How long does one intercourse session last for you and your partner?

NuMe NuMe
I'm wondering how long intercourse lasts for most couples. Choose what is usually your average. Don't include foreplay. Answers will be anonymous but comments are welcome.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
0-15 minutes
34  (15%)
15-30 minutes
84  (38%)
30-45 minutes
48  (22%)
45-60 minutes
27  (12%)
Over an hour
12  (5%)
Over an hour and a half
4  (2%)
I'll let you know when I'm finally done
14  (6%)
Total votes: 223
Poll is closed
06/06/2009
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Pumpkin Lady Pumpkin Lady
I remember once we went for over three hours. Ahhh....those were the days. He's very good at controlling his ejaculate, but since he's been so busy with school his health and our sex life suffer. Its easier for us to go for longer when we both have more energy.
06/06/2009
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by Pumpkin Lady
I remember once we went for over three hours. Ahhh....those were the days. He's very good at controlling his ejaculate, but since he's been so busy with school his health and our sex life suffer. Its easier for us to go for longer when we ... More
Three hours of actual intercourse would kill me.

My pussy would fall off and I'd pass out. Fur shur. lol
06/06/2009
NuMe NuMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Three hours of actual intercourse would kill me.

My pussy would fall off and I'd pass out. Fur shur. lol
When we were much younger we would go three or four hours straight. And yes it does feel like it's falling off. I would be sore for days. But it was ohhhh sooooo worth it. LOL
06/06/2009
Sammi Sammi
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
When we were much younger we would go three or four hours straight. And yes it does feel like it's falling off. I would be sore for days. But it was ohhhh sooooo worth it. LOL
Those were the days . Now it's more like 60-90 minutes of foreplay and 15 minutes of actual fucking
06/06/2009
Czechmate Czechmate
I used to have hour long intercourse sessions, but when I figured out what my partner desires and likes during sex...it now lasts about 25 minutes. We still engage in foreplay for up to an hour, but the actual fucking gets done quick and both of us are more than satisfied.

I could still go for over an hour, but what's the point if it wears me out and she starts to get dry or numb? She gets her orgasm within 15 minutes and I get mine. Then we sleep in a sweaty embrace of satisfaction.
06/06/2009
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
It varies for us. The fastest has been about three minutes. The longest session we had was about two to three hours, with short breaks in between. I love the longer sessions
06/06/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Er, what should we put if we sleep with women and don't practice penetrative sex during each session? I mean, are we counting oral sex and such as foreplay?
06/06/2009
Average Joe Average Joe
Foreplay is about 15 or 20 minutes and the actual sex can be anywhere from 5 minutes to 30 minutes. Things are never consistent.
06/07/2009
Ciao. Ciao.
Usually around 30 minutes, but sometimes we can extend the play for much of an evening, depends on how creative we decide to get and how patient we are before getting down to the real action!
06/07/2009
NuMe NuMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Er, what should we put if we sleep with women and don't practice penetrative sex during each session? I mean, are we counting oral sex and such as foreplay?
I think it really has more to do with actual intercourse. Two women having sex could hypothetically go on forever. But with a man, usually once he has an orgasm that's the end. Sorry!
06/07/2009
Rose Unlocked Rose Unlocked
well its good to see no one put down 0-15 yet
06/07/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
I think it really has more to do with actual intercourse. Two women having sex could hypothetically go on forever. But with a man, usually once he has an orgasm that's the end. Sorry!
I meant what counts as foreplay?
06/08/2009
NuMe NuMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I meant what counts as foreplay?
For me personally, anything with a partner that's not actual intercourse. That probably is not an accurate definition for everyone.

