Bisexual relationships: which sex do you click with the best?

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Bisexual relationships: which sex do you click with the best?

levellc09 levellc09 12/10/2011

As a woman I have noticed that I get along better with men. When I date them we tend to fight nore. Guessing its due to less emotions and hormones what about you?

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levellc09 levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a female
106
I am a male
23
Women
36
Men
57
both
38
neither
6
Total votes: 266 (134 voters)
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Kayla Kayla
I tend to get along with men more easily; we just seem to be able to be more independent and do our own things better. Of course, it definitely depends on the person too, but for the most part, I tend to get along better with guys.
12/10/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I find that most men can't handle the emotional baggage that I have;however, my female partners tend to have more than myself and they have a better chance tolerating it. However, I find that I'm predominantly attracted to men over women... go figure.
12/10/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
I tend to get a long better with men. Im picky about my women relationship wise. but have plenty of women friends. Men seem to be more simplistic.
12/11/2011
Pixel Pixel
I get along so much better with guys. It probably helps that I tend to be seen as either a cool adopted little sister or a girl-bro.
12/11/2011
tA tA
Women. Guys don't really understand a major part of my personality from what I've encountered so far. I'm also just not comfortable with them, even though I've tried to be.
12/14/2011
Peggi Peggi
Typically, I get along better with the type of women I date, but I ended up with a man who I get along with more than I've ever gotten along with anyone else!
12/14/2011
Beck Beck
I usually get along better with females, but for the most part have relationships with men.
12/14/2011
shcoo shcoo
I voted neither. I've had the same amount of problems with both. I prefer the company of men, though.
12/27/2011
eeep eeep
Overall I get along best with men. I have a lot of guy friends, and rarely have conflicts or issues with them. While I have very few female friends, I am much closer with the few I have than any of my guy friends. Women seem to understand me better, but in general tend to be far more judgmental over all sorts of things.
12/27/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
It's funny that since kindergarten I always got along better with males, guess we're tuned the same... ^^
12/31/2011
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
I'm a man only into women
12/31/2011
Snozzberries Snozzberries
I tend to get along best with men but love to have girlfriends.

... though my girlfriends usually treat me like I'm a guy and I treat them like they're pretty girls who need taking care of, so maybe that's indicative of something.
12/31/2011
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I tend to get along better with men. I just feel like I have more in common with them. I'd rather go fourwheeling and just hang out than go clubbing or something. I'm not a big fan of clothes or shopping or makeup or whatever. I've always been a bit of a tomboy. Even my female partners have said that I behave like a male rather often.
01/09/2012
thelittlestdoc thelittlestdoc
I'm female and I get along well with both, though varying by context and from person to person. My circle consists largely of straight men and women, with a smattering of LGBTQ friends.

Friendships: My strongest and longest lasting friendships tend to be with straight women. The implicit acknowledgement of no sexual future can make it easier to discuss relationships, which tends to be a focal point in my friendships with women. I get along very well with men of all orientations, although the When Harry Met Sally cliche that men and women can't be friends because sex always gets in the way has a kernel of truth. There have been several times when men I've been friends with for years suddenly have the revelation that I am, in fact, a girl--"you're attractive, we know each other, you like guys too right?" pops up and then the friendship never completely recovers. Sexual tension can be fun, but it's best left unspoken.

Romantic Relationships: The simple answer is that women make better fuck-buddies and casual relationships partners for me. Those situations tend to be more complicated with men. I've had serious long-ish term relationships with both men and women, and have got along with varied degrees of success that have more to do with individual wants/needs/attitudes than with gender.

