How do you feel about phone sex?

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How do you feel about phone sex?

Talena Talena
Talena
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How do you feel about phone sex, either voice to voice (phone boning) or texting (sexting). I know some love it and other hate it or think it's stupid.

I myself am kinda in the middle about it.
06/14/2012
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BG529 BG529
not for me sorry.
06/14/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by BG529
not for me sorry.
thanks for your response.
06/14/2012
brevado brevado
Used to a lot when we were apart
06/14/2012
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I've had so much phone sex in my life that I just wore myself out and got tired of it.I started not getting anything out of it.There use to be these chatlines I would call and sometimes I would have phone sex with random guys.They were weird.They wanted me to come on command and half the time I don't even think they were masturbating.
I haven't done much sexting I'm not much of a texter anyway.
06/14/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nice as a prelude before we were meeting in person, but that's about it.
06/14/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by Love Obsessed
I've had so much phone sex in my life that I just wore myself out and got tired of it.I started not getting anything out of it.There use to be these chatlines I would call and sometimes I would have phone sex with random guys.They were weird.They ...
That's what I'm saying, how do you know the other person is even doing it.
06/14/2012
Feisty Feisty
did it once in a while when we were apart for a while
06/16/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I like it, and I'm pretty damn good at it if I say so myself
06/16/2012
FriskyInFlorida FriskyInFlorida
it was fun when I was younger, but now I'm just not into it
06/16/2012
Arch600 Arch600
We've never had phone sex (yet) but do our fair share of sexting. It's actually a lot of fun when we're apart and sometimes leads to some hot sex when we finally see each other. I think it is probably a lot like 'real' sex, in the sense that it can be fufulling, empty, or anywhere in-between.
06/16/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by Bex1331
I like it, and I'm pretty damn good at it if I say so myself
I am good at it too, then again I like writing Literoctia. Or I used to, I haven't written in a while.
06/16/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by Arch600
We've never had phone sex (yet) but do our fair share of sexting. It's actually a lot of fun when we're apart and sometimes leads to some hot sex when we finally see each other. I think it is probably a lot like 'real' sex, in the ...
I never looked at it like that. But what if it's empty to one participant and fulfilling to the other?
06/16/2012
indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Talena
How do you feel about phone sex, either voice to voice (phone boning) or texting (sexting). I know some love it and other hate it or think it's stupid.

I myself am kinda in the middle about it.
Voice to voice is fine, because unless your phone is tapped there is no proof. Sexting is not my thing because you can get in a lot of trouble with it later
06/16/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by indiechick
Voice to voice is fine, because unless your phone is tapped there is no proof. Sexting is not my thing because you can get in a lot of trouble with it later
lol @ no proof...never thought of that.
06/16/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
I dont like it
06/16/2012
Arch600 Arch600
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Originally posted by Talena
I never looked at it like that. But what if it's empty to one participant and fulfilling to the other?
That can happen when you're both in the bedroom, too, no? Granted, when you're in person, you get better feedback about whether what you're doing is working or not, provided you're paying attention. While maybe a little harder to read, response at the other end of the phone, or lack thereof, will tell whether your partner is enjoying the experience or not. If you're waiting 15 minutes for a reply to your sext - and then it's "lol", you're probably not setting your partner afire. Or, as is often my case, she's in the middle of the grocery store and dropping her jeans for a quick rub isn't quite as appealing as it might be otherwise. It's possible your partner may simply not get anything from phonesex or sexting, same as s/he may not get anything from certain things you try under the sheets. If you're worried she's faking on the phone, you're probably going to worry about that in the sack, too. Sex is sex. Things can go right or wrong, no matter how you choose to do it.
06/16/2012
ghent529 ghent529
not for me
06/16/2012
Nora29714 Nora29714
um... I would if i had to... but wouldn't really want to..
06/16/2012
sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
If your partner is far away I think phone sex, sexting and things like skype sex are the only things you have to keep things exciting.
06/16/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by Arch600
That can happen when you're both in the bedroom, too, no? Granted, when you're in person, you get better feedback about whether what you're doing is working or not, provided you're paying attention. While maybe a little harder to ...
Would you sext if you didn't get anything from it but your sext recipient did?
06/16/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by Nora29714
um... I would if i had to... but wouldn't really want to..
But you would do it, nonetheless? Would you tell the person you aren't into it or would you let it pass and play it as a game or a challenge?
06/16/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by sunkissedJess
If your partner is far away I think phone sex, sexting and things like skype sex are the only things you have to keep things exciting.
Yeah I forgot to add the cam to cam sexing..I realized that last night.
06/16/2012
giftdgecko giftdgecko
For long distance relationships it can help a little bit, but it just ends up teasing yourself and can sometimes be awkward...
06/16/2012
Arch600 Arch600
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Originally posted by Talena
Would you sext if you didn't get anything from it but your sext recipient did?
I see what you're getting at. In my case, my partner's excitement is the thing that turns me on most, so I'm rarely in that situation. Would I do something she wants, even if it does little for me? Absolutely. Neither of us would fake it for the other though. We learned a long time ago that only results in hurting your partner in many ways. When our wants don't quite align, we get around that by having his and her sessions. This time is all about her, next time is for me. All within our limits - neither of us ever expects the other to go outside of their hard boundaries. In that case, we just let it go.

Of course, mixed in-between are plenty of 'us' sessions.
06/17/2012
Talena Talena
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Originally posted by Arch600
I see what you're getting at. In my case, my partner's excitement is the thing that turns me on most, so I'm rarely in that situation. Would I do something she wants, even if it does little for me? Absolutely. Neither of us would fake it ...
maybe you see what I'm getting at ...I think it's awesome, though, that you have you sessions and her sessions.
06/17/2012
Arch600 Arch600
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Originally posted by Talena
maybe you see what I'm getting at ...I think it's awesome, though, that you have you sessions and her sessions.
Maybe I don't see what you're getting at?
06/17/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
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Ove it if it's done right.
06/20/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
I

Ove it if it's done right.
06/20/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
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Originally posted by Talena
How do you feel about phone sex, either voice to voice (phone boning) or texting (sexting). I know some love it and other hate it or think it's stupid.

I myself am kinda in the middle about it.
Well, since my boyfriend works away from home It's all I get. But I sure am a happy girl when he gets his week home
06/26/2012
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