Poll: What Are Your Instant Orgasm Killlers? - from Em and Lo

Em & Lo Em & Lo
Imagine you’re on the uphill path to physical bliss, whether traveling alone or with a partner…you’re almost at the edge of that climactic cliff! We just asked our EMandLO.com readers the following, and want to know how EdenFantasys members compare: What it would take to trip you up, to send you falling backwards down the hill, never to see that potential orgasm again (at least not in this session)? A phone call, a phone call from your mother, a pet staring at you, hearing your kids in the other room, your partner suddenly attempting dirty talk…and failing, an uncontrollable thought about some life stress, the doorbell, an ill-timed toot….? We want specifics! Not only the hypothetical (what you imagine would be a definite deal breaker), but also anything that has actually stalled your O-engine in the past.
07/14/2010
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Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Em & Lo
Imagine you’re on the uphill path to physical bliss, whether traveling alone or with a partner…you’re almost at the edge of that climactic cliff! We just asked our EMandLO.com readers the following, and want to know how EdenFantasys members compare: ... More
I have a very heavy footed upstairs neighbor who will actually shake my apartment with how hard she stomps across the floor - instant mood destroyer!
07/14/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Him, right in the middle of some good fucking, suddenly blurting 'Are you going to come for me?' Ugh, now I have to perform??
07/14/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Him, right in the middle of some good fucking, suddenly blurting 'Are you going to come for me?' Ugh, now I have to perform??
Yes!The constant "cum for me baby"..Shut up already! I'm trying!
07/14/2010
Blinker Blinker
Switching positions fucks everything up for me.
07/14/2010
sandblastedskin sandblastedskin
If it gets really stifling hot I can't get off. A fan or an air conditioner is a MUST during sex
07/15/2010
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Both my dogs propping their noses on the end of the bed and looking at us with that tipped head "wtf?" look.

RUINS it for me!
07/15/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Both my dogs propping their noses on the end of the bed and looking at us with that tipped head "wtf?" look.

RUINS it for me!
...or a surprise cold nose. THAT ruins it for me.
07/15/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
My cat likes to pounce on our feet if they are under the covers. Two or three times she has drawn blood with her claws. Kills the mood fast because we need to clean it out/bandage so we do not get stains on the bed. Despite that we have to laugh the whole time.
07/15/2010
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
We have a neighbor whose friends pull into his driveway and lay on their horns to get his attention, and it's a serious mood-killer since our bedroom is on that side of the house. I will never understand why they can't just walk up to his door like normal people do!

And yep, that old line "Come for me baby" kills it every time too. It may work in porn, but in real life it sucks.
07/15/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
My sister knocking on the bedroom door cuz she wants to ask us a question. Kills it every time, lol
07/15/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
Wow, I'm surprised other people also hate "cum for me, baby" as much as I do! so porny,and so not hot. I get that in a BDSM way that can be hot, but out of that context I'm like...quit tellin' me what to do!
07/15/2010
00 00
Stopped me in my edge-of-orgasmic tracks...the alarm clock about 8 inches from my head went off and had been set to loudest setting. That one along with doorbells, phones, pets, kids...all have at one time or another stopped us. But the best(or funniest to me) was when we were in the back of our own car in our own yard (lived on military base at that time), (at midnight no less)when a light shown into the car and we heard a knock on the window. It was the military police wondering what we were doing. That orgasm flew away so fast! Was replaced with a definite blush and giggling on my part.
07/15/2010
joja joja
I can usually recapture the mood even after an important phone call, unless I get some really bad news. Being sad or nervous just makes it impossible for me to relax enough to come.
07/19/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Both my dogs propping their noses on the end of the bed and looking at us with that tipped head "wtf?" look.

