I don't know what I have. He says we are fwb. I think it is more, but what, exactly, I have no clue.
I am in a living situation (that I need to get out of, but I live for free for now, so I can't complain too much) where I am not allowed to have people over. So, I go to his house. We don't go out and do things. But, I go to his place, usually in the evening. He usually watches tv, I sit next to or near him, waiting for his attention. We might have sex, and then he generally falls asleep. This is the type of relationship I had with my husband. This doesn't feel like fwb to me.
He told me early on that he was starting to get attached... and I can't have any relationship without some feelings. But, he doesn't seem to want my attachment. And he has changed. He has stopped with the pet names and being cute. We used to go out and do things. We don't anymore.
Unfortunately, this is the best sex I've had in over 15 years... since my first bf, my college bf. I can't just let this one go. :-( I don't know what to do.
I had a relationship this summer where I was just a booty call. I really got nothing out of it.
If you are "friends", shouldn't we do things once in a while, other than sit around and have sex? I am constantly confused and frustrated. And I guess I don't know what fwb is supposed to be. But, it seems to me, that isn't what we have, either.