Do men lose stamina as they get older?

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Do men lose stamina as they get older?

SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
Seems the older my husband gets the less interested in sex he is its always home work tv sleep how can I make things more exciting
05/07/2012
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I would say mine has increased rather than lessened, I sure like my sex. For us the opposite is true, my wife has lost her drive, probably why I love my toys so much.

As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, worries etc. on the matter. There could be things like stress or fear of not pleasing you that could be hampering his desire.
05/07/2012
ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by SweetXSurrender89
Seems the older my husband gets the less interested in sex he is its always home work tv sleep how can I make things more exciting
I've never been with a senior citizen or anything of the sort, but I think it completely depends on the man. I can be with one guy who is ten years older, and he can't get enough. Another time, I can be with a guy who is 6 years older, and he'd rather get some sleep and plan on sex once or twice a week.
05/07/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Sex drive and Stamina are two different things. My husband is in his 50s. His drive has dropped slightly, although he is still interested in sex a lot. We have sex at least 6 to 12 times a week!

As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than when he was younger. But, he gets tired more easily. If that makes any sense. I know sometimes he'll quit after I have had my orgasm(s) and some penetration play. Even if he hasn't had his orgasm. Then we'll do it again in the morning when he's more fresh. He does have a harder time keeping an erection. Not all the time, but more than when he was 20 years younger.

But, drive (the desire to have sex) and stamina (the ability to have energy and last a while) are completely different spheres of action and feeling.
05/07/2012
lilys lilys
as we get older everything becomes harder to do
05/07/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I would say mine has increased rather than lessened, I sure like my sex. For us the opposite is true, my wife has lost her drive, probably why I love my toys so much.

As far as what can be done, communication! Let him know your feelings, ...
Hormones are a bitch! For some people getting older renews or even kick starts their drive and stamina and for others it just kills it. I am hoping to have a sort of medium between the two!
05/07/2012
SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Sex drive and Stamina are two different things. My husband is in his 50s. His drive has dropped slightly, although he is still interested in sex a lot. We have sex at least 6 to 12 times a week!

As for stamina, he actually lasts longer than ...
I think its both then lol
05/08/2012
Ropey Ropey
It seems like I'm asking more than he is lately, which is odd. I told him once, but nothing's changed, I'll probably bring it up again. I don't know if we're both stressed from trying for our first kid?
05/08/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
If you're trying to have a kid, my husband hated the sex for conceptual reasons, it's too structured that way. Like I was using him to get a kid.

However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down and that's why he's not as interested as he was before.

Stamina is how long he can go.
05/08/2012
SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
we just had a kid so I defiantly am NOT trying to have a kid, but once you stop talking about having a kid it will happen...well that's what happened for me.

his stamina is alright he can get hard his sex drive is whats low its like he never wants to he doesn't fore play with me at all and it seems to be getting boring wtf am I doing wrong I've talked about it so many times and all he says is we will we will well WHEN DAMMIT!?
05/08/2012
SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
If you're trying to have a kid, my husband hated the sex for conceptual reasons, it's too structured that way. Like I was using him to get a kid.

However, hormones do change as we get older, so his testosterone levels could be down ...
well he doesnt last long either you make a lot of sense is there anything I can do to make it go back up or make it more fun or interesting?
05/08/2012
Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
Yes, they lose stamina. Try breaks/pauses in the action to keep him anticipating your next move.
05/20/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
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Originally posted by SweetXSurrender89
Seems the older my husband gets the less interested in sex he is its always home work tv sleep how can I make things more exciting
Idk but i'm 33 and I prefer younger men.
06/21/2012
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