does a number really matter

Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I won't lie I love sex and my number is up there but I am curious what others think. Does a persons number really matter? Would you date someone who has been with alot of people before you?
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Madsinner Madsinner
I have been with three and my boyfriend has only been with me. I like the fact that I am his first because he has no one to compare me to. Good question though, I don't think I mind in general.
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I think the number only matters if you make a big deal of it. My wife and I have both have several in the past, but we both looked at it as our past and never made a big deal of it. If someone does make a big deal of it with you, they're probably intimidated by the experience you might have.
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I used to think numbers meant experience and knowledge. After being with my ex-husband (who claimed to be well-versed but remained celibate), I completely disregard it and now look at how the chemistry is in person. It's working out with Master, despite the long distance.
Ciao. Ciao.
I don't think it matters all that much, it's really only going to be a big deal if you make it out to be. You could argue that having sex with more people gives you more "experience" but honestly having sex with the same person over and over again gives you a different and equally valuable kind of experience (learning what they like and how to please them), and as long as you listen to your partner's body and desires and are eager to please being totally inexperienced probably isn't a huge deal either.

Of course, my number is tiny (I've only had sex with my current partner) so I might be a bit biased
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
I don't care about numbers at all. Its irrelevant as long as my partner is smart about having safe sex and has been tested I don't care about their past sexcapades.
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