Who's more outgoing, you or your partner?

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Who's more outgoing, you or your partner?

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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm more outgoing.
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My partner's more outgoing.
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We're both just as social.
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We do not like to socialize with other people.
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Others ...
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Total votes: 91 (87 voters)
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12/27/2011
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Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm social but he'd rather be a hermit so we're hermits. I wish we were able to go out and make friends before my kids came along.
12/27/2011
Contributor: karay123 karay123
He's absolutely more social IRL. I'm more social online. I answered IRL, though.
12/27/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
It really depends on the situation---he's more outgoing with complete strangers but I'm more outgoing in the company of people I've known for quite a long time and we're both about the same when it comes to our families. He's quiet around mine and I'm more reserved around his.
12/27/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Neither of us are very outgoing. Howerver, my husband is better at "exchanging niceties", but I am much more interesting to talk to.
12/27/2011
Contributor: Subbi Subbi
Its normally me. The only time hes more outgoing is when it comes to our business
12/27/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I'd say my boyfriend is a bit more outgoing than I am. I am usually outgoing, and I normally love meeting new people, going to parties etc. but there are certain situations where I'm shy. When I really want to make a good impression I will get nervous and shy, like job interviews or when I met my boyfriend's family.
12/27/2011
Contributor: CrystaCat CrystaCat
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Originally posted by Ghost
Neither of us are very outgoing. Howerver, my husband is better at "exchanging niceties", but I am much more interesting to talk to.
Love your post Elnoa. I am pretty out going and my husband is too. I can talk to anyone my husband takes a little longer to warm up to people.
12/27/2011
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Quote:
Originally posted by Ghost
Neither of us are very outgoing. Howerver, my husband is better at "exchanging niceties", but I am much more interesting to talk to.
I love, love, love this response! I bet you are fasinating!
12/27/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I'm single right now, but most of my former partners are usually more outgoing than me. I like being friendly (initially) to strangers, but they usually keep the conversation going. The same happens when we talk with friends.
12/27/2011
Contributor: Sublime Sublime
I always have been more outgoing than any of my partners.
12/27/2011
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
My partner is waaaay more outgoing than me. It's a source of many of our problems.
12/28/2011
Contributor: JewelsAndB JewelsAndB
Both Jewels and I are introverts... me more-so then her. Part of it, for me, is that I have a number of traits of Autism, including issues with social cues and difficulty communicating.
12/28/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I am, my boyfriend has social anxiety disorder so...
12/28/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
I am in every way. And i make more the half the decisions. It kind of sucks It would be nice to have someone decide just once for me..
12/28/2011
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
I'm far more outgoing. He's a bit of a hermit, and I'm usually out and about. It works out somehow, though.
12/28/2011
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
He is alot more outgoing than I am for sure.
01/02/2012
Contributor: prttynink prttynink
Past relationships have all been one way or the other, but my boyfriend and I are pretty evenly matched, and I have to say it's lovely
01/02/2012
Contributor: MooRawr MooRawr
We don't really socialize but am more outgoing.
01/02/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
Most of the time I think I am. but he has his moments
01/02/2012
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
Most of the time I think I am. but he has his moments
Ditto. Around his friends, he is obviously. But otherwise, it's all me.
01/02/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I'm more outgoing by a long shot. If it's wasn't for me, we probably would have never met.
01/02/2012
Contributor: blacklodge blacklodge
About the same. We're shut ins. My man has social anxiety pretty badly, and I just don't like people.
01/02/2012
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
It depends on the situation. We both have our moments. He can be much more outgoing than me with new people, but then there are times when he refuses to leave his apartment and just doesn't want to be around anyone.
01/02/2012
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't normally socialize. Hubby and I mostly stay to ourselves but when we are out and about he is much better at mingling. I don't overly like strangers and find it hard to join into converstaions.
01/02/2012
Contributor: Claire de Cerises Claire de Cerises
We're equal in how outgoing we are.
01/02/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Between you and your partner, who's the more outgoing one, or do you both like to mingle with people?
I'm more outgoing than my fiance is. She usually waits for people to talk first.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Aberrant Aberrant
We are outgoing in different ways, I am very shy and awkward in groups, but have many friends who I hang out with one on one, and he is good in groups but doesn't just hang out with people so much. It balances out
01/05/2012
Contributor: CrystaCat CrystaCat
My husband is probably becoming more out going than me at this point because we moved and I do not know anyone. I get tired of dirty looks so than I act like a bitch! Back home I felt comfortable know matter where I was I knew everyone! But Not here this sucks!
01/06/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by CrystaCat
My husband is probably becoming more out going than me at this point because we moved and I do not know anyone. I get tired of dirty looks so than I act like a bitch! Back home I felt comfortable know matter where I was I knew everyone! But Not here ... more
It's awful to be treated that way, but why do they give you dirty looks?
01/06/2012