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I never noticed this....especially. here on EF where all kinds of sex and relationships are discussed...many of which have nothing to do with a penis or vagina.
Well, that's why it bothers me so much. Eden is such an accepting place when it come to sexual preferences, kinks, fetishes, etc. but when it comes down to it, it seems like most people have a very heteronormative view of sex. Like I'll see people talk about foreplay like it's not sex at all, like "he fingered me before we had sex" and I'm like okay, what you consider foreplay is real sex to many queer couples. I feel like queer sex is often delegitimized on Eden. These are the thoughts that led me to create this poll and discussion.