Would you hook up with someone in a relationship?

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Would you hook up with someone in a relationship?

TWE112 TWE112
Would you try to have sex with someone after finding out they have a boyfriend/girlfriend/h usband/wife or would you let them if they were trying to get with you? Explain your answer.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm male and I would
4  (4%)
I'm male and I wouldn't
16  (17%)
I'm female and I would
12  (13%)
I'm female and I wouldn't
49  (52%)
Other?
13  (14%)
Total votes: 94
Poll is closed
09/01/2012
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Willowe Willowe
It depends on whether their partner knew what they were doing. If their partner knew and was okay with it then I might consider it, but if they were sneaking around behind their back then no, forget about it.
09/01/2012
Lioncub Lioncub
If it were an open relationship and all parties involved knew what was going on and were ok with it...sure.
09/01/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by TWE112
Would you try to have sex with someone after finding out they have a boyfriend/girlfriend/h usband/wife or would you let them if they were trying to get with you? Explain your answer.
I'm a little morally flexible apparently. I'd hookup with them...I just wouldn't expect them to be a good bf option down the line. Oh...and I wouldn't pursue them...they would have to pursue me.
09/01/2012
Sodom and Gomorrah Sodom and Gomorrah
OH hell no! I don't borrow or steal.
09/01/2012
Rossie Rossie
No way, I don't like to mess up other people's relationships.
09/01/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'm female and I would not. I respect other people's relationships. I wouldn't want someone to do that to me.
09/01/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
I would only do this if they weren't cheating. Not every relationship is monogamous.
09/01/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by TWE112
Would you try to have sex with someone after finding out they have a boyfriend/girlfriend/h usband/wife or would you let them if they were trying to get with you? Explain your answer.
I might if the other person was okay with it.
09/01/2012
lovebites lovebites
Quote:
Originally posted by ellieprobable
I would only do this if they weren't cheating. Not every relationship is monogamous.
same !
09/01/2012
Apirka Apirka
I'm female and I voted "other"... I'd like to think that I wouldn't do it, but I have though I wish I hadn't.
09/01/2012
JessiShey JessiShey
I was immature and didn't care about other people's feelings when I was younger. I wish I hadn't done it. Now that I have a fiance, I would be crushed if he ever cheated on me. So I chose other.
09/01/2012
LadyRelentless LadyRelentless
I would never do that.

but I have.

So I suppose I would.

Oops.
09/01/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
I would not do that.
09/01/2012
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by TWE112
Would you try to have sex with someone after finding out they have a boyfriend/girlfriend/h usband/wife or would you let them if they were trying to get with you? Explain your answer.
I have been with 6 or 7 married guys - some I knew before and some I found out during our ongoing play sessions. The extent of my warning to them is that I don't care either way but whatever decision they make they will have to live with it if they decide to have sex with me. Most who have have done so probably at least ten times each over the years and in one case it has been ongoing for 5 plus years whenever he wants a booty call. I am sure I will be with a few more as life goes on. And yes I'm married and no I don't care if my husbands screws some other woman - we have an open marriage so it doesn't bother me in the least if he does.
09/01/2012
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I had a guy when I was single, do that to me... He pretended to be single...when in fact, he had a woman/wife.
09/01/2012
Big&Bald Big&Bald
I would never do that.
09/01/2012
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
NO!
09/01/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Absolutely not. No question about it.
09/01/2012
J5ive J5ive
nope
09/01/2012
freud13 freud13
Nope
09/02/2012
xxombie xxombie
Today, absolutely not. I did once when I was younger and before I was married. I regret it because although he said they had an "open like" relationship, I feel now that that was probably bullshit. It still hurts my soul knowing that I did it.
09/02/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by TWE112
Would you try to have sex with someone after finding out they have a boyfriend/girlfriend/h usband/wife or would you let them if they were trying to get with you? Explain your answer.
I would not. It's wrong.
09/02/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I wouldn't....not a good idea.
09/02/2012
anonkitty anonkitty
Nope. Things get less safe health-wise when there's another person involved.
09/02/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I wouldn't "hook up", period.
09/02/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Male here. I would not
09/02/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
No, because I've been cheated on and I know how it feels. Plus, if someone would cheat on their current SO to be with me, who is to say that guy won't cheat on me eventually?
09/02/2012
js250 js250
We did once--with each other 16 years ago.... NEVER again!!!!
09/02/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
If everyone knew and was ok with it, perhaps.
09/02/2012
Total posts: 63
Unique posters: 63