Ladies: How many tries till you orgasmed with a partner?

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Ladies: How many tries till you orgasmed with a partner?

Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
1st time
bannedcandy , TitsMcScandal , mutewolf , ss143 , hyacinthgirl , T-n-T , wrmbreze , leelee , oneeyedoctopus , ThoughtsAblaze , Lizzy , K101
12  (19%)
2nd time
LoveDrunk , STM , RosaLita
3  (5%)
3rd time
Antipova , stars , pinkcupcakes , LAndJ , favoritemelody , mastersonv , Graniteal
7  (11%)
4th time
kawigrl , MimiPhryxus
2  (3%)
5th time
6th time
Can't remember
Fierce Like Tiger , Rossie , darthkitt3n , Airen Wolf , Love Perpetua , LavenderSkies , Kaltir , Stagger13 , True Pleasures , fredacarl , Lano4ka , All His , duff
13  (21%)
Lost count
Sex'и'Violence , Silverdrop , JessCee , Ghost , Coralbell , toxie m , aliceinthehole , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , shinypinkstars , Missmarc , Tangerine , mudpie , Stephanie Majors , Darktragedy , Taylor , Teacookie
16  (26%)
Other
ily , potstickers , allinonekid , Collogue , HannahPanda , AndromedaJane , GonetoLovehoney , 7Miles , eblossom
9  (15%)
Total votes: 62
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09/22/2011
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Antipova Antipova
The first two times my high school boyfriend and I had PIV, I was like "all right, this is nice, but I don't see why it's any better than fingers..." so the third time I had him just be still til I wiggled around and figured my muscles out. About ten minutes and I was set, and I am able to orgasm from just PIV like 97% of the time ever since.
09/22/2011
Silverdrop Silverdrop
It was a few months after I started having sex. It wasn't until I got on the pill and we stopped using condoms that it happened. We were so dumb we didn't know that condoms are a lot more comfortable with lube.
09/22/2011
Ghost Ghost
I hardly ever orgasm with a partner and it doesn't bother me much.
09/22/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
A lot! We were both inexperienced, and I'd never really masturbated before that, so it took quite a while to get it figured out.
09/23/2011
toxie m toxie m
I was sexually active for years before I could orgasm with a partner (or by myself, for that matter). So, countless times.
09/23/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
ha.. took me about 6 years and about 20 partners.
09/23/2011
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I guess I was just (and still am...) lucky that I have orgasmed with every single partner I've been with. And beyond that, about 98% of the encounters I've had with those partners have led to orgasms as well.
09/23/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
Sigel was my first sexual partner but we had a lovely time figuring out what it would take for me to orgasm. He looked at it like a game. With Arch I was more experienced and he listened better...so it was the first time.
11/28/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
It took me a long time to be able to orgasm from penetration, usually I need to be on top. Before then I always got off from oral, not from penetrative sex.
11/28/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
My first orgasm at all was with a partner on probably about the third time.
11/28/2011
Missmarc Missmarc
Didn't orgasm at all until my current boyfriend
11/28/2011
Collogue Collogue
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
I have not had PIV sex but first time oral with my current partner was the first time i got off. it was also the same night of first time fingering
11/29/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
I don't remember.
12/05/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
I'm not certain. Up until my husband I could NEVER orgasm with anyone, no matter what we did. Even with him it's iffy. Most times I at least get close, and many times I do orgasm, but we were together at least a few months before I even started to come close. But I loved sex with him just the same I think I'm too focused on him enjoying the things I do, for me to orgasm, though I enjoy it just as much as he does
12/07/2011
AndromedaJane AndromedaJane
Never have. =(
12/27/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Never have not. I'm kind of ridiculously sensitive, and it's harder for me not to have an orgasm than it is to have multiples.
12/28/2011
Stephanie Majors Stephanie Majors
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
I'm not sure why but it took about 2 months before I reached orgasm with my bf and now every time after I have climaxed so it's so great!
01/01/2012
dbm6907 dbm6907
Never
01/27/2012
Brandonn Brandonn
Lots of interesting responses.
01/27/2012
Taylor Taylor
With my first two partners, I never orgasmed. Then I met my Dom who was a lot more experienced and was willing to incorperate more toys and variety. We eventually figured out what worked for me and I have been pretty consistent with being able to orgasm since then.
01/27/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
took a few tries. but i got there
01/27/2012
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I can only get there through my own manual stimulation, I've never been brought to orgasm by anyone.
01/27/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I honestly can't remember..
02/01/2012
fredacarl fredacarl
it took some time
02/02/2012
7Miles 7Miles
It still hasn't happened yet. I only recently learned how to orgasm without using a vibrator.
02/02/2012
leelee leelee
first time
02/05/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I don't remember the first time I orgasmed through intercourse. But the first time I orgasmed with my boyfriend was with all my clothes on straddling his lab and just grinding my hips against him.
02/06/2012
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I orgasmed the first time I had sex. I imagine it helped that I'd been masturbating for a decade beforehand, and thus new my body well to know what I needed; plus, he brought experience to the table and was great at both helping and listening.
02/06/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
Obviously it depends on the partner
02/06/2012
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