I'm wanting a good beginner's harness/dildo set. I don't want to spend a ton, which is why I've picked these two. I want something that is going to be comfortable for both people, but it won't be getting very much use so keep that in mind. Probably once or twice every 6+ months. The dildo on the Sportsheets one looks less intimidating, but I'm concerned that the harness isn't as comfortable or the dildo won't be enough. The Cal Exotics one looks like a more comfortable harness, but the dildo looks a bit big. Size is an issue for the guy, he doesn't want anything "too big".
Which is better for beginners?
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Which is a better choice?
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Having never used either of them (our first harness was the bend over beginner's kit), I voted for the Lover's super strap. A couple of things I noticed. The lover's super strap harness looks very similar to the one we have. You can change out the o-ring to accommidate different size toys, important if it turns out that you end up using it more than intially anticipated. The new comers kit doesn't look like it has this capability. Also the lover's super strap has a pouch in the center for a bullet vibe (doesn't look like the kit includes a vibe though). This will give you the option to have some clitoral stimulation during use. The dildo is larger on the lover's super strap, but it's nothing insanely large. If you warm him up with a lubed up finger first, he should be fine. Hope this helps.
01/10/2011
I'm unable to comment on what's better, but here's another option for you: the Latigo leather harness.
It's gotten a lot of good reviews, it's fairly inexpensive, and it has the ability to interchange rings.
The Newcomer's doesn't have the ability to interchange rings, but it comes with a silicone dildo, whereas the Lover's has an interchangeable ring, but comes with a TPR dildo. The Latigo doesn't come with any dildo, so you can choose what you want without basing the purchase on the dildo itself.
It's gotten a lot of good reviews, it's fairly inexpensive, and it has the ability to interchange rings.
The Newcomer's doesn't have the ability to interchange rings, but it comes with a silicone dildo, whereas the Lover's has an interchangeable ring, but comes with a TPR dildo. The Latigo doesn't come with any dildo, so you can choose what you want without basing the purchase on the dildo itself.
01/11/2011
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I would second the Latigo leather harness. It's a good basic harness and allows you to use your own dildos rather than getting one as part of a kit.
Originally posted by
Annemarie
I'm unable to comment on what's better, but here's another option for you: the Latigo leather harness.
It's gotten a lot of good reviews, it's fairly inexpensive, and it has the ability to interchange rings.
The Newcomer's doesn't have ...
It's gotten a lot of good reviews, it's fairly inexpensive, and it has the ability to interchange rings.
The Newcomer's doesn't have ...
I'm unable to comment on what's better, but here's another option for you: the Latigo leather harness.
It's gotten a lot of good reviews, it's fairly inexpensive, and it has the ability to interchange rings.
The Newcomer's doesn't have the ability to interchange rings, but it comes with a silicone dildo, whereas the Lover's has an interchangeable ring, but comes with a TPR dildo. The Latigo doesn't come with any dildo, so you can choose what you want without basing the purchase on the dildo itself.
It's gotten a lot of good reviews, it's fairly inexpensive, and it has the ability to interchange rings.
The Newcomer's doesn't have the ability to interchange rings, but it comes with a silicone dildo, whereas the Lover's has an interchangeable ring, but comes with a TPR dildo. The Latigo doesn't come with any dildo, so you can choose what you want without basing the purchase on the dildo itself.
01/11/2011
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We have two harnesses-one from Bend Over Beginner Kit and Buzz Me Tender harness. The Buzz Me Tender Harness is our favorite. It is well made and has two pouches for small vibrators to stimulate her clitoris while she fucks me. Both harnesses can accept a variety of dildos. As far as dildos are concerned-the maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 5/16 inch, but 7 inches long is fine. Our two favorite dildos are Vibrating Mistress and Vibrating Leisure. We much prefer silicone dildos. Use lots and lots of lube. We like Wet Original.
Originally posted by
Kissaki
Having never used either of them (our first harness was the bend over beginner's kit), I voted for the Lover's super strap. A couple of things I noticed. The lover's super strap harness looks very similar to the one we have. You can change out the
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Having never used either of them (our first harness was the bend over beginner's kit), I voted for the Lover's super strap. A couple of things I noticed. The lover's super strap harness looks very similar to the one we have. You can change out the o-ring to accommidate different size toys, important if it turns out that you end up using it more than intially anticipated. The new comers kit doesn't look like it has this capability. Also the lover's super strap has a pouch in the center for a bullet vibe (doesn't look like the kit includes a vibe though). This will give you the option to have some clitoral stimulation during use. The dildo is larger on the lover's super strap, but it's nothing insanely large. If you warm him up with a lubed up finger first, he should be fine. Hope this helps.
01/12/2011
Of the two, I'd go with the thruster. However, I don't think either of these are the best choice. For a starter kit, I would go with the Sportsheets Heart Harness. The dong is a decent size, the harness is comfortable and it's cheap. Once you decide that this is something you want to do...get something better.
01/19/2011
If we're talking about putting something up the guy's butt, the dildo on the Lover's Super Strap is going to be way too big for a beginner guy. Way too big. I'd recommend the Sportsheets harness more. The dildo is a bit slim and will require a bit of finangaling since it's also a bit short, but at the same time, it's going to be a lot more comfortable for someone to see. After all, looking at gigantor dildo versus moderate dildo: which one makes you feel more comfortable for something going up your butt?
The Lover's harness also seems to sit awkwardly high on the hips, and Sportsheets usually makes good quality stuff from what I've tried. I own a couple of their harnesses and like them.
The Lover's harness also seems to sit awkwardly high on the hips, and Sportsheets usually makes good quality stuff from what I've tried. I own a couple of their harnesses and like them.
01/22/2011
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I strongly recommend buying separately. For a quality harness and dildo you're not spending much more, and you can choose exactly what suits you.
Originally posted by
PassionCpl
We're hoping to order the Bend Over Beginners in the next week or two since that seems most likely to 'hit the spot' for us (we want one with both a vibe for my benefit and small dildoes for hubby's)
11/19/2011
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