Seems the older my husband gets the less interested in sex he is its always home work tv sleep how can I make things more exciting
Do men lose stamina as they get older?
I would say mine has increased rather than lessened, I sure like my sex. For us the opposite is true, my wife has lost her drive, probably why I love my toys so much.
As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, worries etc. on the matter. There could be things like stress or fear of not pleasing you that could be hampering his desire.
As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, worries etc. on the matter. There could be things like stress or fear of not pleasing you that could be hampering his desire.
05/07/2012
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I've never been with a senior citizen or anything of the sort, but I think it completely depends on the man. I can be with one guy who is ten years older, and he can't get enough. Another time, I can be with a guy who is 6 years older, and he'd rather get some sleep and plan on sex once or twice a week.
Originally posted by
SweetXSurrender89
Seems the older my husband gets the less interested in sex he is its always home work tv sleep how can I make things more exciting
05/07/2012
Sex drive and Stamina are two different things. My husband is in his 50s. His drive has dropped slightly, although he is still interested in sex a lot. We have sex at least 6 to 12 times a week!
As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than when he was younger. But, he gets tired more easily. If that makes any sense. I know sometimes he'll quit after I have had my orgasm(s) and some penetration play. Even if he hasn't had his orgasm. Then we'll do it again in the morning when he's more fresh. He does have a harder time keeping an erection. Not all the time, but more than when he was 20 years younger.
But, drive (the desire to have sex) and stamina (the ability to have energy and last a while) are completely different spheres of action and feeling.
As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than when he was younger. But, he gets tired more easily. If that makes any sense. I know sometimes he'll quit after I have had my orgasm(s) and some penetration play. Even if he hasn't had his orgasm. Then we'll do it again in the morning when he's more fresh. He does have a harder time keeping an erection. Not all the time, but more than when he was 20 years younger.
But, drive (the desire to have sex) and stamina (the ability to have energy and last a while) are completely different spheres of action and feeling.
05/07/2012
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Hormones are a bitch! For some people getting older renews or even kick starts their drive and stamina and for others it just kills it. I am hoping to have a sort of medium between the two!
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
I would say mine has increased rather than lessened, I sure like my sex. For us the opposite is true, my wife has lost her drive, probably why I love my toys so much.
As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, ...
As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, ...
I would say mine has increased rather than lessened, I sure like my sex. For us the opposite is true, my wife has lost her drive, probably why I love my toys so much.
As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, worries etc. on the matter. There could be things like stress or fear of not pleasing you that could be hampering his desire.
As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, worries etc. on the matter. There could be things like stress or fear of not pleasing you that could be hampering his desire.
05/07/2012
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I think its both then lol
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Sex drive and Stamina are two different things. My husband is in his 50s. His drive has dropped slightly, although he is still interested in sex a lot. We have sex at least 6 to 12 times a week!
As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than ...
As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than ...
Sex drive and Stamina are two different things. My husband is in his 50s. His drive has dropped slightly, although he is still interested in sex a lot. We have sex at least 6 to 12 times a week!
As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than when he was younger. But, he gets tired more easily. If that makes any sense. I know sometimes he'll quit after I have had my orgasm(s) and some penetration play. Even if he hasn't had his orgasm. Then we'll do it again in the morning when he's more fresh. He does have a harder time keeping an erection. Not all the time, but more than when he was 20 years younger.
But, drive (the desire to have sex) and stamina (the ability to have energy and last a while) are completely different spheres of action and feeling.
As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than when he was younger. But, he gets tired more easily. If that makes any sense. I know sometimes he'll quit after I have had my orgasm(s) and some penetration play. Even if he hasn't had his orgasm. Then we'll do it again in the morning when he's more fresh. He does have a harder time keeping an erection. Not all the time, but more than when he was 20 years younger.
But, drive (the desire to have sex) and stamina (the ability to have energy and last a while) are completely different spheres of action and feeling.
05/08/2012
If you're trying to have a kid, my husband hated the sex for conceptual reasons, it's too structured that way. Like I was using him to get a kid.
However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down and that's why he's not as interested as he was before.
Stamina is how long he can go.
However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down and that's why he's not as interested as he was before.
Stamina is how long he can go.
05/08/2012
we just had a kid so I defiantly am NOT trying to have a kid, but once you stop talking about having a kid it will happen...well that's what happened for me.
his stamina is alright he can get hard his sex drive is whats low its like he never wants to he doesn't fore play with me at all and it seems to be getting boring wtf am I doing wrong I've talked about it so many times and all he says is we will we will well WHEN DAMMIT!?
his stamina is alright he can get hard his sex drive is whats low its like he never wants to he doesn't fore play with me at all and it seems to be getting boring wtf am I doing wrong I've talked about it so many times and all he says is we will we will well WHEN DAMMIT!?
05/08/2012
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well he doesnt last long either you make a lot of sense is there anything I can do to make it go back up or make it more fun or interesting?
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
If you're trying to have a kid, my husband hated the sex for conceptual reasons, it's too structured that way. Like I was using him to get a kid.
However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down ...
However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down ...
If you're trying to have a kid, my husband hated the sex for conceptual reasons, it's too structured that way. Like I was using him to get a kid.
However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down and that's why he's not as interested as he was before.
Stamina is how long he can go.
However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down and that's why he's not as interested as he was before.
Stamina is how long he can go.
05/08/2012
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