Hello there, I've been out as male for about 5 months now. I pack with a good 'ol sock, but I think it's time to get a real packer. I don't know how big my penis should be, though!
Fun fact: I'm going to be in Rocky Horror, and I'm playing Rocky, and I need something gold to go for!
What size would seem realistic for me? I'm a measly 5'3", I have tiny hands, but my shoulders are getting broader because I've been working out a lot. My hip measurement is 34 inches, if that helps at all.
To me the extra small just seems too small (and the head too big) and the small seems to big in general. Also note that I've only ever seen 3 penises before in real life, one of them larger, one of them average, and one of them belonging to a trans woman.