What turns you ON

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What turns you ON

Vnessa Vnessa
What turns you on the most? Something that your partner does or you wish they would do...
For me, it would be a deeper and more firm voice when he's speaking to me. Not his every day voice. I love when he is behind me and I can feel his breath just below my ear as he's teasing and playing with me. Lingerie is a turn on for me even though I don't do girl/girl. It's still hot and makes me feel sexy lol. Hopefully, he thinks so as well. My wish....mmm. I want to be at his total mercy, giving him what he desires, in return reaching a point where he can read my body so well that he can play me like an instrument and make me orgasm on comand. that would be intense
02/10/2015
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Inquisitor Inquisitor
"What turns me on the most?", Oh boy. That's a tough call. I'd say when my partner is wearing lingerie. It can be something as simple as crotchless panties or as involved as stockings, a garter belt with matching bra, high heeled "bed shoes" and the leather jacket. Even something as pedestrian as Uggs, boy short/hipster or less coverage panties and a hoodie work for me. Oddly enough, I'm not a fan of the babydoll lingerie.

For me, there is nothing like it when a woman knows what she wants and takes it . Confidence is sexy! Sadly, I don't get lingerie often .

"Something that your partner does or you wish they would do..." Once again that's a tough call. I wish my partner would masturbate with me either watching or "involved". I've mentioned on several occasions that I wouldn't mind if I came over and she was watching something arousing and masturbating and I either helped her orgasm or just watched her. I'm good either way on that one.

Then there are the times when "I Fuck her with My Big Black Cock". That's a turn on. Yeah, I really like that. I start out with some kissing, touching, rubbing and then move on to oral sex. I go down on her for a long while but don't get her off just yet. Then I lube up a finger with a finger cot on it and gently rub and massage the anus. If I'm green lighted to go further, I get a small plug to warm up and lube up the anal cavity. Keep in mind, she is still receiving oral sex the whole time. Once the plug is in and she is use to it, I remove it and get the Black Cock. It is a medium sized Black Tantus Silk dildo that I add extra lube to because you never can have too much lube and then handle business. I start off slow because the dildo is larger than the plug is and once she is begging for it, it speeds up but not too fast. Remember, she is still receiving oral sex during all of this. When her legs start to shake uncontrollably, I know I'm doing something right and shortly there after she orgasms. Now that's a good time!

I apologyse for the profanity and crudeness of this post, usually I phrase things better, but I felt I needed to include it in order to convey and illustrate the point.
02/11/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
"What turns me on the most?", Oh boy. That's a tough call. I'd say when my partner is wearing lingerie. It can be something as simple as crotchless panties or as involved as stockings, a garter belt with matching bra, high heeled ...
Hey, I asked for it, and readers may want all the fantabulous ideas I like illustration! I won't need my erotica novel now

Funny you mentioned UGGS. Those are the Hubs least fave thing in my closet. He calls them my moon boots! So, you just gave me a grand idea for them lol.

So....guys and masterbation is a pretty big thing then. Uugh. That takes a lot of mind space and relaxation for a girl, I think lol.
02/11/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hey, I asked for it, and readers may want all the fantabulous ideas I like illustration! I won't need my erotica novel now

Funny you mentioned UGGS. Those are the Hubs least fave thing in my closet. He calls them my moon boots! So, ...
Uggs are his version of moon boots? Does he know that the Ugh brand started out making stuff for men just like Coach and Burberry. Actually, the boots are for men. I happen to think they look better on women though.

As for the masturbation issue, I dunno. I can't speak for all men but I sure like it when my partner does it. She isn't the kind of person that is super comfortable with stuff like this and I have no idea why.
02/11/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Uggs are his version of moon boots? Does he know that the Ugh brand started out making stuff for men just like Coach and Burberry. Actually, the boots are for men. I happen to think they look better on women though.

As for the masturbation ...
He's not very metro with fashion. That's my department I keep him on trend.