So...both?
02/08/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
im female and get along better with guys
02/25/2012
425shark 425shark
Girl with girls haha
03/05/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Spice
I find that most men can't handle the emotional baggage that I have;however, my female partners tend to have more than myself and they have a better chance tolerating it. However, I find that I'm predominantly attracted to men over women... ...
Agreed to all of this!
03/15/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I'm a guy and like only girls.
03/15/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
i can't tolerate other men simply because they enjoy talking about girls like they're pieces of meat for sale. i wish i was a girl
03/15/2012
eroticmutt eroticmutt
I am a transguy, and I get on with males better. I tend to be the partner who needs more nurturing and men are better (in my experience) at providing that, so the relationship is better.
03/18/2012
dhig dhig
men for friends and either for relationships.
03/18/2012
Kaleb Kaleb
Quote:
Originally posted by levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
I'm FTM and have dated more males pre-transition due to availability. I like women a lot more physically, but emotionally I'm about equal for all sexes.
03/21/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I tend to get along with men more easily; we just seem to be able to be more independent and do our own things better. Of course, it definitely depends on the person too, but for the most part, I tend to get along better with guys.
*this!
03/21/2012
nori nori
I also get along well with people on the queer spectrum!
03/22/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Spice
I find that most men can't handle the emotional baggage that I have;however, my female partners tend to have more than myself and they have a better chance tolerating it. However, I find that I'm predominantly attracted to men over women... ...
I think you took the words out of my mouth.
03/26/2012
Marcianpro Marcianpro
I've always gotten along better with guys, ever since I was little. I never seem to understand girls...
04/02/2012
tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
i'm a girl; i think i get along better with other girls
04/03/2012
LusciousLizz LusciousLizz
I generally get along better with females emotionally, but most of my relationships have been with men.
04/04/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I get along well with both genders. I get along better with women in relationships and guys in friendships.
04/10/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
Quote:
Originally posted by RomanticGoth
I get along well with both genders. I get along better with women in relationships and guys in friendships.
Like you, I feel like I have better relationships with women, but my close friends tend to be guys.
05/02/2012
carenautilus carenautilus
I'm a woman, in as much as I'm anything (I seriously identify my gender as "sparkle femme"), and I tend to be most attracted to people who are somewhat androgynous. There are a lot of exceptions, to be fair, but I do often find myself drawn to genderfluid fops and butch women and femme men.
05/04/2012
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I really don't see gender when I select my friends, and get along with both (and with every variance of gender). I have more sexual chemistry with women, but I'm not dating, as I'm in a monogamous marriage.
05/05/2012
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by nori
I also get along well with people on the queer spectrum!
I'm deleting what I said.

I love open minded people and those one the Queer Spectrum tend to be the most of that type.
05/05/2012
kittenfacery kittenfacery
i am female, and i'd say both as my ideal sexual partner would be one with both penis and boobs. yumyumyum, like Eddie Izzard.
05/06/2012
31 Flavors 31 Flavors
I'm male and I've always gotten along better with women.
05/06/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
I get along better dating/having sex with females because I tend to understand them more and know how to make them feel good (sexually and otherwise). As far as friends, the women I've had as friends compared to the men I've had as friends are just... way too dramatic. So, I prefer to date/have sex with women, but I prefer my friends to be male.
06/03/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I'm female and I'm more attracted to women but I get along better with guys, we just seem to think the same way and girls are so much more complicated, sometimes I think they enjoy being upset...
06/03/2012
thePicklez thePicklez
Quote:
Originally posted by levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
I didn't select my gender because I don't identify as either...
06/06/2012
Ashley2012 Ashley2012
i click with both men and women. im a big tomboy and i can take what a guy dishes out and women are alot easier to relate to.
06/08/2012
cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
I tend to lean more towards androgyny/genderqueerd om (if that's not a word, I'm coining it now), and I get along with all genders equally well.
07/13/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
Depends entirely on the person. I don't think there are traits that each gender universally possesses.
07/16/2012
pestilence pestilence
I haven't found my success in relationships correlating much with my partners' genders; it had much more to do with their thinking & communication styles, and since I generally don't date people who feel forced to conform to their gender's stereotypical thinking styles, actual gender hasn't played much of a role at all.
07/17/2012
Charry Charry
I tend to click with men during sex more, I am a woman.
07/19/2012
Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
I LOVE woman!!! I kinda find men much less desirable than woman.
07/21/2012
LadyDragonfly LadyDragonfly
Quote:
Originally posted by levellc09
Please select your sex. Next select the sex you best get along with. Please comment as to why you picked your answer. I know you guys like having the both option so I added it too.
i think all sex is great sex well most sex lol
07/26/2012
sextoyreviewland sextoyreviewland
I get along with men better for friendships and such, but have far better romantic/sexual relationships with females.
08/09/2012
novanilla novanilla
Most of my relationships and sexual experiences have been with men. I find that although I love my friendships with women more, they're too slow for someone as impatient as me when it comes to a relationship. However, I really need feminist men. If I could find an impatient woman, that would probably be perfect.
08/10/2012
crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
I'm male and I click with both sexes as a bisexual...but honestly, some men I just cannot deal with, with how much they disrespect women and put them down like they're a lower species. It's pathetic. Not all of them are like that though.
08/14/2012
kitty1949 kitty1949
I click with both, but moreso women, especially on an emotional level.
08/14/2012
bdan bdan
I think I get along with guys better because I think like a guy. With my bi girl friends I get along good but I always screw it up.
08/16/2012
quantumspork quantumspork
Totally depends on the person for me, although I suppose I ought to have more relationship experience with women to be sure.
08/19/2012
Total posts: 52
Unique posters: 51