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Em & Lo
Imagine you’re on the uphill path to physical bliss, whether traveling alone or with a partner…you’re almost at the edge of that climactic cliff! We just asked our EMandLO.com readers the following, and want to know how EdenFantasys members compare:
Imagine you’re on the uphill path to physical bliss, whether traveling alone or with a partner…you’re almost at the edge of that climactic cliff! We just asked our EMandLO.com readers the following, and want to know how EdenFantasys members compare: What it would take to trip you up, to send you falling backwards down the hill, never to see that potential orgasm again (at least not in this session)? A phone call, a phone call from your mother, a pet staring at you, hearing your kids in the other room, your partner suddenly attempting dirty talk…and failing, an uncontrollable thought about some life stress, the doorbell, an ill-timed toot….? We want specifics! Not only the hypothetical (what you imagine would be a definite deal breaker), but also anything that has actually stalled your O-engine in the past.
Being rushed. When I know we have to get out of bed at a certain time, especially in the morning, I can't orgasm. The feeling, "OMG, I need to hurry, he has to leave for work in 20 minutes." kills the orgasm for me nearly every time.
Kids using our bathroom, which is right next to and connected to our bedroom (there's a door from the hallway, so they can use it.) When someone is on the toilet, they are, like, only a few feet from my head, with only a thin wall and a thin door between us. WHO could enjoy sex in that situation? I have got to the point, where I'll tell the little one, "Daddy and I need some privacy. If you need to use the Potty after we go to bed, please use the downstairs bathroom." If she remembers, it's OK. Once she fell asleep on the toilet downstairs, and I didn't find her until several hours after we were done. I felt awful. She was fine, though.