I imagine your partner is a lot like me. She may find it very vulnerable as you guys are sitting there eye to eye OR its possible she has a difficult time reaching just the right spot . Guys parts are so simple comparatively speaking Lol. It's hard being a girl. If you lose focus or if a touch goes wrong the big O is gone in a second.
02/11/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
He's not very metro with fashion. That's my department I keep him on trend.

I imagine your partner is a lot like me. She may find it very vulnerable as you guys are sitting there eye to eye OR its possible she has a difficult time ...
How can you, not you in particular Vnessa, loose focus!? As for the fashion part, I'm actually in the process of switching up my style. I use to be Mr. baggy jeans and didn't really care too much about my personal appearance, but, as I age I'm learning that my personal appearance matters.

My partner also isn't into fashion either. She is kinda nerdy and doesn't wear makeup, but I like that about her. She can clean up well, but, she doesn't do it often. We are talking weddings and funerals. I have to say, women's sizing is all wonky. What in the hell is a size 00 and 0, not to mention all the other random number after that i.e. 1,3,5, 7...? How can someone's measurements be summed up into either 1 or 2 numbers. That just doesn't make sense.

I've all but given up on trying to keep her stylish. I just buy her underware. It's the only stuff she will wear on a constant basis, not to mention no self respecting woman should be wearing granny panties under the age of 75. There are a few exceptions to this but they are usually due to medical conditions.
02/11/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
How can you, not you in particular Vnessa, loose focus!? As for the fashion part, I'm actually in the process of switching up my style. I use to be Mr. baggy jeans and didn't really care too much about my personal appearance, but, as I age ...
Hmm, lol, loss of focus due to stage fright, insecurity about looking sexy enough while in the act...umm..fear of "please don't look me in the eye because then holy shit then what" lol. I could go on with my own paranoia that would all equal loss of focus lol. Oy vey.

Panties...we like to call them panties And nobody should wear granny anything.
02/11/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hey, I asked for it, and readers may want all the fantabulous ideas I like illustration! I won't need my erotica novel now

Funny you mentioned UGGS. Those are the Hubs least fave thing in my closet. He calls them my moon boots! So, ...
I agree, Vnessa, I don't think I will need an erotic novel either now....lol. Color me naive, Inquisitor, but bed shoes? Those heels that women always wear to bed to have sex? I didn't know they had a name.
02/11/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hmm, lol, loss of focus due to stage fright, insecurity about looking sexy enough while in the act...umm..fear of "please don't look me in the eye because then holy shit then what" lol. I could go on with my own paranoia that would ...
All those Vnessa and if by chance we do not lose focus, I told a guy that I look ugly when I masturbate...all those ugly faces reflecting the process of cumming?
02/11/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by symbiasin
All those Vnessa and if by chance we do not lose focus, I told a guy that I look ugly when I masturbate...all those ugly faces reflecting the process of cumming?
See, lol, Symbiasin, yet another wonder as well. What we think we look like in our minds could be WAY off (Pouty face). Being married gives me an upper hand, I suppose. Ugly orgasm or not, he is stuck with me lol.

So, share, if you can, what do you find sexy...blah blah blah. I got off topic
02/11/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
What turns you on the most? Something that your partner does or you wish they would do...
For me, it would be a deeper and more firm voice when he's speaking to me. Not his every day voice. I love when he is behind me and I can feel his breath ...
I'm not the grand writer like the two of you, Inquisitor and Vnessa.

