How many people have you done something sexual with?

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How many people have you done something sexual with, including oral, anal, mutual masturbation, basically anything that's 3rd base and up.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
35  (20%)
14  (8%)
21  (12%)
11  (6%)
4  (2%)
7  (4%)
4  (2%)
5  (3%)
5  (3%)
2  (1%)
4  (2%)
2  (1%)
2  (1%)
23  (13%)
10  (6%)
8  (5%)
4  (2%)
3  (2%)
10  (6%)
Total votes: 174
Poll is open
07/31/2010
Darling Jen Darling Jen
(Birthday Club)
It was hard to decide because "something sexual" to me means something different than having to be "vaginal, anal, or oral sex". It gets sexual to me LONG before anyone comes in direct contact with the genitals. So... I had to go with what I would consider sex. This will definitely be an interesting poll to watch as more people answer.
07/31/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
It was hard to decide because "something sexual" to me means something different than having to be "vaginal, anal, or oral sex". It gets sexual to me LONG before anyone comes in direct contact with the genitals. So... I had to go with what I would ... More
I guess what I was thinking when I said something sexual was anything beyond holding hands or kissing. Having cyber sex or sexting could count also it would have to be in a sort of relationship way though like I don't count porn or that stuff.
07/31/2010
Darling Jen Darling Jen
(Birthday Club)
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
I guess what I was thinking when I said something sexual was anything beyond holding hands or kissing. Having cyber sex or sexting could count also it would have to be in a sort of relationship way though like I don't count porn or that stuff.
Wow, if cybering and sexting counts, the numbers would have been very different. Gotta be specific.
07/31/2010
Sir Sir
Let me say more than a few. I will not disclose the actual number.
07/31/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
Wow, if cybering and sexting counts, the numbers would have been very different. Gotta be specific.
Well I don't know maybe I should take a pole on what people would consider a sexual relationship? I don't know should cybersex be included? It is a sexual relationship in my opinion.
08/01/2010
Darling Jen Darling Jen
(Birthday Club)
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
Well I don't know maybe I should take a pole on what people would consider a sexual relationship? I don't know should cybersex be included? It is a sexual relationship in my opinion.
I'm not sure. It depends on the person. But it certainly would be interesting to hear what other people think!

But I do think it's sexual. I just don't think it's sex. Because your body isn't a part of it.
08/01/2010
Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Haha! Read the post wrong. My answer is too low... LOL

I also believe that cyber is included as sexual acts.
08/01/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
I'm not sure. It depends on the person. But it certainly would be interesting to hear what other people think!

But I do think it's sexual. I just don't think it's sex. Because your body isn't a part of it.
Well I just made a poll on what everyone thinks a sexual relationship consist of so maybe we'll see what everyone thinks.
08/01/2010
Midway through Midway through
Including sexting and cyber sex... I've lost count. I know my count for actual sexual intercourse and for oral. Anything beyond that such as touching, sexting or cybering I'm not sure I could remember.
08/01/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
Even including sexting, cyber, and anything really, my number is only two. Haha. One female, one male! And the one male is my husband. Lol.
08/01/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
I didn't count the times I've cybered, just ones I've been with in the flesh; otherwise, it would have been well above 50!
08/01/2010
buzzvibe buzzvibe
I'm glad voting is private on this one.
08/01/2010
Goth Goth
Just one, my bf.
08/01/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
I'd say about 15-20, I'm not totally sure, I've only had 5 intercourse partners, but I've fooled around with a lot more.
08/01/2010
ScottA ScottA
Voted one, but then realized I probably should also count myself which makes 2.
08/01/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Ive had 2 girls and one guy.


The one girls wasnt really in it for me or her it was more a foursome that she happened to be in.

The other girl well I guess you could say for a while we are got off together.

Then my husband of course
08/03/2010
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
How many people have you done something sexual with, including oral, anal, mutual masturbation, basically anything that's 3rd base and up.
Only 1 here
10/08/2010
SomewhatSomewhere SomewhatSomewhere
Just one, and I'm just fine with that. We're happily together.
10/08/2010
Madeira Madeira
Like 15-ish.
10/08/2010
Trashley Trashley
somewhere between 25-35 excluding clients.. but i don't know, i feel like whenever people ask that question they're thinking either, "am i normal?" or "Is this girl a slut?" i think it's a lot more of that in real life. i just always want to shake the person and scream, "no i'm not a whore and yes you're perfectly normal!!"
10/08/2010
Domineight Domineight
Having a hard time with this. There are definitely people I never got to "3rd base" with but engaged in water sports or and extended painful session with. Definitely changes the number by quite a bit.
10/08/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
well not quit sure what the question is but ive had 4 sexual partners
10/10/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
How many people have you done something sexual with, including oral, anal, mutual masturbation, basically anything that's 3rd base and up.
I was surprised by the low numbers in the poll. I have done "something sexual" with about 20 people in my whole life.
11/19/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
(EdenFantasys)
I think my number is somewhere around 25. I don't consider myself a slut, though some might. All most all of those people were people who I had either a dating relationship, or a close friendship with. Those who were just friends are generally still friends.

Since having kids, I pretty much stopped adding to my count.
11/19/2010
Kisses and Kinks (aka Twisted Finger) Kisses and Kinks (aka Twisted Finger)
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
How many people have you done something sexual with, including oral, anal, mutual masturbation, basically anything that's 3rd base and up.
1st boyfriend and 2nd boyfriend. 1st boyfriend was bad at everything. 2nd boyfriend had to learn a lot because he had never done more than hold hands with a woman. I "corrupted" him.
12/21/2010
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
Probably around 20 or so. Had intercourse with 14 and then an additional 6 or 7 that I've given head to.
12/22/2010
sbon sbon
I think 4, if my counting is correct haha
12/22/2010
Blakiepoo Blakiepoo
um. Why is there no option for Zero?
12/22/2010
rdytogo rdytogo
I can still count on one hand. Not sure if that's a good thing or not.
01/06/2011
Total posts: 67
Unique posters: 61