Do you usually go for the same kind of guy, or are you eclectic?

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Do you usually go for the same kind of guy, or are you eclectic?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
How is your dating history like? Do you tend to date similar guys, or do you mix it up all the time?
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I tend to go for the same kind of guy
15  (29%)
I'm in the middle
13  (25%)
I'm eclectic- they're all different!
20  (39%)
3  (6%)
Total votes: 51
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ID42 ID42
The only thing ever the same about guys I used to date was their height. They have all been at least a foot or more taller than I am. After that, their interests, talents, likes and dislikes, style of dress and even their music of choice was all different.
MaryExy MaryExy
Both guys I've dated worked out a lot, but I think that's about it...
Sir Sir
Same type of person, always. Maybe that's why my relationships always screw up.
Envy Envy
It depends for me. I tend to go for very similar personalities, but looks are always different.
Pinkhare Pinkhare
I have such a wide range of things i like in a man , that no two are ever the exact same .
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I haven't had any different guy since my junior year in high school, since I am marrying my sweetheart. However, I always leaned toward the same guys until I met my fiance. I always wanted the bad boys, no matter what type of bad boys they were; Rockers, gangsters, hicks, etc.
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
How is your dating history like? Do you tend to date similar guys, or do you mix it up all the time?
I definitely have a preference for Eastern European men with light eyes and hair and taller than me.
ss143 ss143
Im in the middle I know what I like but am open to possibilities
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I fall for completely different guys.
Fuck it. Fuck it.
All of mine have been completely different. I don't have a type or a favorite hair color.
deletedacct deletedacct
They all play music as a hobby or are in/have been in bands and love going to concerts.
GravyCakes GravyCakes
i dated a blond eagle scout, then a guy who was 1/2 white & 1/2 asian & acted like he was black, & now i'm dating a nerdy nerd w/ glasses who makes me very happy.
Ansley Ansley
I tend to go for the same type of guy. Tall, dark hair, brown eyes. I once dated someone similar to my height with blue eyes and he was the only person I ever briefly thought about murdering in his sleep. So take that for what you will. Ha!
teeny <3 teeny <3
For the most part my type has been big fat violent jerks But lately I've made a style shift and started dating a polite attractive guy who's built like a Greek statue. Go me!
gone77 gone77
Originally posted by Envy
It depends for me. I tend to go for very similar personalities, but looks are always different.
Same for me. All of the men I've been attracted to have been funny, intelligent, and fun to be around but they all usually look different.
sarki sarki
I go for the same kind each time
sassyNsensual sassyNsensual
my friend and i just talked about this.....all of them are different. The only thing that is the same with all of them is that they need something "fixed." I know I shouldn't do that at all and i'm trying to stop
Pixel Pixel
I tend to be attracted to the same kind of guy. Military or paramilitary (like EMS, Fire or Police), and an alpha. I need to date someone who understands my career, accepts that it's dangerous, and who will have my back when I need them to! Dating civilians just doesn't seem to work out for me anymore.
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I've dated everything from pierced and tattooed freaks who hang from hooks, to military men, to pretty boys, to country boys, to nerdy boys, to musicians . . .

I'm still waiting to get my hands on one of those rapper boys. Hahaha.
Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
i gravitate towards a particular type but try to give others types a chance as well.
Shellz31 Shellz31
I have certain things I always look for in a partner, but they have always been very different guys.
guard083 guard083
they have all been different
Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Like Dixie, I tend to date really tall guys. At first I didn't plan it, but then I realized somewhere around my 5th boy that they were all about a foot taller than me, so I figured I'd stick with it since it was working.
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Both men I've been with have been older and from different cultures. The similarities end there.
Zakkie Zakkie
They are/were sweethearts to me. Two of them kinda geeky (but I like that). That's about it though.
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I totally have a type
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Since my divorce, they've consistently been dark-haired and dark-eyed, generally attractive, and take care of themselves. They're also liberal, extroverted, differing levels of Alpha Male, and uber intelligent. Oh, and horny as hell.

Interestingly enough, they've all admitted (separately, of course) to having the exact same type - snarky, curvy, intelligent redheaded subs. I suppose there must be some universal truism of the dark geek Dom and snarky redhead sub somewhere ...
CaliGirl CaliGirl
I always go different.
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
All of them are so very different.
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