Short and simple, what turns me on is to watch O.w. pleasure herself. Not just on her clit with the Hitachi either. I mean with some of the more exciting toys. Once she gave me a show straddling her "Big Buddy" stuck on the top of the bathtub. Now that was a big turn on. She still owes me another show. I'll ask her for it this weekend. This morning we already agreed it's the pure wand and the Share tonight.
02/11/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by symbiasin
All those Vnessa and if by chance we do not lose focus, I told a guy that I look ugly when I masturbate...all those ugly faces reflecting the process of cumming?
I would disagree about the faces made during solo sessions. They are hot!
02/11/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by symbiasin
I agree, Vnessa, I don't think I will need an erotic novel either now....lol. Color me naive, Inquisitor, but bed shoes? Those heels that women always wear to bed to have sex? I didn't know they had a name.
I guess I should have taken the time to elaborate about the "bed shoes". The shoes in question are black patent open toed mules with a 4 inch heel that I picked up from a certain retailer, whom also sells women's lingerie. The partner calls them "bed shoes", I just call them open toed mules with a 4 inch heel. Honestly to me they are just shoes, but to her, that style of shoe screams sex. I dunno about shoes screaming anything, but, I do know it's not the shoes but what you do with the shoes...

As far as the detail, I thought the instructions stated to give detail. Perhaps I was looking at another post when I replied. Did I over share? There is actually more to that, but I had to cut it short. I pounded that out on my cell phone during a 10 min break I had. You know, work and all... One of these days I will pound out the "Sexual Harassment" fantasy I have.
02/11/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hmm, lol, loss of focus due to stage fright, insecurity about looking sexy enough while in the act...umm..fear of "please don't look me in the eye because then holy shit then what" lol. I could go on with my own paranoia that would ...
Perhaps I'm too nonchalant about this but, as far as stage fright goes, your partner can either get with it or get lost. If your partner is anything like me, I will choose to get with it every time. As far as the fear of making direct eye contact, I would just ask whomever is lucky enough to observe you during your private or not so private time, if that is your thing , "Are you going to watch or are you going to help me out?" At that point, you either have a voyeur, a partner or are going to tell the person to keep it movin'. This is what I have done in the past and sometimes it has worked out for me. I dunno, that's just what I would do.

Not all panties are created equal. While I agree with you Vnessa about the panties, I would make some exceptions for the reasons mentioned earlier. That's just me.
02/11/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I'm not the grand writer like the two of you, Inquisitor and Vnessa.

Short and simple, what turns me on is to watch O.w. pleasure herself. Not just on her clit with the Hitachi either. I mean with some of the more exciting toys. Once she ...
Sounds like I won't be expecting to see you on the boards this weekend . You've got a good time lined up you lucky devil !
02/11/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
its all about details, details, and ,more details (less isn't always more). That's how we grow, learn, and choose to explore. So, thank you, all!! I've picked up some great toys to look into since, sadly, mine don't attach to the tub I can see how that was quite a vision!
02/11/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Vnessa
See, lol, Symbiasin, yet another wonder as well. What we think we look like in our minds could be WAY off (Pouty face). Being married gives me an upper hand, I suppose. Ugly orgasm or not, he is stuck with me lol.

So, share, if you can, what ...
Well, I hate that face on me, but on the other hand, when males masturbate,they can look cool, even bored until they cum....hehehe.

Now that is what turns me on...watching a guy masturbate, getting hard and ....thro..... It makes me want to touch and lend a hand, give him pleasure, make him groan and eventually tell him, I'm really turned on....emphasis REALLY. I won't get into the rest of the anatomy I look at before hand.
02/12/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by symbiasin
Well, I hate that face on me, but on the other hand, when males masturbate,they can look cool, even bored until they cum....hehehe.

Now that is what turns me on...watching a guy masturbate, getting hard and ....thro..... It makes me want to ...
(Oh happy claps) you may have just pushed me over the ledge to make my first request to the husband . He would never expect it lol. I'm usually very quiet.
02/12/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Sounds like I won't be expecting to see you on the boards this weekend . You've got a good time lined up you lucky devil !
I'll try to squeeze some time in the morning.
02/14/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by symbiasin
Well, I hate that face on me, but on the other hand, when males masturbate,they can look cool, even bored until they cum....hehehe.

