Like a lot of the other ladies over.....30-35 or so, I have also found that my orgasms are a LOT harder to get to, take MUCH longer to get to, but usually are very intense (they always were, but it seems like I am entering an Altered State when I Come, even more than before.) However, subsequent orgasms in the same session are easy to get to, they are not nearly as intense as the first 1, 2 or 3, but they add to the Altered State.
I've been told by my man that I not only scream (when I'm trying not to) but of course, thrash around and once in a while I actually lose consciousness during an especially intense orgasm. From my point of view, I'm still conscious, but My Man says it seems like I'm "not here."
When it's really intense, my teeth chatter and I seem to babble afterward, and try to get him into position, I seem to have a hard time controlling my body for a few minutes. Don't even ask me to try to get up. I'll fall right on my ass!
The shakiness and out of this world feeling can last for hours. *sigh*
I wish they were as easy as when I was younger. I used to have to ask My Man to slow down or do something different or tease me so I wouldn't have an orgasm too fast. (NO other lover ever helped me Come as consistently or as intensely as My Man, ever.) Then, after one really hard one, I would lose interest after my orgasm most of the time. THAT doesn't happen any more. I stay aroused for hours, if we continue to play. Back then I only got ONE, it was intense and easy to get. For a few very blissful years, I had easy orgasms AND multiple orgasms. I have to say, I do think they are usually very intense now. But, if I came earlier that day, or had a lot of orgasms in the 24 hours before, they are not as strong, usually. It depends. If I have had "bad luck" and don't orgasm, despite stimulation for several days, get OUT of the way when it finally happens. My Man says he is afraid I'm going to hurt either myself or him.
I've banged my head on the headboard of our water bed and not even realized it until much much later in the day.
I also experience "After Shocks." Smaller orgasms, usually with little or no stimulation, that happen usually if I have an orgasm LAST and we are pretty much done with Play, and I'm just lying on his chest.
A few weeks ago, he had to pee after I came the first couple of times, he had to go into the bathroom and he could hear in the bathroom. He came back in the room and laughing, asked me, "Are you still getting off?" When I said yes, he got back to work.