have you changed your sexual orientation?

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have you changed your sexual orientation?

neon neon
did you think you were one thing and learn you were another? like you thought you were lesbian/gay and then began to feel you were bisexual or any other orientation?
04/11/2011
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Curves Curves
no, can't say i have.
04/14/2011
gumbyD gumbyD
Quote:
Originally posted by neon
did you think you were one thing and learn you were another? like you thought you were lesbian/gay and then began to feel you were bisexual or any other orientation?
Sexuality is fluid. With that said, when people figure out what they like it doesn't change too much. That's why rearative therapy is so harmful and ineffetive. I've found that what I fantasize about is more broad than what I do in reality.
04/14/2011
Brosia Brosia
I used to think I was a lesbian. Now I realize I'm just in love. Sexuality isn't rigid. It changes to accommodate the people we connect with.
04/24/2011
hjtee hjtee
Oh my goodness yes. I have quite the flow chart going. I was straight -> bi
-> lesbian -> bi again -> now a pansexal.
I think I've finally found what works for me.
05/29/2011
MontereyJak MontereyJak
I had no idea what I was. I thought for sure that I was str8 with some bisexual curiousities. After we started swinging it seemed like the couples only wanted str8 guys to play with, no problem. Our recent MFM the guy was bisexual/gay. He had sex with me while I was having sex with my wife. We then switched and got to do something that I had wanted to do for a long time, sex with a guy. So I'm still not sure but I'm sure having a lot of fun doing it.
05/30/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I have never wanted to be anything but what I am but I still believe that sexuality is fluid and is MEANT to be. I have nothing but compassion for people struggling with knowing they simply don't fit or feel comfortable in their own bodies. Whatever makes you happy and satisfied with life is what you should do...at least that's my opinion.
05/30/2011
hornypoet69 hornypoet69
I'm honestly not sure. I was really confused and unaware of my identity throughout puberty, it wasn't until I was 19 that I started seeing my sexual attractions as an identity. So I'm wondering, did I just think I was attracted to girls, because society was telling me I was supposed to be? Or was I really more straight then, than I am now? I've also gone through various labels. I obviously identified as straight for a while. Then I came out as bi. I had a phase where I was using "queer", but that was annoying to explain. I've been identifying as gay for awhile, but lately queer is starting to feel right again.
05/30/2011
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Yes a few times...............
06/29/2011
pollux pollux
I feel like I was born "straight" and have only ever had sexual relationships with women. For a few years now, though, I've been thinking more and more that I have bisexual tendencies and desires. I catch myself checking out other guys and wanting to try fooling around with another guy. I'm definitely in the closet about it but more determined than ever to find a male partner for some experimenting. As for how I will feel if and when I do try something, that's another story.
10/21/2011
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
It's kind of hard for me to say - I had "crushes" on boys as a kid, but I think that may have been because a kid in first grade told me that that was a thing you had to do, or you Weren't Normal. I'm pretty sure they weren't actual crushes since during the same time period I would daydream about my female friends kissing...
10/21/2011
AmberM AmberM
When i was younger i always thought i was straight, but as i got older i realized i was also attracted to girls.
10/22/2011
PassionCpl PassionCpl
Well we were both straight once but are now bi. Does that count?
10/24/2011
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by neon
did you think you were one thing and learn you were another? like you thought you were lesbian/gay and then began to feel you were bisexual or any other orientation?
I originally thought I was straight only but as time went on I got more bisexual tendencies.
10/26/2011
M121212 M121212
Quote:
Originally posted by Brosia
I used to think I was a lesbian. Now I realize I'm just in love. Sexuality isn't rigid. It changes to accommodate the people we connect with.
I like you
10/28/2011
Kkay Kkay
I originally identified as bisexual; now I identify as panseuxal. I think I would've ID'd as pan from the start if I'd known about it.
10/28/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
Nope, always been pretty consistent after reaching that initial awareness
10/30/2011
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Unique posters: 17