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That's the Spot!

VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I haven't been able to feel my G spot stimulated during sex...ever. And I never seem to shut my mind off during sex. Is there any way to position myself DURING sex to feel the stimulation? And how in God's name can I find an easy way to shut my mind off?
08/14/2009
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Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Have you been able to feel your G-spot at other times? I have recently had much more luck stimulating my G-spot than ever before - especially after wearing the K-balls and using a wand style vibe against them. I've yet to have PIV intercourse to see if this awareness "translates" but I'm definitely more confident about G-spot stimulation during sex, now. In general, doggie style can offer more G-spot stimulation as well as having your legs up during missionary. A pillow under the hips might help, too. You might try pressing against your G-spot from the outside of your body to heighten G-spot stimulation.


As for shutting your mind off, good luck. The only time I have ever been able to not be so stuck inside myself, I was drunk.
08/14/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Have you been able to feel your G-spot at other times? I have recently had much more luck stimulating my G-spot than ever before - especially after wearing the K-balls and using a wand style vibe against them. I've yet to have PIV intercourse to ...
I have found my G spot before but it just seems that during sex I never seem to feel the stimulation. And when he does put my legs up during missionary, I'm afraid of the pressure. I know, I'm odd But I will definitely give it a shot. I find that I am able to feel the stimulation when he's fingering me and playing with my clit at the same time. I have a combined orgasm. I know it works, I'm just wanting to feel it more during sex.
08/14/2009
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I haven't been able to feel my G spot stimulated during sex...ever. And I never seem to shut my mind off during sex. Is there any way to position myself DURING sex to feel the stimulation? And how in God's name can I find an easy way to ...
Try doing it cowgirl style, but sit up and lean back a bit until you feel it hitting that spot more (putting your hands behind you next to his knees will help you with balance if that's an issue). Doggie style can be good for that too, but you might have to work at a combination of titling your hips and teaching him what angle to thrust at to get the feeling you're after.

Shutting the mind off... impossible, but if you mean that you're thinking about your grocery list during sex, you can aim it in more constructive directions. Think about what you're doing (your technique) and how variations in the movements feel, or how you can improve. Watch his reactions and think about how it makes you feel. It can also be a good time to close your eyes and wander off into your favorite sexual fantasys.
08/16/2009
Liz2 Liz2
Seems to me there are two issues but interrelated...shuttin g your mind off, I 2nd M above..no way and destroys so much of the sensation. Focus on the movements and make adjustments until you find your comfort spot. Cowgirl works for me as does a good warm-up with a vibe and a g spot(curved) dil. I then find my g spot is so much more ready for my b/f's cock to hit the spot. And yes, pay attention and enjoy your partner's reactions to your movements.
Since you have already experienced g spot pleasure by yourself, this should not be a major leap.
08/16/2009
Rockin' Rockin'
It's all about timing for me. If my partner thrusts against my g-spot early in sex, I usually don't feel that great from it. After we've been going a little while, or if there was some fingering or toy play beforehand, then it feels much better when he hits it. I need time to warm up and turn on and be ready to receive stimulation there.

I find if I can look at my partner during sex and concentrate on him and how good he looks and sounds, then my mind's much less likely to wander. Also, if I talk to him, or get him to talk to me, that really keeps me engaged in the moment.
08/16/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Try doing it cowgirl style, but sit up and lean back a bit until you feel it hitting that spot more (putting your hands behind you next to his knees will help you with balance if that's an issue). Doggie style can be good for that too, but you ...
Not to steal this away too much but I find that I think far too much about the mechanics and it's distracting. My inner voice is much too loud, I suppose.
08/16/2009
Owl Identified Owl Identified
If someone figures it out PLEASE TELL ME. I can get myself off via G spot stimulation solo but have yet to do it during PIV sex. I'm also bummed
08/16/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Not to steal this away too much but I find that I think far too much about the mechanics and it's distracting. My inner voice is much too loud, I suppose.
My inner voice is quite a vocal so and so. LOL. Maybe we should have Mind Shutters Anonymous meetings and therapy sessions
08/16/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Try doing it cowgirl style, but sit up and lean back a bit until you feel it hitting that spot more (putting your hands behind you next to his knees will help you with balance if that's an issue). Doggie style can be good for that too, but you ...
I've never tried cowgirl before. Maybe I'll give it a try when we're together next. I'm always afraid of him slipping out of me and being embarrassed when I try to slip it back in and have trouble doing so. I'm also self conscious of my body because my belly jiggles whenever we make love. It's nothing too bad, but it still just makes me feel awkward. Ya know?
08/16/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I've never tried cowgirl before. Maybe I'll give it a try when we're together next. I'm always afraid of him slipping out of me and being embarrassed when I try to slip it back in and have trouble doing so. I'm also self ...
So what if he slips out? i'm sure he won't mind your hand guiding his cock back in
08/17/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
So what if he slips out? i'm sure he won't mind your hand guiding his cock back in
Well, it's more of a "I have a hard time getting it back in" kind of thing. I'm sure he wouldn't mind, though He thinks anything I do is sexy. Unlike my exes. Then again, they're exes for a reason, right?
08/17/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Well, it's more of a "I have a hard time getting it back in" kind of thing. I'm sure he wouldn't mind, though He thinks anything I do is sexy. Unlike my exes. Then again, they're exes for a reason, right?
He probably will not slip out but if he does, so what? Cowgirl gives you more control and if he does slip out, you will be so wet reentry feels so good.
08/17/2009
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