How long did it take for you to train yourself?

DreamWolf DreamWolf 03/04/2012

So, let's say you had to learn how to enjoy rear entry pleasures, and it took some time to get there...

How long did it take for you to train yourself? :)

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DreamWolf DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
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Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
I am not into such things, so I can't answer it.
03/05/2012
C-Rae C-Rae
I was always curious and so it felt amazing after about 2 minutes.. Now i cant get enough
03/06/2012
ScottA ScottA
If you're interested then give it as long as it takes. Some people get the knack of relaxing their anus really fast, some take months. Some take a while to learn to trust themselves or their partner, some already do. Some people immediately think of poop or doctors when any sensations come from that area, some don't.

It's very variable.
03/07/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
It took a few tries, over a few days, to really LEARN to enjoy it and find my "good" positions. That was decades ago, and now it is simply part of my love life with my hubby regularly.
03/09/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
few months of sticking different things up my ass, than i bought a little plug and dildo....
03/09/2012
LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Not very long. I did start with a small butt plug, then went up to a medium, then went up to a glass one that I wore around a lot, but this was in like.. a couple weeks just so I knew I would be okay during anal sex. it is quite enjoyable now. I actually prefer it.
03/09/2012
samanthalynn samanthalynn
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Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
have only tried a few time and never liked it so i picked other
03/27/2012
cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
It took a couple of months.
04/04/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It depends upon the size. For average toy size, a few weeks of practice.
04/04/2012
ScottA ScottA
My first "biggie" (Tantus A-Bomb) took a couple of months to become absolutely comfortable. A couple of weeks to get in at all.
04/04/2012
ScottA ScottA
And another benchmark - it did take me years before I could trigger an orgasm with anal play.
04/05/2012
Liz2 Liz2
For me, the first time was just a few min, with my finger but went on from there. Small butt plugs with lots of lube and then kept going.
I never realized that my anus would be such a source of pleasure.
04/05/2012
BeachyKeen BeachyKeen
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Originally posted by Liz2
For me, the first time was just a few min, with my finger but went on from there. Small butt plugs with lots of lube and then kept going.
I never realized that my anus would be such a source of pleasure.
Ditto.
Getting ready to order a few toys. I think I may already have size queen tendencies.
04/07/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by Liz2
For me, the first time was just a few min, with my finger but went on from there. Small butt plugs with lots of lube and then kept going.
I never realized that my anus would be such a source of pleasure.
If only all women were as open as you to the experiance instead of being stuck on "He doesn't like my pussy."
04/07/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
My first toy was a 1 1/2" diameter dildo, I was convinced I wasn't going to like it, and at first it seemed like there was no way I could get it inside. After a few minutes of trying it popped in, and after that I never had another problem. A couple of weeks later I'd bought a 2" plug and was ready to start testing my limits.
04/07/2012
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Incendiaire
My first toy was a 1 1/2" diameter dildo, I was convinced I wasn't going to like it, and at first it seemed like there was no way I could get it inside. After a few minutes of trying it popped in, and after that I never had another problem. ... More
Congratulations on a positive first experience even with negative thought baggage. Often if people think their first experience will hurt they'll confirm their expectations (which is why it's important to have an open mind).

Often people will find that though it doesn't hurt anal play still feels "strange" or "funny". This is because their body isn't quite sure how to process the stimulation. In the past those feelings have generally been connected to the bathroom, and most people don't link that and sex. You need to be willing to learn how to "reprocess" those signals to get the maximum enjoyment.
04/07/2012
Terri69 Terri69
For a long time, I was not into anything anal but once I got into my 40's, I started loosening up and now I get upset of all the good times I lost out on due to my frigidness
04/15/2012
abbylover abbylover
I'm still getting used to it. We can do it comfortably sometimes but other times we still have problems making it work out. We're still trying different ways of warming up and lubes and all that.
04/21/2012
Daemonin Daemonin
I'm still getting there. Had a rough first try and have been very hesitant ever since. I still want to give it a fair try, though.
04/25/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Maybe half an hour.
05/01/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I use plugs, but I am still working up to anal sex with a penis.
05/01/2012
Mistress Sassy Mistress Sassy
I didn't use plugs or much stretching besides my boyfriend's penis. We took anal sex very slowly. We started, tried to let him slide in with lube and continued to do this over three days. By day four I could take all of him in and was ready to go all the way, but complicated things popped up with family!
05/01/2012
All His All His
I know i can but everytime i have to go through the motiosn of talkin gmyself through it again, so we start out slow and let me remember to relax and then go at it
05/04/2012
StarFire StarFire
not very long just make sure you start small
05/04/2012
ReadmyLips ReadmyLips
I was wondering the same thing...Just now getting into it myself and I learn so much from these posts!
07/03/2012
Anne Anne
Took me about a few years.
07/06/2012
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
just a few minutes
07/06/2012
allinonekid allinonekid
To figure out I liked it? seconds.

