how/when did you know?

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how did you discover you were bi and how old were you?
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Jobthingy Jobthingy
I am not sure how old I was. I know that the idea intrigued me in my mid teens. I never actually did anything with a female until my early twenties.
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Originally posted by evanovca
how did you discover you were bi and how old were you?
I was always attracted to women. I remember when I was really young(7/8) and experimenting with the neighborhood girls, my sister(14) came out as a lesbian. I did not know what a lesbian was. From the reactions she got at school, and the ones I got when proudly professing my sisters sexuality to my classmates, I came to think there was something wrong with this. I remember shortly thereafter, once it had been explained to me what a lesbian was.... I would be watching movies and staring at half naked women in them thinking there must be something wrong with me. It sure as hell didn't stop me though.I guess the whole movie issue solved it for me. No matter what I did, I could not stop staring at women and thinking they were absolutely captivating.
I realized I was bisexual when I was in elementary school I had a crush on my principal and a few other boys and had a crush on girls and my fifth grade female teacher. But even before that I never new what it was called until middle school after that after knowing what I was had a name I was happy
Gallowraven Gallowraven
I was never sure I was bi, but in high school I was often attracted to females. Since it was considered "wrong" I pretty much chalked it up to being a horny teen. A couple years after I graduated, I found myself with a girl, and loved every minute of it. up until that point I was bi curious, after that I knew for a fact I was full on bisexual.
zeebot zeebot
I started figuring it out in grade 7, and was sure by grade 10. It took a while to figure out it was an actual thing though...what can I say, I was isolated.
closed account closed account
to a certain extent...15
Curves Curves
once someone explained to me what bisexuality was, and i went "oh! that's what i am!" in my head. haha. i was about 10?
Meeg Meeg
The first person I ever dated was a woman, and I never once thought I was a lesbian until I started dating men as well and was worried when there was one guy everyone told me was damn hot that I was dating and I just wasn't attracted to him. I was 14 when I first started dating another girl.
Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Originally posted by evanovca
how did you discover you were bi and how old were you?
I was 15 when I fully decided and came to terms with it. Before that it had always been in the back of my mind, but I was very unsure.
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Originally posted by evanovca
how did you discover you were bi and how old were you?
I was around 17 and I developed a serious crush on this one girl in my child development class.... but I remember starting to look at other girls in my school and having a new found attraction for them and appreciation for their bodies and feminine personalities around that time too.
col2717 col2717
Originally posted by evanovca
how did you discover you were bi and how old were you?
I think I knew when I was growing up and in junior high. I felt an attraction to both men and women but didn't actually have an experience with a female til I was about 21 or 22.
SweetSurprise SweetSurprise
I knew around 13 that I had an attraction to women but wasn't sure what it meant. Around 15 I knew for sure I was bisexual..
bilovers79 bilovers79
Originally posted by evanovca
how did you discover you were bi and how old were you?
ever since i can remember i have always gotten turned on by both sexes.
i was 8
tigertiger tigertiger
Originally posted by evanovca
how did you discover you were bi and how old were you?
i don't...know...? i mean i don't really like labelling myself, but it was mostly just a matter of thinking about who i liked/was attracted to/etc. there wasn't much of an epiphany or anything. i mean i did notice that, when i took social dancing classes in college, dancing with other girls was pretty pleasant, but otherwise? idk.
TheParrishism TheParrishism
I just never saw a big enough difference in men and women to justify picking one.
nori nori
I remember dating my first boyfriend at 14. and writing in my diary, how a girl flirting with me gave me butterflies. So i'll have to say then; though i don't think i realized it at this point.
pix pix
I knew I liked guys at 14. I first admitted (just to myself) that I had a crush on a girl when I was 18. I didn't apply the label bisexual until I was 20.
kittenfacery kittenfacery
errrr i was maybe.. err. i don't know... 8? maybe even before that. i watched lots of cool shows like Xena the Warrior Princess and star trek voyager and knew that i'd love to be snuggled by the females more than the males.
but at the same time i like penis. i realised this a lot later when a friend's boyfriend randomly went 'here you go, bet you've not seen one of these in rl before' and essentially whopped his penis on the counter for us both to gawp at. and my thought was 'oh... i... actually wouldn't mind licking that type of thing... regularly... numnum? :3'
hall5885 hall5885
I've never been attracted to a certain gender. Even when I was really little I would have crushes on others and it didn't matter their gender. I thought it was completely normal so it really didn't sink in until I was in my early 20's and heard the term pansexual that I realized that I would fit into that.
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
I think that, subconsciously, I've known I was attracted to women and men since I was a teenager. I didn't admit it to myself until I was in college and told one of my friends that if I was going to date a girl it needed to be her. Now I identify as bisexual and have been with her for 5 years!
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