Have you ever actually discussed your anal play with your partner, when not in bed?

Bignuf Bignuf
In short, have you ever had an intelligent, non-sexual time, discussion about what lubes to use, or what did or didn't feel good...etc, when completely away from the activity?

We do sometimes, but, again, we are a very odd couple, I guess.

Sometimes I use different candy when doing oral on my hubby and we had a full on discussion of which candy I like the feel of in my mouth, and he was telling me which felt better to him, and why...and all this was on a two hour car ride. (Interestingly, it was so intellectual and factual, neither of us got "horny" discussing the issues. Odd even for us!!!

Anyone else have these "sex discussions" away from sex time?
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We' re just starting out with anal play, so communication is important - we're still learning. It doesn't come up a lot - mostly just before or just after to see what we need to do - or avoid doing.
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Yes, and not just about anal. You should've seen him blush when, not long after its purchase, I began asking him about the Omega cock ring while we were waiting to order sandwiches at a Subway. He blushed even harder when the guy behind the counter wanted to know what we were laughing about after seeing the expression on my husband's face.
lainebug lainebug
Yes we do it's easier to discuss away from the bed. You aren't in the moment and if you happen to get turned on then all the better.
leatherlover leatherlover
On a long car trip one time I brought up anal sex and trying to get my wife to try it with me. I was ultimately unsuccessful, but I did put in a good effort, and we did talk about it for a while.
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