapproval.. . go ahead and think what you want, people are gonna love who they love whether you like it or not
09/20/2011
Contributor: allinonekid allinonekid
Fuck labels. Love who you want.
11/19/2011
Contributor: Pink Kitty Pink Kitty
It's AAAALLLLLLLLL labels. I am gay, HOWEVER! If I happen to fall in love with a woman, so be it.
11/29/2011