As a woman I have noticed that I get along better with men. When I date them we tend to fight nore. Guessing its due to less emotions and hormones what about you?
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Women or Men?
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Overall I get along best with men. I have a lot of guy friends, and rarely have conflicts or issues with them. While I have very few female friends, I am much closer with the few I have than any of my guy friends. Women seem to understand me better, but in general tend to be far more judgmental over all sorts of things.
12/27/2011
I tend to get along better with men. I just feel like I have more in common with them. I'd rather go fourwheeling and just hang out than go clubbing or something. I'm not a big fan of clothes or shopping or makeup or whatever. I've always been a bit of a tomboy. Even my female partners have said that I behave like a male rather often.
01/09/2012
I'm female and I get along well with both, though varying by context and from person to person. My circle consists largely of straight men and women, with a smattering of LGBTQ friends.
Friendships: My strongest and longest lasting friendships tend to be with straight women. The implicit acknowledgement of no sexual future can make it easier to discuss relationships, which tends to be a focal point in my friendships with women. I get along very well with men of all orientations, although the When Harry Met Sally cliche that men and women can't be friends because sex always gets in the way has a kernel of truth. There have been several times when men I've been friends with for years suddenly have the revelation that I am, in fact, a girl--"you're attractive, we know each other, you like guys too right?" pops up and then the friendship never completely recovers. Sexual tension can be fun, but it's best left unspoken.
Romantic Relationships: The simple answer is that women make better fuck-buddies and casual relationships partners for me. Those situations tend to be more complicated with men. I've had serious long-ish term relationships with both men and women, and have got along with varied degrees of success that have more to do with individual wants/needs/attitudes than with gender.
So...both?
Friendships: My strongest and longest lasting friendships tend to be with straight women. The implicit acknowledgement of no sexual future can make it easier to discuss relationships, which tends to be a focal point in my friendships with women. I get along very well with men of all orientations, although the When Harry Met Sally cliche that men and women can't be friends because sex always gets in the way has a kernel of truth. There have been several times when men I've been friends with for years suddenly have the revelation that I am, in fact, a girl--"you're attractive, we know each other, you like guys too right?" pops up and then the friendship never completely recovers. Sexual tension can be fun, but it's best left unspoken.
Romantic Relationships: The simple answer is that women make better fuck-buddies and casual relationships partners for me. Those situations tend to be more complicated with men. I've had serious long-ish term relationships with both men and women, and have got along with varied degrees of success that have more to do with individual wants/needs/attitudes than with gender.
So...both?
02/08/2012
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Agreed to all of this!
Originally posted by
Ms. Spice
I find that most men can't handle the emotional baggage that I have;however, my female partners tend to have more than myself and they have a better chance tolerating it. However, I find that I'm predominantly attracted to men over women...
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I find that most men can't handle the emotional baggage that I have;however, my female partners tend to have more than myself and they have a better chance tolerating it. However, I find that I'm predominantly attracted to men over women... go figure.
03/15/2012
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I'm FTM and have dated more males pre-transition due to availability. I like women a lot more physically, but emotionally I'm about equal for all sexes.
Originally posted by
levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
03/21/2012
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I think you took the words out of my mouth.
Originally posted by
Ms. Spice
I find that most men can't handle the emotional baggage that I have;however, my female partners tend to have more than myself and they have a better chance tolerating it. However, I find that I'm predominantly attracted to men over women...
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I find that most men can't handle the emotional baggage that I have;however, my female partners tend to have more than myself and they have a better chance tolerating it. However, I find that I'm predominantly attracted to men over women... go figure.
03/26/2012
I'm a woman, in as much as I'm anything (I seriously identify my gender as "sparkle femme"), and I tend to be most attracted to people who are somewhat androgynous. There are a lot of exceptions, to be fair, but I do often find myself drawn to genderfluid fops and butch women and femme men.
05/04/2012
I get along better dating/having sex with females because I tend to understand them more and know how to make them feel good (sexually and otherwise). As far as friends, the women I've had as friends compared to the men I've had as friends are just... way too dramatic. So, I prefer to date/have sex with women, but I prefer my friends to be male.
06/03/2012
I haven't found my success in relationships correlating much with my partners' genders; it had much more to do with their thinking & communication styles, and since I generally don't date people who feel forced to conform to their gender's stereotypical thinking styles, actual gender hasn't played much of a role at all.
07/17/2012
Most of my relationships and sexual experiences have been with men. I find that although I love my friendships with women more, they're too slow for someone as impatient as me when it comes to a relationship. However, I really need feminist men. If I could find an impatient woman, that would probably be perfect.
08/10/2012
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