So my question is.....What counts as foreplay for you?
06/08/2009
Dragon Dragon
Quote:
Originally posted by Rose Unlocked
well its good to see no one put down 0-15 yet
Umm. They have now. Another interesting poll would be how long foreplay lasts and if it's anywhere near enough from both the men's point of view and the women's.
06/08/2009
Sammi Sammi
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Umm. They have now. Another interesting poll would be how long foreplay lasts and if it's anywhere near enough from both the men's point of view and the women's.
That would be interesting.
06/08/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
For us it I would say on average its about 30 minutes. The longest we have ever done it was maybe close to two hours. Quicky sessions last about 5 minutes and when we take the time to enjoy, it usually lasts roughly an hour. But on average it is 30 minutes which is enough for me to orgasm and be satisfied.
06/08/2009
NuMe NuMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Umm. They have now. Another interesting poll would be how long foreplay lasts and if it's anywhere near enough from both the men's point of view and the women's.
That really would be an interesting poll.
06/08/2009
Liz2 Liz2
I have been thinking and I kinda don't know as it is so variable. If my b/f is with me in the am, it may be about 10 min. or less, as he has an am erection, a condom ready and a little lube & vibe for me; I am ready.
More satisfying penetration sex is thankfully much longer but duration? I don't know as we frequently change positions, which is like foreplay for us but so much more! I always try to have an orgasm prior to penetration(except in the am) so whatever happens then, is a bonus!
I guess I would figure foreplay as all part of intercourse and say 45 plus min for us. Sometimes so much longer, thankfully.
06/09/2009
Sleeping Dreamer Sleeping Dreamer
According to link sex lasts an average of 7 to 13 minutes.

Most of the time I have sex, it stops before the 15 minute mark. He doesn't have stamina and I orgasm easily, plus we're busy and often have to get back to our lives outside of the bedroom.
06/09/2009
Juliettia Juliettia
Intercourse usually is around the 15-20 minute range for us. We change positions a lot and slow down or go faster. Etc.
06/09/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
For me personally, anything with a partner that's not actual intercourse. That probably is not an accurate definition for everyone.

So my question is.....What counts as foreplay for you?
Er, then there goes all of my sex with women that didn't include a strap-on.

Foreplay for me is what you do to warm up for an actual sex act. I don't really consider oral and manual stimulation foreplay, because they're acts that are used to bring someone to orgasm. Foreplay for me is stuff like kissing, touching, frottage, etcetera, stuff that feels nice, but doesn't usually bring people to orgasm on its lonesome.
06/12/2009
Sir Sir
Usually for us, it's half an hour to forty-five minutes. But it depends on what I decide to do. She'll go for as long as I tell her to go. We've made love for quite a long time, though.
06/13/2009
spicywife spicywife
I picked 30-45 minutes. It would be longer if we had more time too!
07/05/2009
Valyn Valyn
When I first started, I went once for about 6 hours straight. We'd get up and switch positions or move around the room, etc.. but whoo! That was tiring.. Sometimes I wish I had that same energy.
07/05/2009
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
Once I had a cisman partner who had great difficulty coming so we'd literally have intercourse for 2 or 3 hours at a time. It was great.

With my current partner it lasts between 45 minutes and 3 or 4 hours. Sometimes we go at it for a while, both get off, take a minute to get a drink and then start right back up. This particular partner has NO problem continuing with intercourse after he gets off which is awesome. Really really awesome.
07/18/2009
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
I'm wondering how long intercourse lasts for most couples. Choose what is usually your average. Don't include foreplay. Answers will be anonymous but comments are welcome.
I'm jealous! As a young stud I could go on for a long time - and recover quickly. Since reaching my 50's that's just not happening. I always use a dildo and/or vibe to give my lady her first orgasm. From there I try to give her another before shooting off myself.
07/27/2009
Chou Wang Chou Wang
I've picked 45-60 minutes but it's actually for the first one. The following ones are usually longer. But it all depends on how aroused you are, level of stress, intoxication, etc... I remember not leaving the hotel room for three days this very spring.
08/01/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I have NO idea. Honestly. I lose track of time during sex.
11/10/2009
That Weird Guy That Weird Guy
does sitting at a restaurant handing your glass to the waitress to get a refill and her finger brushes against yours...... does that count as fingering?? if so maybe .05 seconds. that is about as far as i have made it.... lol
11/11/2009
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Unique posters: 77