whats the best way for you to get in the mood? i know there are a lot of different thing for different people but from this list, what do you prefer? if you choose other please tell what it is if you dont mind.
whats your foreplay way?
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All of the above and more! We generally go with whatever works with the amount of time and privacy we have.
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paralax
whats the best way for you to get in the mood? i know there are a lot of different thing for different people but from this list, what do you prefer? if you choose other please tell what it is if you dont mind.
09/11/2010
We do a lot of massage to go from releasing the days tension - to getting ready for intimacy. For us it's a particularly useful way to get into the mood. I checked oral as well - but I don't consider that foreplay - for me that's part of the main sexual encounter - in fact it may be the only sexual activity in some cases.
09/11/2010
Well for me to get in the mood we often will tell each other during the day how much we're wanting each other. I guess you could maybe consider that "dirty talk" but I personally consider dirty talk to be more of the talk we do during sex itself. During the day we're working, have kids to take care of, etc. and so we can't just stop everything and go at it..so it builds up anticipation. We also will kiss and "grope" a little when we pass during the day (we work at home but work in different areas of the home so when we see each other we have little mini makeout sessions LOL)
Foreplay we'll sometimes do massages or kissing and caressing, sometimes shower together...that's usually how we start the "engines running" I guess. By the time it gets to oral I no longer consider that just foreplay..it's kind of the gateway between foreplay and sex I guess.
Foreplay we'll sometimes do massages or kissing and caressing, sometimes shower together...that's usually how we start the "engines running" I guess. By the time it gets to oral I no longer consider that just foreplay..it's kind of the gateway between foreplay and sex I guess.
09/11/2010
Kissing, touching, biting, groping, pretty standard foreplay stuff does it for me. With some domination thrown in, too (pulling my hair, holding me down, grabbing my wrists, grabbing my throat). And fingering! Gotta love fingering.
Tickling can also turn me on a lot. I'm very ticklish and my boyfriend likes to randomly exploit this weakness of mine throughout the day. It rarely actually leads to anything sexual; it's just us having fun. But sometimes he pins me down so I can't get away or move my arms or legs and just goes to town on me. It's him being so close and me being totally helpless, him having complete control over me, that turns me on. And the noises I make and my struggling to get away turns him on, so the few times it has led to sex have been fantastic.
Tickling can also turn me on a lot. I'm very ticklish and my boyfriend likes to randomly exploit this weakness of mine throughout the day. It rarely actually leads to anything sexual; it's just us having fun. But sometimes he pins me down so I can't get away or move my arms or legs and just goes to town on me. It's him being so close and me being totally helpless, him having complete control over me, that turns me on. And the noises I make and my struggling to get away turns him on, so the few times it has led to sex have been fantastic.
09/13/2010
Foreplay implies that the goal is penetrative intercourse. We have decided that we will make love in any way that satisfies us at the moment. We have no program and no pressure to have orgasms. (Okay, we have a lot of orgasms, but it is important on a philosophical level.)
We may go from penetrative intercourse to masturbation, oral sex, anal play, kissing, sweet talk or whatever in no sequence and without any other purpose than giving and receiving pleasure.
Our lovemaking is all play, with no distinction between "fore," "during" and "after."
We may go from penetrative intercourse to masturbation, oral sex, anal play, kissing, sweet talk or whatever in no sequence and without any other purpose than giving and receiving pleasure.
Our lovemaking is all play, with no distinction between "fore," "during" and "after."
10/04/2010
Dirty talk has never really been my thing... I always end up laughing or giggling hysterically and totally kill the mood unless of course that dirty talk occurs during a little roleplay session... Why that makes such a difference I'm not sure, but eh I guess we all have our quirks. I'm more of a burst through the door, rip my clothes, and ravish me kind of girl though... so neck biting, hair pulling etc = Sizzle in my department.
10/04/2010
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They all sound good determining on the circumstances.
Originally posted by
paralax
whats the best way for you to get in the mood? i know there are a lot of different thing for different people but from this list, what do you prefer? if you choose other please tell what it is if you dont mind.
10/17/2010
