How do you feel about bi-sexuals?

Sharay88 Sharay88
I am bi sexual and my fiance excepts this. But some people in my life are a bit put off by this and frankly it hurts. How do you feel about bi sexuality?
11/14/2012
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CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
Bi-sexuals are humans too. People like what they like. Who is to tell them their choices are wrong?
11/14/2012
Sharay88 Sharay88
CollegeFun, that is so true thank you for your insight into the subject.
11/14/2012
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I am too but my boyfriend isnt ok with it but for me it's the person not the sex
11/14/2012
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I am bisexual but family doesn't know. I prefer not to go there with them just because they wouldn't understand. Of course I have no problems with it LOL
11/14/2012
MrWill MrWill
Does you loving or fucking who you want hurt anyone?


Who cares what others think if it isn't harming anyone?
11/21/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
No different than I feel about anyone else.
11/21/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I feel them up them just like I would any person. OH wait...
11/21/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
No different
11/21/2012
novanilla novanilla
I go back and forth between calling myself queer, bisexual, and lesbian depending on my mood one day, so I feel pretty positively.
11/21/2012
Vaginas Vaginas
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Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I am bisexual but family doesn't know. I prefer not to go there with them just because they wouldn't understand. Of course I have no problems with it LOL
I haven't told my parents either for the same reason
11/21/2012
Tara* Tara*
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Originally posted by Sharay88
I am bi sexual and my fiance excepts this. But some people in my life are a bit put off by this and frankly it hurts. How do you feel about bi sexuality?
I feel like everyone is sexually fluid throughout their lives. Everyone is attracted to the same and opposite sex regardless of their orientations, it just depends on how strongly they feel towards their own sexuality as what they believe their orientation is. Girls find girls attractive even if they don't want to have sex with them, and the same goes for males. I personally find myself as a lesbian, but I have heterosexual tendencies.
Don't feel hurt by people's ignorance of you, and the way that you feel. Just be comfortable in your own skin and be you.
And as Morgan Freeman said "I hate the word homophobia. It's not a phobia. You are not scared. You are an asshole."
11/22/2012
Tara* Tara*
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Originally posted by Sharay88
I am bi sexual and my fiance excepts this. But some people in my life are a bit put off by this and frankly it hurts. How do you feel about bi sexuality?
I feel like everyone is sexually fluid throughout their lives. Everyone is attracted to the same and opposite sex regardless of their orientations, it just depends on how strongly they feel towards their own sexuality as what they believe their orientation is. Girls find girls attractive even if they don't want to have sex with them, and the same goes for males. I personally find myself as a lesbian, but I have heterosexual tendencies.
Don't feel hurt by people's ignorance of you, and the way that you feel. Just be comfortable in your own skin and be you.
And as Morgan Freeman said "I hate the word homophobia. It's not a phobia. You are not scared. You are an asshole."
11/22/2012
Vmarie5 Vmarie5
I feel that their is nothing wrong with it!! whatever makes you happy!! follow your heart!
11/22/2012
kristinkat kristinkat
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Originally posted by Tara*
I feel like everyone is sexually fluid throughout their lives. Everyone is attracted to the same and opposite sex regardless of their orientations, it just depends on how strongly they feel towards their own sexuality as what they believe their ... More
I like the phrase "sexually fluid." I may have to use that. I don't like the idea of categories. My husband and I are crazy about each other, and I am bisexual and he is bi-curious, which turns me on to no end. We will definitely be exploring that.
11/23/2012
munroeal84 munroeal84
I believe that you love who you love! I myself am straight, but I have friends who are bi and they are attracted to them based mainly on their personalities no there gender. Some don't see gender when it comes to a relationship!
11/23/2012
wahahahahwahha wahahahahwahha
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Originally posted by Sharay88
I am bi sexual and my fiance excepts this. But some people in my life are a bit put off by this and frankly it hurts. How do you feel about bi sexuality?
its fine!
11/24/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
I'm fine with it as I am one
11/24/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Bisexuality is not something that a person chooses. It's a part of the person's sexual make up and chemistry. Most of us have sexual interests and tastes that change and evolve throughout our lives, and I strongly believe that sexuality is fluid, not set in stone, even though I identify as straight. Some people identify strongly one way or another, others don't. But a lot of people, both gay and straight, seem to think that you have to choose a "side"--either you're gay or you're straight. And they don't like it when you claim to be "both." It stupid, and frankly, I'd never get serious with a person who has an issue with bisexuality, because it's a sign of narrow minded thinking, and simplistic views on human sexuality, which is far from simple. Huge turn off.
11/24/2012
Rraine Rraine
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being Bi-Sexual. I am myself and my boyfriend loves it. We have actually been talking about letting me explore that side every once in a while (with him either watching or joining in of course)
11/25/2012
jr2012 jr2012
I know it's difficult, but it's best to ignore other people's opinions! Whatever makes you happy is best, and luckily there is a big old world full of all different kinds of people...you will find the ones who get you!

Sometimes families and friends just need the time to adjust. I am personally straight, but my sister-in-law got her first girlfriend a few years ago, and the whole family was iffy about it. Fast forward a few years, and they are married, and both of them are completely part of the family. It helped a lot that we both totally love the new girl. It was hard even for the most conservative grandmas to deny how happy they are together, and how healthy their relationship is. People who love you will be happy for you once they see it's a good situation for you!
11/25/2012
Beaners Beaners
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Originally posted by Rraine
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being Bi-Sexual. I am myself and my boyfriend loves it. We have actually been talking about letting me explore that side every once in a while (with him either watching or joining in of course)
There ya go! My boyfriend is bisexual, and I'm okay with him flirting with other guys as long as it doesn't get physical and he doesn't bring anyone home. We have one friend that he's slept with before that I'm okay playing with.
11/27/2012
Tibby Tibby
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Originally posted by Sharay88
I am bi sexual and my fiance excepts this. But some people in my life are a bit put off by this and frankly it hurts. How do you feel about bi sexuality?
Honestly the sex of the person your attracted to means nothing its who the person is that matters.There will always be some offended by someone being openminded. You just have to pity them that they are that pathetic of a person and will be offended by something that has nothing to do with them.

Bi sexuality is allow yourself to be more open to truely finding that person who is perfect for you. And your fiance sounds like a great person. Good luck!!!
11/28/2012
Tibby Tibby
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Originally posted by ginnyluvspotter
I am too but my boyfriend isnt ok with it but for me it's the person not the sex
You said it!!!! its the person
11/28/2012
kadelette kadelette
Some people are very harsh on bisexuals! They're not in a position to judge, though. You love who you love, you're attracted to who you're attracted to, etc. etc. Sorry if you've faced rude remarks though
11/29/2012
linnlinn linnlinn
I feeli like it's the best of both worlds. I'm bi and I love it.
11/29/2012
skittlezjoyann skittlezjoyann
Doesn't bother me. I hate how you tell like family and they look at you different. Like hello you were fine with me before. I'm no different. I'm bi and wouldn't change a thing. You can love someone no matter the gender and if you enjoy what you see there is no problem with that. You're happy.
01/21/2013
PassionCpl PassionCpl
We're both bi. Can't understand people who get uptight about it, especially those who are proud of who they are. We've never understood why it's ok for some to be proud of who they are but will put down people who are equally proud to be something different.
01/22/2013
rawrmonster rawrmonster
I am bi and my boyfriend accepts it completely. I feel like the world is just a bigger oyster for me. As people have said before - I fall for the person.
01/25/2013
Hoshigetsu Hoshigetsu
I have several bi and gay friends and I completely accept them and am very close with them, seeing as I would swing either way as well.
01/25/2013
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