RUINS it for me!
LMAO.. yes, I can relate to this.
07/25/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We have a neighbor whose friends pull into his driveway and lay on their horns to get his attention, and it's a serious mood-killer since our bedroom is on that side of the house. I will never understand why they can't just walk up to his ... More
I must be an odd ball, I find it turns me on more if my partner whispers "cum for me baby" in my ear.
07/25/2010
PolyGirl PolyGirl
Yeah, absolutely hate the "cum for me" nonsense. Excuse me, but I'm cumming for ME and stop rushing me already. I had another one once who started questioning the birth control AFTER we were already doing it... sheesh....
07/27/2010
Sammi Sammi
For me, it's the kids banging on the door, shouting "Mom! Dad! What're you doing?" That pretty much kills the mood, since they won't go away till we come to the door.
07/27/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Sammi
For me, it's the kids banging on the door, shouting "Mom! Dad! What're you doing?" That pretty much kills the mood, since they won't go away till we come to the door.
My sister does stuff like that.. But she's old enough that we can just yell that the door is locked for a reason and we'll come find her later, lol
07/27/2010
Miss B Haven Miss B Haven
Crying kills the mood for me everytime. And not me crying...

I was with a partner and we were in the middle of switching positions. He scooted across the floor on his knees and I giggled. He got So upset he started to cry. That killed it for me, we borke up a couple days later.
07/27/2010
Midway through Midway through
When he calls me dirty names and thinks it's sexy. I don't like being called certain names. If he says that.. bam. it's over and I'm done.

Also, I have 4 animals. If one walks in the room, or if one just jumps on the bed and stands and watches, insta-kill.
07/28/2010
Envy Envy
Pain kills the mood for me and makes me tighten up. And with large dildos it makes it harder to remove them, doubling the pain and just UGH!

That and my dad calling me to 'see what I'm doing.' Now I have to plan times to myself around his work schedule so he won't call, otherwise if I don't answer he calls over and over until I do.
07/28/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Em & Lo
Imagine you’re on the uphill path to physical bliss, whether traveling alone or with a partner…you’re almost at the edge of that climactic cliff! We just asked our EMandLO.com readers the following, and want to know how EdenFantasys members compare: ... More
Actually the best way to kill an orgasm even in the middle of said orgasm is an impatient sigh from my partner...or inattention (like watching tv instead of watching me). Most anything else I can ignore, except maybe loud children who might wander into the room.
07/28/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Him, right in the middle of some good fucking, suddenly blurting 'Are you going to come for me?' Ugh, now I have to perform??
That's when the lil devil comes out in me and I answer back "Well? Are YOU gonna come soon? I have things to do you know...." or I have said, "OMG you didn't feel me come???" That usually ends the whole expectation of performance LOL
07/28/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
...or a surprise cold nose. THAT ruins it for me.
OMG I think everyone who owns pets has had that cold nose on the bum or sole of the foot. The worst for me was the dog who would sneak onto the end of the bed and try to suck on my toes or slurp at my feet...
07/28/2010
Geekhyena Geekhyena
My cat jumping on the bed, followed closely by my dog....I've had that happen when I'm trying to masturbate, and boom! instant mood-killer
08/01/2010
deltalima deltalima
I think the biggest is someone calling or coming in. I don't mind the dirty talk as much.
08/02/2010
A Lovely Aphrodite A Lovely Aphrodite
When I used to have a roommate and he'd come home.
08/26/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Em & Lo
Imagine you’re on the uphill path to physical bliss, whether traveling alone or with a partner…you’re almost at the edge of that climactic cliff! We just asked our EMandLO.com readers the following, and want to know how EdenFantasys members compare: ... More
Being rushed. When I know we have to get out of bed at a certain time, especially in the morning, I can't orgasm. The feeling, "OMG, I need to hurry, he has to leave for work in 20 minutes." kills the orgasm for me nearly every time.

Kids using our bathroom, which is right next to and connected to our bedroom (there's a door from the hallway, so they can use it.) When someone is on the toilet, they are, like, only a few feet from my head, with only a thin wall and a thin door between us. WHO could enjoy sex in that situation? I have got to the point, where I'll tell the little one, "Daddy and I need some privacy. If you need to use the Potty after we go to bed, please use the downstairs bathroom." If she remembers, it's OK. Once she fell asleep on the toilet downstairs, and I didn't find her until several hours after we were done. I felt awful. She was fine, though.
08/26/2010
Kindred Kindred
Hearing the baby cry on the monitor is an instant mood killer as I know it's going to end in coitus interruptus for me, and I don't mean in the traditional sense.
08/26/2010
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