I'm looking for a plug which I can use while having sex. I've looked some up and read reviews but I'm not that experienced. I've played with the lil end and also tried out the mood large butt plug but that attempt was somewhat unsuccessful.
I guess what I'm looking for is something that has a different type of handle/bottom because I'm not sure my guy would be able to get in vaginally while I'm comfortable. Also something more in a medium range perhaps?
I'd generally suggest the Love Pacifier advanced as the first choice. It is silicone, has a very narrow neck and stays put. The length of the bulb is not to long so it might address the your concerns about comfort. The other choice, and I'd really buy them together is of course the Ryder, universal as a warm up before anal play, stays put during intercourse, the material and size are absolutely comfortable too.