How did you meet your gay/lesbian/queer lover?

xlustlovex xlustlovex
the bar/ my best friends frends gf at the time.. lol oops
05/24/2012
tA tA
Definitely on the internet. I've known her for like 10 years, now? Maybe more. Either way, it's ages and ages.
05/24/2012
Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
I met my girlfriend through some mutual friends during college!

Also, I know it seems odd to have met a same-sex partner in church, but I definitely met one of my exes in youth group!
05/24/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Quote:
Originally posted by G.L. Morrison
The most appropriate box to check was friends or family but that is so vague that includes lesbian choir, bdsm parties or a political protest.
I agree, it's very vague - I met one of my partners when she walked through our dorm introducing herself to everyone at the beginning of the school year, and the other one at a weekend retreat for queer students, so I don't have an easy box to check for either of them.
05/25/2012
vegweg vegweg
In college at my first ever GSA meeting. It'll be two years in September and we have an adorable little kitten.
05/25/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
Yahoo... on our 7th year now!
05/25/2012
Youssii Youssii
Um... I met mine at a queer youth group meet at a gum clinic in Soho, and then followed him back to his house...
At the time I couldn't've ever seen myself getting involved with him, but I really like him now..
05/25/2012
marshmallow marshmallow
College!
05/29/2012
vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
I met all my partners and people I fooled around with at school, college, parties, queer groups, and through friends.
05/29/2012
Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
Quote:
Originally posted by kendycane
I would like to know how people in our community meet to form romantic relationships. This is a private voting also.
We met through friends. Couldn't have been better.
05/30/2012
funcouple funcouple
Grindr surprisingly enough, and we are happily together, and I couldn't imagine life without him
05/31/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
I met my girlfriend through friends during our freshman year of college. A friend introduced us because her ex-boyfriend was trying to ask me out. Obviously he had no luck and we ended up together instead!
06/01/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
I meet mine while i was at work love at first sight
06/01/2012
fernwehh fernwehh
We became good friends through a college feminist club and some other activist-y things we did together, continued on to "BFF" status, and now we're... "BFFs plus a little more," haha.
08/28/2012
smlove smlove
We both went to the same Fetish bar. we still go together quite often. everyone there is generally some sort of gay, bi, trans, or flexible, or at the very least non-phobic. it's a great atmosphere. (though we keep falling for straight girls :/ )
08/29/2012
GONE! GONE!
Online.
09/08/2012
sodapin sodapin
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
This is a very limited and specific list you have here.
Forreal D: what about at work or at school etc.?
09/08/2012
Lori Gonzales Lori Gonzales
through friends
10/04/2012
skippywashere skippywashere
GSM conference at our university. She was volunteering.
12/20/2012
aluminummm aluminummm
okcupid~~~~~~~
12/21/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I'm queer and my boyfriend's straight! He met me through our summer job together at a theme park.
12/21/2012
unoriginalgirlyid unoriginalgirlyid
I met my fiancee on a dating website
12/21/2012
Creepellah Creepellah
Quote:
Originally posted by kendycane
I would like to know how people in our community meet to form romantic relationships. This is a private voting also.
On the internet through a friend.
12/21/2012
novanilla novanilla
So many people talk about OKCupid that I feel like I need to get one but I'm just not that into the idea for some reason. I guess if my partner and I split up I might have to do that.
12/27/2012
MasqueVivi MasqueVivi
I met my last girlfriend online, and the one before that, in high school.
12/27/2012
jessi2 jessi2
Quote:
Originally posted by Fishie Princess
Girl Scout camp!
LOVE IT!
01/02/2013
jessi2 jessi2
We met on OK Cupid. I was logging on to delete the account and there was a message in the inbox. It was my current fiance and future wife/life partner. We used to tell people it was mutual friends, but now we are proud.
01/02/2013
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
We met online, not through a dating site.
01/06/2013
souviet souviet
Technically, at a party when I was visiting someone from out of state. But we kept up online and started dating through that.
01/06/2013
tovehunter tovehunter
On the internet, like I meet almost all my partners.
01/14/2013
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