Traditional harnesses for secure and comfortable strap on sex.

If the SpareParts Joque your favorite, but you prefer a g-string, this might be great for you. Still a bit bulky, but comfortable when you get all the straps set up just right. Read more

Excellent, comfortable harness. Would work well for a beginner or for people who don't like the sharpness of leather or hard nylon straps. The lack of interchangeable O-rings is a problem, but may be worth it to have the comfort. Read more

Well made, durable, easily adjustable and very, very, sexy...overall, this harness is a wonderful addition to our toy collection. It will hold up without the snaps breaking, no overly annoying twisting of the straps, and zero dildo slippage. Read more

The Annie-O is an excellent option for anyone looking to explore pegging or gender play. The issues with it are minor compared with the quality of material and durability of the design. I'd definitely recommend the Annie-O over non-leather strap-ons, but it seems to be equivalent in quality to other leather harnesses, so really, it's the cute design and double dildo feature that puts this above the others. Read more

This is a really versatile and durable harness for the price. It's an excellent choice for beginners to harness play and probably for packing as well. Read more

When it says beginner, completely believe it. This is a very basic and unintimidating kit. For someone fairly new to harness play as I am, this kit would have been great when I was first experimenting with it but with any experience at all the kit is simply unimpressive. Read more

This harness is totally worth the money. I had never purchased a harness before and so as a beginner it has worked out really well for me. It is highly adjustable so I am able to wear it exactly where I would like. Questioning as to which harness you should get, get this one! Read more

To sum up, the Mia-Z is good for non-vegan beginners. It allows the wearer to be penetrated as well as the partner – a nice feature! This harness comes with a pouch for storage and is a vibrant green color. If green’s not your thing, this harness also comes in pink. The Mia-Z will also fit a wide range of hip sizes, so if you’re a plus-sized gal like me, this harness will fit. Read more

In general, if you're not sure if strap-on-sex will be your thing, I highly recommend this harness. It was my first harness and I've had a lot of fun with it. However, if you know strap-on sex is going to be part of your usual repertoire, I would not recommend it. Read more

This built to last harness from Aslan Leather has been created with innovative, pleasure-minded features and is made from high quality animal-free materials. Read more

The back cat harness is a wonderful harness. It has an interchangeable O-ring, and is perfect for any dildo or toy with a flared base. The back cat harness is waterproof, so you can use it in the bath or shower. It fits most sizes, and is visually appealing to most people, its beginner friendly and perfect for the more advanced. Read more

If you want a more fulFILLING experience, this kit isn't up for the challenge. It's small size leaves you both yearning for more. It's harness is the only redeeming factor. Read more

This harness is a good deal. It will be as accommodating as possible for your varying needs and then allow itself to get tossed in the washing machine. It's vegan, comes with extras and is adjustable. But there are better models on the market and if you're serious about strap-on sex I'd suggest looking elsewhere. Read more

This is a handsome, well-made, quality leather harness that fits a wide variety of bodies very well. Outlaw harnesses are the best! Read more

You can take your Theo anywhere: in the pool, jacuzzi, or the bedroom. It's customizable to within an inch of your actual skin, and it holds up well with almost any dildo I found to use it with. If I like thong style harnesses more, this would be an excellent choice. As it is, it's only a great choice. Read more

As it turns out, some women (at least one woman noted for spanking her husband) finds a dildo coming out of hubby's stomach more than she could stomach! Jo had a good laugh and said something like, "Not on my watch!" There may have been something else about her being the only one in our house who was going to wear a dildo. Read more

The Flame Harness Kit is very pleasing to the eye and to the pocket book. It's a decent beginner's harness and is comfortable. The O-ring seems to pose some issues with keeping the dildo in, however the dildo is the main prize. If it were sold separately it'd be one of the top selling dildos on the site, I'm positive of it. I definitely think with more practice and maybe even a smaller O-ring or a bigger dildo, this would be the perfect harness for beginner and advanced user alike. Read more

Buy some underwear. This thing isn't worth its weight in dust bunnies which is all that it seemed to attract in the short time that I had it. Read more

Probably not worth the full price, but if you can find it for even a little bit cheaper I would definitely recommend getting it to wear for the aesthetic effect. I'm not sure it's the best harness for "doin' it," but if you have a photo shoot or even just a sexy night with someone, it's definitely nice to look at. Read more

This harness lets me fuck and be fucked at the same time, which is a rare, wonderful experience! It opens up many new possibilities for creative lovers, and is both easy to use and easy to clean. Don't be fooled by the less-than-sexy appearance - this toy delivers satisfaction in a humble but oh-so-functional way. Read more

I was aware of course, that a strap-on is not a penis, and as a beginner user, it would require some manipulation and there would be a learning curve, but this device required far too much attention to keep in place. Read more

Used as a beginner for anal, this dildo was less than fabulous, but I imagine it would fare better for vaginal sex. Read more

I was disappointed by the harness and threw it away after a few uses. The dildo is nice; I kept that. Read more

I would buy the Leather Ring Harness for the harness but not necessarily the dildo. The ease of getting into the harness without having to adjust straps and overall comfort are both big pluses. The non-adjustable O-ring is a disadvantage for using dongs with a smaller diameter than one and five eights inch. Read more

This toy was not very exciting to us. It gave us a wonderful new mouth gag which we love. The first few times were fun, but after a few uses, the dildo becomes hard to insert. Read more

The Jack Rabbit Harness from Cal Exotics is a decent set. The rabbit is a bit of a let down as it is covered in oily residue that has a strong chemical smell. The harness on the other hand is quite nice. It has a design unlike any other harness we own. If you are a beginner looking to test the water then this is a good value set. Read more