To make fun toys from things around the house? an hour or two once I figured out what felt good

To figure out there were places like this to buy toys meant for it? Days.

To realize I was 15 at the time and couldn't buy anything even if I had had the money? seconds after the last.
07/06/2012
bbygrl1988 bbygrl1988
Has not happened and I dont think it will
07/06/2012
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by ScottA
My first "biggie" (Tantus A-Bomb) took a couple of months to become absolutely comfortable. A couple of weeks to get in at all.
WOW, no matter how hard I try I still cannot take the Tantus A-Bomb.
07/06/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
Minutes. I just went for it and I'm glad I did
07/07/2012
squire squire
Months, but well worth the invested time!
07/14/2012
Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
minutes
07/28/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
i had anal sex before regular sex
07/29/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
i had anal sex before regular sex
07/29/2012
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
didnt take me long at all really
07/29/2012
amazon amazon
It doesn't take long, it just takes a little easing in to it. Some people, I suppose, can go straight to it. Not me, I've gotta warm up to it.... but once I do I'm hot!!!
07/29/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I had anal sex before I owned any toys. I'm lucky - I seem to be able to easily relax my muscles back there.
07/30/2012
kitty1949 kitty1949
Minutes. If I'm turned on, I'm good to go.
08/08/2012
winecountrygirl winecountrygirl
It took me minutes to know I enjoyed the sensations, but a few weeks to actually have anal sex with a male partner. I bought several smaller toys, and just bumped up the size until the diameter was comparable to my partner's penis. He was an absolute treat to have for my first experiencee, and I will definitely do it again.
08/08/2012
joelb42 joelb42
Still working on it. Got my first butt plug and really enjoyed it. I accidentally bought one that was a little too big so waiting to get a smaller one so I can build up to the bigger one.
08/08/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
Months.
08/08/2012
Gdom Gdom
Yeah, not long at all
08/08/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
Though it hurt terribly the first time, and has others, it still felt good even with the pain.
08/08/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
Just a few minutes
08/10/2012
Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
I like rear entry play but I am a little confused by your question. Like right away I enjoyed it, but I still think it feels weird when there is something in my butt. I don't know if that feeling will ever go away.
08/10/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
Months
08/10/2012
icelandia icelandia
it didn't take too long
08/17/2012
tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
don't do it so cannot answer it
01/28/2013
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
It took a few months. I used to tear really easily but now i can enjoy it more.
01/31/2013
Why Not? Why Not?
It only takes me minutes to warm up, but it has taken years for me to fully explore all of the fun potential of anal play.
02/04/2013
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I started small (anal beads) and worked my way up over the years.
02/23/2013
spiced spiced
It took me months, but when I bought the right toy and used enough lube, it just took minutes after that.
02/25/2013
Hot4You Hot4You
Other. Still doing it.
02/26/2013
StarrStacked StarrStacked
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
And was it easy for your taste or harder?
Fingers were minutes, but the bf and have the goal to eventually have anal sex with his penis and that has taken years. We're still working on it (more seriously now) so I hope it will happen within the next few months or so.
03/02/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
Definitely something that takes getting used to. It's not like how porn portrays it.
03/02/2013
edeneve edeneve
don't want any SHARTS.
03/06/2013
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