These are such complicated issues! I was surprised at how many options were on this list, actually, since I'm not used to seeing that many in one place.
Personally, I'm physically female, and identify at the moment as genderqueer. I actually spent some time when I was younger living as male, but because the situation was created by an attempt to stay safe, it left me rather confused over what it said about my actual gender. I honestly feel a little 'locked into' a female role in society because of being a mother, and don't feel that I have a lot of current options for gender expression.
In terms of sexuality, I identify as either bisexual or pansexual depending on how much I feel like explaining the terms. I tend to prefer sexual and romantic attachments to women, but have had long-term relationships - including a marriage - with men as well, and have dated a few trans* or genderqueer folk (and one intersexed male).