Not exactly. I have always bought any sex toy for us, and almost all have been for her. A couple of times I would ask her to be involved in shopping for something new and had her look at edenfantasys with me. Usually she acts like she wants to move on as quickly as possible and says I usually get something good. She's not opposed to toys, but to my knowledge almost never uses them alone, and the rare occasions we do use them, it's often my suggestion. It would be a turn on for me if she did show more interest in sex anytime other than when we are in the bedroom knowing it's about to happen. Honestly I can't imagine her clicking around on this forum. I'm sort of used to it now, but things could be a hell of a lot worse!