Who's more outgoing, you or your partner?

Who's more outgoing, you or your partner?

 
 
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Rossie Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
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Rossie, Jaimes, unfulfilled, padmeamidala, LaLaLouise, Subbi, CrystaCat, Sublime, Ryuson, wrmbreze, aliceinthehole, poetprincess, Megan Jean, MooRawr, sktb0007, JessCee, Illusional, Oxygen99, Sapphires13, Undead, MimicMouse, grrrl, Stagger13
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zwee75, Coralbell, Gracie, Sammi, (k)InkyIvy, shcoo, Zombirella, Beck, SilverMinxxx, leatherlover, SexyTabby, Airen Wolf, voenne, Mr. E, guard083, Taylor, mpfm
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OhMy!, prttynink, Claire de Cerises, link82, urhappybunnie, ~LaUr3n~, slynch
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Jaimes, Elnoa, JewelsAndB, Peggi, ////, Airen Wolf
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Stormy, Elnoa, Ms. Spice, ily, toxie m
Total votes: 58 (55 voters)
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12/27/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm social but he'd rather be a hermit so we're hermits. I wish we were able to go out and make friends before my kids came along.
12/27/2011
zwee75 zwee75
He's absolutely more social IRL. I'm more social online. I answered IRL, though.
12/27/2011
Stormy Stormy
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It really depends on the situation---he's more outgoing with complete strangers but I'm more outgoing in the company of people I've known for quite a long time and we're both about the same when it comes to our families. He's quiet around mine and I'm more reserved around his.
12/27/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
Neither of us are very outgoing. Howerver, my husband is better at "exchanging niceties", but I am much more interesting to talk to.
12/27/2011
Subbi Subbi
Its normally me. The only time hes more outgoing is when it comes to our business
12/27/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I'd say my boyfriend is a bit more outgoing than I am. I am usually outgoing, and I normally love meeting new people, going to parties etc. but there are certain situations where I'm shy. When I really want to make a good impression I will get nervous and shy, like job interviews or when I met my boyfriend's family.
12/27/2011
CrystaCat CrystaCat
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Originally posted by Elnoa
Neither of us are very outgoing. Howerver, my husband is better at "exchanging niceties", but I am much more interesting to talk to.
Love your post Elnoa. I am pretty out going and my husband is too. I can talk to anyone my husband takes a little longer to warm up to people.
12/27/2011
Gracie Gracie
Quote:
Originally posted by Elnoa
Neither of us are very outgoing. Howerver, my husband is better at "exchanging niceties", but I am much more interesting to talk to.
I love, love, love this response! I bet you are fasinating!
12/27/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I'm single right now, but most of my former partners are usually more outgoing than me. I like being friendly (initially) to strangers, but they usually keep the conversation going. The same happens when we talk with friends.
12/27/2011
Sublime Sublime
I always have been more outgoing than any of my partners.
12/27/2011
shcoo shcoo
My partner is waaaay more outgoing than me. It's a source of many of our problems.
12/28/2011
JewelsAndB JewelsAndB
Both Jewels and I are introverts... me more-so then her. Part of it, for me, is that I have a number of traits of Autism, including issues with social cues and difficulty communicating.
12/28/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
I am, my boyfriend has social anxiety disorder so...
12/28/2011
poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
I am in every way. And i make more the half the decisions. It kind of sucks It would be nice to have someone decide just once for me..
12/28/2011
Megan Jean Megan Jean
I'm far more outgoing. He's a bit of a hermit, and I'm usually out and about. It works out somehow, though.
12/28/2011
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
He is alot more outgoing than I am for sure.
Jan 2, 12:24 am
prttynink prttynink
Past relationships have all been one way or the other, but my boyfriend and I are pretty evenly matched, and I have to say it's lovely
Jan 2, 1:38 am
MooRawr MooRawr
We don't really socialize but am more outgoing.
Jan 2, 12:28 pm
sktb0007 sktb0007
Most of the time I think I am. but he has his moments
Jan 2, 2:53 pm
Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by sktb0007
Most of the time I think I am. but he has his moments
Ditto. Around his friends, he is obviously. But otherwise, it's all me.
Jan 2, 3:47 pm
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
I'm more outgoing by a long shot. If it's wasn't for me, we probably would have never met.
Jan 2, 4:04 pm
//// ////
About the same. We're shut ins. My man has social anxiety pretty badly, and I just don't like people.
Jan 2, 4:25 pm
toxie m toxie m
It depends on the situation. We both have our moments. He can be much more outgoing than me with new people, but then there are times when he refuses to leave his apartment and just doesn't want to be around anyone.
Jan 2, 4:32 pm
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't normally socialize. Hubby and I mostly stay to ourselves but when we are out and about he is much better at mingling. I don't overly like strangers and find it hard to join into converstaions.
Jan 2, 4:53 pm
Claire de Cerises Claire de Cerises
We're equal in how outgoing we are.
Jan 2, 5:20 pm
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
I'm more outgoing than my fiance is. She usually waits for people to talk first.
Jan 3, 2:00 pm
Aberrant Aberrant
We are outgoing in different ways, I am very shy and awkward in groups, but have many friends who I hang out with one on one, and he is good in groups but doesn't just hang out with people so much. It balances out
Jan 5, 12:33 am
CrystaCat CrystaCat
My husband is probably becoming more out going than me at this point because we moved and I do not know anyone. I get tired of dirty looks so than I act like a bitch! Back home I felt comfortable know matter where I was I knew everyone! But Not here this sucks!
Jan 6, 2:37 pm
Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by CrystaCat
My husband is probably becoming more out going than me at this point because we moved and I do not know anyone. I get tired of dirty looks so than I act like a bitch! Back home I felt comfortable know matter where I was I knew everyone! But Not here ... More
It's awful to be treated that way, but why do they give you dirty looks?
Jan 6, 3:06 pm
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