Now that is what turns me on...watching a guy masturbate, getting hard and ....thro..... It makes me want to ...
Well, looks like you have something in common with O.w.
02/14/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I guess I should have taken the time to elaborate about the "bed shoes". The shoes in question are black patent open toed mules with a 4 inch heel that I picked up from a certain retailer, whom also sells women's lingerie. The partner ...
MORE than that? Want me drooling over the words?
02/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
What turns you on the most? Something that your partner does or you wish they would do...
For me, it would be a deeper and more firm voice when he's speaking to me. Not his every day voice. I love when he is behind me and I can feel his breath ...
Straight up wearing my clothes... My sweatshirts, my business shirts my sweatpants...

Or her pleasuring herself and telling me that she did it thinking about me...

All of those things get me into trouble LOL!
02/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Straight up wearing my clothes... My sweatshirts, my business shirts my sweatpants...

Or her pleasuring herself and telling me that she did it thinking about me...

All of those things get me into trouble LOL!
Agreed, I love a man's business shirt! Some of my favorite photo shoots have been just like that. Classic sexiness

Hoping to branch out on the self pleasure. Baby steps lol
02/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Agreed, I love a man's business shirt! Some of my favorite photo shoots have been just like that. Classic sexiness

Hoping to branch out on the self pleasure. Baby steps lol
Love the business shirt... and tie for that matter. Nothing like a brooks brothers shirt all wrinkled up with nothing else on. My usual line is either "So your looking to get into trouble huh?" or "Round 2 so soon?" LOL!

The self pleasure thing...

It took her a LONG while to be ok with telling me. It also took her a long time to not feel bad about admitting that she does it to me. She still wont pleasure herself in front of me with toys or even her hand. I am still trying to convince her that I think its VERY sexy!

At the end of the day you need to yet again remember that you are making yourself feel good, its good for your body and if it turns your man on you are making out three fold.

I mean as off as it may sound... the better you can make yourself cum the easier it is to show someone else how to get you off! Look at it as homework or learning about yourself.

But most of all enjoy!
02/14/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Love the business shirt... and tie for that matter. Nothing like a brooks brothers shirt all wrinkled up with nothing else on. My usual line is either "So your looking to get into trouble huh?" or "Round 2 so soon?" ...
I agree with IT Guy about the ladies who self pleasure.
02/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Love the business shirt... and tie for that matter. Nothing like a brooks brothers shirt all wrinkled up with nothing else on. My usual line is either "So your looking to get into trouble huh?" or "Round 2 so soon?" ...
Fantastic lines. Very suiting

I hope, one day for you, your lovely wife will get over her fear of pleasuring herself in front of you. Just as I hope to do so myself.

Very good words of wisdom shared and much appreciated. Ugh. I despised homework growing up but I suppose this could actually be a lot more fun. Definitely, more rewarding.

Cheers to enjoyment!
02/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Fantastic lines. Very suiting

I hope, one day for you, your lovely wife will get over her fear of pleasuring herself in front of you. Just as I hope to do so myself.

Very good words of wisdom shared and much appreciated. Ugh. I ...
The truth is I feel that personal growth is so rewarding.

When you find out that those boundaries are really only in your mind and that your husband loves you and wants you to enjoy being you to the fullest its really freeing! I mean dropping all of that baggage really makes you feel lighter.

Cheers!
02/15/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I guess I should have taken the time to elaborate about the "bed shoes". The shoes in question are black patent open toed mules with a 4 inch heel that I picked up from a certain retailer, whom also sells women's lingerie. The partner ...
I like fantasies. I would be interested in hearing it.
02/15/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
"What turns me on the most?", Oh boy. That's a tough call. I'd say when my partner is wearing lingerie. It can be something as simple as crotchless panties or as involved as stockings, a garter belt with matching bra, high heeled ...
I'm pretty sure you turned on all of us that read your Turn Ons !


Your post is deserving of 6 Smileys !
02/15/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Call me easy, but last night as we left the restaurant, the wife's walked ahead of the husbands. I was watching O.W. behind shake left and right and was turned on !

Being Valentine's Day already, I was really in the mood !
02/15/2015
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